While i admit that sausy stories are helpful for arousal, but i find it too much that i have to tell her an erotic story from my own experience. In one hand i have to unwillingly remember those episodes, may also rekindle my longings or lust for them but on the top of everything, i have to face her attack as immediately after the session is over, she rises up and says, "so you had all these activities and intimacy with them"? She becomes angry and sad and remains aloof from me. Later she uses these references and remains offensive often..
Sometime i tried to avoid narrating any story but only to find out that she simply can not come to her pick and have an orgasm without it!
2007-02-20 13:53:48 · 15 answers · asked by bashantapur 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
maybe instead of telling her stories about you with other people, you could do any or all of the following:
1. narrate what youre doing as you do it
2. make up a story and make it sound like you did it, even if its untrue
3. put on porn and narrate what's going on
4. describe your past experiences with her
it sounds like she's turned on by dirty talk. it's normal. you just shouldnt bring up past things with other people since it inspires jealousy.
2007-02-20 13:59:18 · answer #1 · answered by Jennisonfire 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Know what? Women just don't always have an orgasm. It's that simple. We're just not made like men. It's harder for women to have orgasms.
If we don't have an orgasm, it doesn't mean we didn't enjoy the sex. It was probably a blast. It was probably loving and romantic. It probably still made us feel much closer to our lover. A secure woman doesn't mind not having an orgasm every time.
A good woman does not use sex as a weapon against her lover. That is what your girlfriend is doing. It only seems not-so-bad because you actually DO get the sex. Only...she doesn't let you enjoy it. Wow! I'd almost rather not have the sex at all!
Your girl sounds like a piece of work, and you'd be better off without her. In fact, probably any man would be better off without her. She has too much s--- to get together, and it's not going to happen anytime soon. If you want a solid, stable, truly loving relationship with a woman, break it off with her and find somebody else. You sound like a decent guy; there's somebody out there for you, keep looking.
2007-02-20 15:11:12 · answer #2 · answered by katbyrd41 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Keep telling her stories but make them up even if lossly based on fact. Get her to start the story giving you the place etc. Make her the main person in the story with things being done to her, things that she likes.
I have used this method before and it works well for both parties, I also like hearing sexy stories.
2007-02-20 14:03:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose her she seems psycho, after sex you want to relax and sleep not have to fight because some ***** WANTED you to tell her your sexual encounters. I would never ask my boyfriend about past people because i do not want to know at all, it hurts, most people are like that. I'm sure you don't want to hear about some dude ramming your girl and screaming his name, gives you a bad visual and then you get paranoid and then problems start. Lose her before it is too late.
2007-02-20 14:09:43 · answer #4 · answered by sandybottom1017 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal for some people to have troubles climaxing unless they think about something arousing. You don't want to know what turns me on!
2007-02-21 14:12:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont know about your GF, but ive always found it hot when a woman tells me about her hottest sex. But on the other hand if she uses it against you, you are with the wrong gal. Its not longer a fantasy issue. Ditch her.
2007-02-20 13:56:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like she may be looking for a fight
2007-02-20 13:57:46 · answer #7 · answered by MS L 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she's got an axe to grind. Lose her. There are better women out there.
2007-02-20 14:01:54 · answer #8 · answered by m k 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Role play.
Make up stories and have her go along with them.
2007-02-20 13:58:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why are you having sex with someone who you are not married to?
Sex is a gift from God to be shared by a man and a woman who have entered into a covenant with eachother and God Himself.
If you were in such a relationship your marriage bed would be blessed and sex would be great and you wouldn't be filled with questions and loneliness and guilt.
2007-02-20 14:07:58 · answer #10 · answered by Bertie 2 · 0⤊ 5⤋