I have always hated her, she exploits my father financially, is cold and does not love him. I want her to disappear.
2007-02-20 07:07:28 · 25 answers · asked by Dri 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i have been in the same situation as you...and what i have learn't is to stay away from her as much as possible because when you argue and fight all you are really doing is herting your dad,,then friction comes between you and him...and to cut a long story short his wife will get what she wants and thats your dad to her self without any of his kids around them
2007-02-20 21:51:23 · answer #1 · answered by topeefree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a lot you can do, unless your father is mentally not able to make his own decisions. Just keep a close eye on things. Document everything that seems a bit off the mark. What's your Father's take on the relationship? Maybe he's just the type who likes a strong, cold, unloving woman! I would also suggest you find out if your Dad has a will. If the two of you can get some alone time, talk about your concerns. You didn't mention ages, that makes a difference.
2007-02-20 07:13:53 · answer #2 · answered by janice 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Fathers Wife
2016-11-12 07:21:40 · answer #3 · answered by flavia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like my father's girlfriend either. They've been together 20+ years and have 2 kids. She has cheated on my father and treats him horribly!! You didn't say if you lived with them. All that I can do is continue to love my father and try to distance myself from her. I am friendly towards her even though she treated me terribly in the past when I was younger. I don't have to live with her and if my father thinks he is happy then there is really nothing I can do about it!
2007-02-20 07:12:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a simular situation. This woman robbed my family of a
father (Home Wrecker). For years I hated her, finally I just
let it go. Don't get me wrong I'm not crazy bout her now, but I'm
just tired of hatred. I try and avoid her as much as possible,
the problem with that is I don't get to see my father as often.
I have tried to forgive, It's tough though, but I have to keep
tryin. Unless I want to choke on hatred the rest of my life.
2007-02-20 07:36:55 · answer #5 · answered by jon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww Hun I am with you 100% it does not get easier either, instead of stamping your feet get clever, pretend to get on with her and watch out for her weaknesses cos she will have them, if you honestly feel she is financially destroying your dad. Or are you listening to much to other people, its very hard at a teenage age, but you do not let on what age you are and do not give many details. I have been through what you are going through, and so are my kids, four of them. I would like to help you through this so if you would like to you can email me on squawinpants @yahoo.com any time. good luck and in his heart blood will always be thicker than water .
2007-02-20 11:01:10 · answer #6 · answered by squawinpants 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hating her is a natural thing because you feel like she taking your mothers place that can make you think that she is exploiting your fathers money and doesn't love him. i don't think they is anything you can do to make her disappear.
2007-02-20 08:47:26 · answer #7 · answered by nat j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This answer is if you are an adult child.My chidren cannot stand the woman he married.They fight with she dose not let him have a good relationship with any of them.Only when they go to him or call him.She tells their Dad what he can do were he can go how to spend his money.When the kids visit they have to do every thing she says or leave and sometimes they do.But I told my chidren it is their dads choose to be with her and he is the one that has to live with her not them.So they should go visit her and kill her with kindness .Let their Dad know how they feel and let her know no matter what she dose woman come and go but family is forever.The old saying goes you catch more bees with honey then viniger
2007-02-20 07:32:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but she is your fathers wife and you can't change that, only he can. It must be hard for you. Is your father happy?, he must be to some extent or he would not be with her, would he?.
Try not to let your feelings show too much or you will upset your father, and I am sure you would not want that, would you?
2007-02-20 07:16:05 · answer #9 · answered by Dolly Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. You are not married to her. When your father gets tired, he'll take action. Most likely, he perceives her differently than you do. The only thing you can do is avoid the situation by staying away.
2007-02-20 07:13:26 · answer #10 · answered by darkdiva 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋