i hav this group of friends. ive known 1 of them since third grade and i now i LUV him. he asked me 2 my face if i liked him, and i said yes. it turns out that he luvs me 2. i think that it would b really awekward to go out bcuz if we broke up, we might not b friends again. i really dont know wat 2 do! i no that we would eventually hav 2 break up, but i luv him and i he luvs me. he also thinks that it will suk when hav 2 break up. the rest of my friends r begging me 2 go out with him, but im not sure how i will deal with a inevitable break up. the break up will hav 2 happen, but wut shud i do right now? we r so young that i think it will not last long, but my undying luv might get the best of me. wut shud i do? wut shud he do? and wut shud my friends do?
2007-02-20 08:33:47 · 7 answers · asked by rusty2spoon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to decide if you like him more as a friend...once it becomes something else...if will be very hard to remain friends if there is a break up. Friends are hard to come by...boyfriends come and go.
2007-02-20 10:37:13 · answer #1 · answered by mamaonetexasone 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if a break up is inevitable then why go out to begin with? Your friends really should stay out of it. You are the one that has to make the decision. You are also the one that has to live with the choices and the results of your actions. If there is so much doubt about it to start with then just be friends. A better relationship is on the way even if it is with the one you perceive yourself to be in love with at this time. I would say just be friends for now if it is meant to be it will be. Why add to the drama if you need to? Good luck and I hope this helps you.
2007-02-20 08:47:48 · answer #2 · answered by CJ5fan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you convinced that you will have to break up? I know couples (more than one) that started dating in Jr. High and 30 years later are still married and in love. If you love and trust eachother and do not do things to hurt eachother there should not be a problem with you staying friends even if you do break up.
2007-02-20 08:40:33 · answer #3 · answered by Evie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry have no idea what you are trying to say. You are going in circles and you need to learn how to spell. I don't know how old you are but you sound pretty young. Stop worrying about it and just have fun in your life right now. That's what you should be doing. Hope this helps.
2007-02-20 08:41:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't jinx it before it even happens, Go out with him, if you really know him then it should work, give it a chance, try it just don't have sex right out the gate, give the relationship time to change and you'll be able to tell how it's gonna be before you bring sex into it so things won't be awkward
2007-02-20 08:40:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
first, stop spelling everthing wrong on pupose.
if you both care about eachother, there is not problem. Why do you have to break up eventually. many people marry thier childhood sweethearts. if not, your friendship had stood thet test of time, and will continue even if you just want to be friends.
2007-02-20 08:38:26 · answer #6 · answered by NY Lady 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
"wah wah wah"...*Gucci Girl hands you a tissue*
to answer your question...just stay in school and pay attention in English class and stop paying attention to stupid people. At the end of the day, these people do not get you into a good college.
2007-02-20 08:39:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋