My girlfriend has her best friend living with her in her house .She can make feel very uncomfortable when I'm there , as if she doesn't want me around . This girl has had much luck with relationships , and has had really enjoyed parting when my girlfriend was single . Anytime we have an argument or i cant call over this housemate brings her out clubbing . I get the feeling that her friend wants her single again so they can have fun like the good old days .
She has admitted that when she see's us together that it makes her sad but does she secretly want our relationship to end .
2007-02-20 08:04:48 · 15 answers · asked by johnny.20022002 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is possible that she is trying to sabotage your relationship. But even if that is the case, you need to be careful. Acting jealous and letting this cause problems with your girl won't do you any good. If the relationship is good and "meant to be" then you should be able to trust your girlfriend inspite of her best friends actions. I'm sure she would really appreciate it if you were cool with her having a few girls only nights every once in a while.
2007-02-20 08:14:47 · answer #1 · answered by Star Dust 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girl needs to have a talk with her so called friend. That she feels that way is really wrong. A true friend would always want her friend to be happy. No matter what. I got a divorce and I was staying with my best friend. She was worried that if I saw her and her hubby happy together that it would throw me over the edge. I had to tell her not to worry about it. I was glad they were happy! That is friendship!
2007-02-20 08:11:25 · answer #2 · answered by SHELLBELL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something nice for the roommate. Buy them both dinner, flowers for both of them, or some sort of girley treatment. I'm not saying suck up to the roommate, but show her that you're a good guy and that your g/f is in good hands.
2007-02-20 08:10:17 · answer #3 · answered by auapc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she want the relationship to end? Probably
What does your girfriend want?
Talk to her, Let her know what you're feeling.
If you can't talk to her you don't have much of a relationship and you might as well get a dog.
2007-02-20 08:10:06 · answer #4 · answered by JAK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you really didn't ask a question but what i would suggest is to call out the roomate meaning, say " b!tcch why you haten boo! Get a man and get laid dammnn." That should solve your problem.
2007-02-20 08:09:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!!!! She wants your girl to be single because her friend is MISERABLE and ALONE! Her friend wants a boyfriend as good as you so desperately, that she'll try and ruin her friend's relationship just so it can be like either the 'good old days', or so that she can possibly get you for herself.
2007-02-20 08:09:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
work on your relationship so that your girlfirend is not always running to her. there has to be problems! deal with it people will always hate on a good thing or on something that they dont have and want.
2007-02-20 08:21:36 · answer #7 · answered by Jan l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend isn't worth it, dude. Start planning to trade up.
2007-02-20 08:08:54 · answer #8 · answered by Avatar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your girlfriend about it. If she doesn't know it is a problem for you, nothing is going to change.
2007-02-20 08:07:38 · answer #9 · answered by KP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm. wouldn't it be cool to persuade them for menage a trios. just a suggestion .. hey, but if it works you are THE MAN.
2007-02-24 07:19:35 · answer #10 · answered by Di Snow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋