my boyfriend of a year and a half is a great guy but has done out of the ordinary things in the past that i cant seem to let go. hes bad with the phone and doesnt always pick up my calls , mine and everyone elses, lets just put it this way hes done suspicious things that i have called him out on and i said it looks really weird and he denies hes ever done anything like that cuz he knew what i was thinking, and when i ask him why he did it he has an explanation. then when he speaks i truly believe him and that hes being sincere. i would never be with someone who cheated on me ever. he knows how it feels his ex gf did it to him and we always made a promise since i first met him to break up first beffore anything happens. how do i just let go of the past and continue with our future. btw, hes a very sweet caring guy so nice and sweet that i think he could NEVER ever do tha to to me. he tells me im his dream girl and i know he loves me. how do i stop being paranoid. i really need advic
2007-02-20 05:03:03 · 4 answers · asked by nygirlsrdifferent 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if u wanna talk through email or im id go into more of suspicious things with u that would b great
2007-02-20 05:22:09 · update #1
If you are having trust issues with this guy then you need to talk to him... If the phone thing bothers you and you talk to him. He should try and answer your calls.... How much do you try and call?
I no that us girls seem to have this crazy idea in our head that we can change people... Why don't you sit back and look at your self... Like ok Maybe you call to much.. Maybe your always accusing him of things. So he doesn't want to talk to you on the phone.. Maybe your not giving him his time to be with friends or family or just by himself... When is his word good enough? When my husband tells me something I believe him.. I don't question his motives about anything..... I trust him completely 100%. I'm not saying its you.. I just wanted to make sure that you are not trying to find something wrong...... I'm not saying that he isn't doing some thing.. I don't know... I can say by what I could see(read) that it didn't seem to be anything to worry about.....(Hun don't sweat the little things)
I wish you the best...
2007-02-20 05:27:19 · answer #1 · answered by mrs.mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I have been there in my own relationship and most of the suspicious thing I have found were really explainable but I did take the time to investigate what he told me also. I was happy to know there was one good guy left maybe you should just relax and as you said let the past go!
2007-02-20 05:47:06 · answer #2 · answered by Brittany A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please give more info on "suspicious things" b/c the fact that he doesn't always pick up the phone is not enough, since that could even result from the fact that there might be times when he just doesn't want to be bothered by anyone.
2007-02-20 05:21:12 · answer #3 · answered by whattodo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, its wise to listen to that small, little voice that's telling you to be suspicious.
2007-02-20 05:13:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋