me and my boyfriend have been doing sexual stuff for a few months now. should i have sex with him. i love this kid to death and have been with him for about 5 months now.
2007-02-20 03:52:07 · 19 answers · asked by Miss Justinee X3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, I would say that it really depends on how old you are and how old he is, and how responsible you are prepared to be. If you are absolutely certain that you want to have sex with this guy, you should be prepared to use 2 types of birth control at the same time. You should go to your family doctor or a clinic and get the pill or depo-provera and they will tell you how it works and this will prevent you from getting pregnant. BUT - you will always need to use a latex condom while having sex. Always. No exceptions. If you don't do that, you could end up with a disease like AIDS or HIV or Hepatitis and there are lots of others diseases as well. If you follow these guidelines of pregnancy and disease prevention, you could have a very loving sexual experience. Good luck to you, and get to the doctor now. Edith.
2007-02-20 04:01:12 · answer #1 · answered by edithjones 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From your statement two things are clear - 1. He is totally submissive to you like an obedient kid and 2. You have almost done everything in sex!!! If at all there is a thin margin between the act and your deeds, I think its the time to remove that and be good sexual partners!!!
2007-02-20 12:02:41 · answer #2 · answered by THE WORRIER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, if you refer to him as a kid, then no. I assume that you are young, probably high school or even middle school. Wait until you are ready. Sex can complicate things so much. And...you have to think about the consequences. Are you ready to be a mom? Is he ready to be a dad? What about STD's and AIDS? I personally think there is too much risk!
I am almost 25 and still am a virgin. My bf and I have been together 14 months, and he has respected me in my wanting to wait.
2007-02-20 12:00:27 · answer #3 · answered by agentm006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you're ready, it's really your decision from there. But are you ready to face the possibble consequences? What if you get a baby? What if you get a std (sexually transmitted disease), which you will have to live with for the rest of your life, possibly? Do you really believe he is the one? What if ten years from now you find another guy and you love him and you want to marry him? You are going to have to carry this burden along with you all the way. Wouldn't you want to lose your virginity to someone who you are SURE that you are going to marry and spend the rest of your life with?
Just some questions to consider..:) Hope you make the right decision that's best for you, dear.
2007-02-20 11:59:39 · answer #4 · answered by julia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be one of those people that looks back and says I shouldn't have done that. I was young and I thought we were in love. At your age sex is the culmination or hormones. Boys have mad testosterone telling them to get laid. And girls have mad estrogen telling them to find love and nurture. Neither have the wisdom experience or common sense to think that the possibility could exist that the way they feel is anything but right. Just wait. As you may be able to see thi wisdom in waiting as you get older you will truly understand why it makes sense. If you do anyways be careful. And another thing to keep in mind is that boys and men like but don't respect easy women.
2007-02-20 12:18:43 · answer #5 · answered by Tom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound much too young to be having sex. I don't know how old you are but many times age has nothing to do with how old you are mentally. It may be hard for you to stop something you shouldn't have started but I think you should.
2007-02-20 11:59:20 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you refered to him as "kid" makes me wonder how old you are. If you have to ask a bunch of strangers if you should or not then you probably shouldn't but since you're gonna do what you wanna do no matter what all i can say is please take precautions to protect yourself.
Good Luck
2007-02-20 11:58:44 · answer #7 · answered by Kimberly P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you need to ask, you are too young and are not ready.
The only people who "should" be having sex are married couples. Others may chose to, sometimes it's not a bad decision, but sometimes it is. It sounds to me like you are way too young and immature for this.
2007-02-20 11:57:14 · answer #8 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
only have sex with him if you know youre ready, and you also know that you wont regret it later on. Dont feel pressured into having sex with him. If you do have sex though, make sure you use protection.
2007-02-20 11:56:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you asking Yahoo? You already know the answer (yes, you will) and are just looking for affirmation. Make sure he wears a condom.
2007-02-20 11:56:54 · answer #10 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋