I let my so go over my sistrer house over the weekend and when he came home he told me his cousin( 5years old) kissed his butt and he told me mommy you should kiss on the lips right not on the butt right and I said yes baby why you ask?? and he told me what the boy did.. now my sister live a life with a woman because her husband left her and she said they don't do anything around the kids or when other people are around so I let my son go over there for a sleepover,, now my son is saying my newphew kissed his butt,, my sister is going to say my son is lieing but what would you do???? I'm sick right now and need to calm down I know..
2007-02-20 07:39:54 · 4 answers · asked by ladytee 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Euphoria,do you have kids?? In this day and time i take every thing seroius.. what if he saw he's mom kissing her girlfriends butt and thinks it works that way?? I've never would have said someone kissed my butt and din't mean it.. listen to kids is what I think stop thinking there just playing
2007-02-20 07:55:20 · update #1
Who knows where the other little boy is picking them up. Don't overplay your concern. However, you may not be comfortable with your son staying over there unmonitored anymore.
You need to have an honest and open discussion (if that's possible) with your sister about her son. Something's up.
2007-02-20 08:14:30 · answer #1 · answered by Avatar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are a lot worse things that they could be doing. personally if my son, who is almost 3, told me that i would laugh and tell him that its not ok to kiss people's butt... but seriosuly why are you getting so upset they are 3 and 5? don't you remember being a goofy kid and doing stupid or gross stuff...
in response to your additional comments. yes, i do have children. i actually have 5 children, 2 boys and 3 girls. maybe her son did see something he shouldn't have and i am sure if that did happen it was an accident. sometimes children walk into bedrooms without knocking. and i am sure it is embarassing for everyone involved. i never suggested your child was lying. i am suggesting that you are overreacting a little here; along with most everyone else... tell your child it was inappropriate & calmly talk to your sister about it. its not the end of the world.
2007-02-20 15:48:14 · answer #2 · answered by enigma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a good laugh,calm down then have a heart to heart talk with your sister. Just explain your concerns,requests & whatever else that concerns/worries you.
2007-02-20 17:52:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know....................2-pts
2007-02-20 15:49:04 · answer #4 · answered by bbnicole104 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋