First it was my mother in law. Trouble-trouble.Then father in law, nosing-nosing.We have put things to work peacefully and logically without any pains with anyone.
Now distance a bit, but we are busy working on the new house.
Although I 'm not with them, i don't see them, everytime I am out there somewhere, here it comes the news about their awful critisism...
I heard that my sister in law is not contacting my husband. Oh well, this reminds me the days when I was only engaged and I used to hear so bad things against the X-daughter in law before I heard her story!
Now, without me having any clashes to sister in law, already mother in law has poisoned her against me, also her husband & her other son!!Why does my husband have to have bad relationship with his sister? I have said nothing nor been against their relationship!
Now i heard today that my sister in law saw a friend. He said 'give my regards to your brother' and she said 'oh, i don't think so, i won't see him'. AGR!!
2007-02-20 04:17:14 · 5 answers · asked by Spark S 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Girl if this is a relationship that you want to keep you need to ignore what they are saying because it will contuinue no matter what you do. It may seem that it is you it is not they are just unhappy. Girl trust me if you ignore it things will work for you and him. If you don't or can't I know what it's like that was a big reason my marriage ended you and your husband need to find away you stop the S**t and do what you need to but in order for that to work your husband has to want to stop it too. Hopefully yours will unlike mine!! Good Luck I hope I helped.
2007-02-22 11:00:40 · answer #1 · answered by Robin t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your husband's parents are the type that think no woman is good enough for their son. No matter what you say or do, they will always have the same opinion of you. I was in a relationship like that with a woman. We ended up splitting up, and now she's married to someone else. Her parents feel the same way about her new husband as they did about me.
2007-02-20 12:24:20 · answer #2 · answered by Joseph D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bless your heart, as this is a mess.
Those parents love drama, and gossip and how do you get around that??
I never figured it out, as my parents were like that. No one we kids married or dated was OK except to their face and they talked trash about the ones who weren't around! Insane!
When I confronted the situation it was denial out the a@@.
No one could win, as they would fuel alot of needless situations. We have talked it over since, (they are both gone now) and we thought maybe it was competition between them as which one could have our attention, if that makes any sense.
There was no changing them.
Sorry to hear this, and I wish I had an answer for you, but know that the less you are around them, the better.
2007-02-20 12:33:37 · answer #3 · answered by outtahere2day 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mother-in-laws can be that way but remember you two don't need his parents or anyone else to interfere with your relationship anyway.
Some people like to spread rumors within their family and just cant get along anyway.
a lot of families are this way so don't fret just worry about your own family.
believe me i go through the same thing
2007-02-20 12:30:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like they are just being petty and immature even older (supposedly)people dont grow up,do your best to ignore them and not spend time with them let your husband deal with them you go on about your life being happy that will burn them up,when they know that it is upsetting you they win,if you act like even if you dont feel like that you are oblivious to them sooner or later you will gain their respect it may take awhile but bite the bullet you will win it is a contest to them now..........good luck..... try indifference
2007-02-20 12:31:58 · answer #5 · answered by loveChrist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋