Question for females?

Question

Would you ever go out after work with a married male co-worker and tell his wife that you and her husband are just best buds and nothing is going on between them. Then pick up his beer and share it right in front of his wife. I think this was very disgusting and disrespectful and my husband says no big deal? What do you think?

that was also the same night she spilled beer all over and i was in a cast so my husband jumped up to wipe the table and went to her side first while beer ran all over me. Then to top the night off we were going to get a bite to eat afterwards but she got so drunk that he had to babysit and make sure she got home safely.

Answer 1

totally agree with you

Answer 2

Go figure all I wanted was honesty and there you have it,a beautiful thing and you are not appreciating it. I hope you do not take offense to this, I mean it for your own good, it sounds to me like you are having some major insecurities and the more you accuse him of doing things he will get frustrated more with being with you because if the truth as bad as it might seem isn't good enough what is? Have you ever heard of a cheating guy say "I was getting accused so much that finally I said why not do it if the end result is the same". Realized that just how great you are and learn to disregard the negative thoughts and replace them with the positive ones about you. He married you obviously cause you are amazing, with him and without him. Realize this so you are not at fault for throwing away a healthy marriage (not to mention, a rare breed of men),and if he does make a mistake at least you know your self worth for the next worthy opponent!

Answer 3

I WOULD ONLY GO OUT WITH THE MARRIED CO-WORKER IF HIS WIFE COULD COME; AND I WOULD NEVER, EVER, PUT MY MOUTH ON THE BEER THAT HE WAS DRINKING -- ESPECIALLY IN FRONT OF HIS WIFE -- UNLESS I WAS SCREWING HIM. OR REALLY WANTED TO. LET'S FACE IT. THERE'S SOME THINGS YOU JUST DON'T DO.

I AM NOT A JEALOUS WOMAN, AND WHAT YOU JUST DESCRIBED WOULD NOT MAKE ME JEALOUS. IT WOULD PISS ME OFF.

I HAVE BEEN THAT FEMALE BEFORE. I'VE DONE THOSE SAME TRICKS. I'VE SAID THOSE SAME THINGS. AND I'VE PLAYED THAT SAME GAME. I HATE TO SAY IT, BUT SHE IS TESTING THE WATERS. AND THE MORE WAVES THAT SHE CREATES, THE HAPPIER SHE IS. BELIEVE ME WHEN I SAY THAT SHE IS FEEDING OFF OF WHATEVER REACTION YOU GAVE HER. REGARDLESS OF WHAT YOUR HUSBAND SAYS, YOU'D BETTER WATCH OUT.

THE BEST THING THAT YOU COULD DO WOULD BE TO ACT LIKE IT DOESN'T BOTHER YOU. (AND I KNOW HOW HARD THAT WILL BE.) IF THAT SKANK DOESN'T GET A RISE OUT OF YOU, THEN SHE'LL STOP WHATEVER GAME SHE IS PLAYING AND GO FIND SOMEBODY ELSE TO PLAY WITH. I CAN'T SAY FOR SURE THAT SOMETHING IS GOING ON WITH THE TWO OF THEM......BUT I CAN SAY THAT SOMETHING IS DEFINITELY GOING ON WITH HER.

AS FAR AS YOUR HUSBAND GOES.....HMMM....IF HE'S NEVER GIVEN YOU REASON TO DOUBT HIM BEFORE, THEN I WOULD TRY AND AT LEAST PUT ON A FACE THAT DOESN'T SHOW ANY DOUBT NOW. TELL HIM THAT YOU BELIEVE HIM, BUT YOU STILL THINK SHE'S UP TO SOMETHING. AND THEN LET IT GO. SIT BACK AND WATCH. IF HE'S NOT RUNNING TO HER AND TELLING HER WHAT A B**CH YOU ARE BEING OR HOW DIFFICULT YOU HAVE BECOME, THEN SHE'LL GROW TIRED OF IT AND GO ON HER WAY. AND THEN YOU'LL HAVE YOUR HUSBAND BACK AND HE'LL ALWAYS REMEMBER HOW MUCH YOU TRUSTED HIM.

Answer 4

I think someone is lying .If another woman ever shared anything with my husband other than a civil conversation she'd get her nose shoved up to her brain. That is very disrespectful and it should be stopped.Its like hes saying ill do whatever the hell I want.Hes a married man and should know better.Oh Hell No!That wont happen again ,thats for sure.REAL BIG DEAL!!

Answer 5

That just sounds messed up, you have every right to be agree about the whole situation. i would be furious if this was my husband doing this. this is a very big deal. and i hope you show your husband all of the answers that you recieve. there is no reason why he should have to babysit this woman he has absolutly no obligation to her. the only woman he should have obligation to is you. and i cant believe the nerve this girl has, if it was me i would have given her a piece of my mind.

Answer 6

Yeah...that's a little strange. They're a little too chummy, it seems. Of course, he's not going to say "yeah, it's a big deal" and obsess over it because he doesn't want to stir up problems between you two. She was disrespectful...she needs to drink her own dad-gum beer !!!

Answer 7

I think if it was in the reverse your husband would have a problem with it. There's always double standards when it comes to men unless we put our foot down. What he did was disresectful to you as his wife. He's not single, but if he did that again he would be. They can't have their cake and eat it too. Is she married or single? If she's married, I wonder what her spouse would think about it. I don't believe there is nothing going on or not about to. Don't play the fool.

Answer 8

I think you better keep an eye on your man. Unless she was real drunk and didn't know it was his, there might be something going on. But then again i don't think you would know about her if there was something going on.
trust your instincts

Answer 9

The fact that she did this in front of you reiterates the fact that they are indeed best friends. You are looking way too much into an innocent situation.

Answer 10

Yes, that is definately overstepping some bounds. If the wifey is cool with it, then maybe. But if it bothers the wifey, then she is verging on dangerous territory. Him, too!!

Answer 11

I don't think that it is a big deal. I at times do drink out of my friends cups if I am tasting there drink.