Other - Family & Relationships - 3 January 2007

How can he be a husband & father, go to work everyday, socialize with friends and live his life (on the outside) one way & be hiding who he really is on the inside? He is deceitful, living a lie. He is a porno-addict and he has been found out. How could he do this for 10 years? What is going on with this? How can he ever be trusted again? He is pathetic. What do you think?

2007-01-03 07:06:45 · 6 answers · asked by Forever 6

If your cousin tried to have sex with your wife how would you react to that and how would you handle the situation

2007-01-03 07:04:34 · 5 answers · asked by young grown man 4

I'm self concious, and hate my appearance. I know most girls go for a mix between personality and looks but I am not happy with my looks and I'm far too shy. I hardly speak to any girls and have hardly any female friends. How can I make new female friends (bearing in mind I'm extremely shy and self concious). Also what do girls love about Guys appearance and personality wise?

Another thing I'd like to ask is do you think it's worrying that a 16 year old male has never had a girl friend before 'cus I really do and I think that plays a big negative against my self confidence! Please help me! What can I do??

Thanks

2007-01-03 06:56:39 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 19 years old, and I use to be the type of person that was never freaked out about the future. I went off to college when I graduated high school and when my family took me to move in, all we could do is cry. I moved back and I am going to a co0mmunity college, but now all I can think about is if i move out then I will be growing up and my parents will then be gone one day and I dont believe I can handle that. A part of me wants to live life to the fullest like i should but the other part of me is terrified and crying because she doesnt know what to do....help please!

2007-01-03 06:53:59 · 29 answers · asked by brandi_webb25 1

We dont normally do gifts for xmas and we went to nyc for new years and he paid for most of everything. Is this supposed to mean anything?

2007-01-03 06:52:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hello, Over the weekend we went to the Hyatt Regency for New Year's Eve. It was a wonderful time but at Midnight they had what seemed to be a million balloons dropping and they were large 16" balloons blown up very tight and people were popping them everywhere and it was incredibly loud. My wife hates balloons popping anyway but was doing ok for a while. She kept holding balloons and dancing and people kept popping them for the next 2 hours and it was really loud and they were very obnoxious drunks in doing so. My wife now feels she ruined the night because we left the party to our room because of the balloon popping. She did take 5 with her and even brought them home with us on Monday. She feels she ruined NYE for me and I keep telling her that I love that she is a sensitive and sweet person but she is very distraught about this. How do I convince her that I love her for who she is and it makes her special?

2007-01-03 06:51:26 · 8 answers · asked by Bo123654 1

My twin sister and i are so close that we would die for each other
When we were 17 we went to our family doctor to get our tubes tied or something like that and we were rejected and than again 2 years ago when we were 20 and we were rejected again from 3 different doctors
Now my sister and i got accepted to a school that only accepts 25 students for its veterinarian program that it has and it is the hardest school to get into in Canada we both loves animals more than anything
my grandmother died when she gave birth to my mother and my mother almost dies giving birth to us that she was intensive care for 3 weeks and that most likely will happen to my sister and I
My sister is 4 weeks pregnant and i don't know what she is going to do but one thing i do know about females is that when they have a baby they change and that is scary to me if my sister has a baby than she will be an alien to me and i cry every day

2007-01-03 06:48:38 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

that he enjoyed being attached to a dog leesh and barking like a dog.Although i must say i found it a little odd, i went along with it as i love him.Anyway i bought him a dog bowl as he likes to really get into the role and insists on being fed pedigree chum for dinner.Anyway my problem is i have just taken him for his nightly walk(which he demanded he do naked) and he ran onto the neighbours garden and pooped on their garden.I know that technically i should scoop the poop but dont you think he is really pushing the limits of love?I keep telling him he isnt really a dog but he just keeps barking at me and wagging his tail.What shall i do?

2007-01-03 06:45:57 · 54 answers · asked by Nellynoo 4

2007-01-03 06:44:52 · 6 answers · asked by J 1

2007-01-03 06:44:01 · 4 answers · asked by bubi 2

There's a possibility that he could be deceased

2007-01-03 06:42:27 · 5 answers · asked by Red Devil 1

2007-01-03 06:40:02 · 10 answers · asked by lzinzoid 1

My children's father has six or more children with five different women. He has cared for none of them and denied all but three of them (my two and his former wife's) but he never goes to see his kids, he does not want photos of them etc... Do these types of men not realize that their children contain part of their soul? As such they deny and hate themselves. How can this happen?Why does this happen?

2007-01-03 06:39:33 · 15 answers · asked by ? 1

A younger woman or older?

2007-01-03 06:39:18 · 12 answers · asked by Blue Eyed Blonde 1

My wife and I are looking to move west of the Mississippi River to pursue a new start for our marriage. We are looking at the area between Arkansas, Oklahoma, North Texas, even towards Wyoming. We are looking for an area that has a lot of manufacturing opportunities, as well as a relatively small population. We have recently gone through a devastating time, where a lot of people in our families, and our friends have imported their own agendas for our marriage, and it has nearly killed it. For this reason, we feel we can't make it here in the Carolinas due to the immense pressure we both are under to leave the other. Any ideas of places to move would be incredible...

2007-01-03 06:23:18 · 3 answers · asked by Simple Man Of God 5

My best friend was set to be married to her boyfriend of three years in April. But, the Friday before New Year's, the guy broke it off wanting to end it permanently on the grounds that she is too immature for such a commitment and, him being in the Air Force, didn't want to worry all the time about her and their future kids. Unfortunately, my friend was under the impression that there was still hope (trying to change for him). On New Year's Eve, my boyfriend and I had a get-together at our apartment for all of our friends. The exes decided they would still be coming. Even though the guy showed up with a date (who I and my boyfriend think he cheated on my friend with before the break up), trying to show my friend this was it for them, she still thinks there's a chance. He's cheated on her in the past and I've never told her because everyone else who has tried has failed because she refuses to believe it. After my hints, she still believes they will be getting back together soon. Help!!!

2007-01-03 06:12:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-03 06:09:35 · 18 answers · asked by talisha b 1

2007-01-03 06:00:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-03 05:59:35 · 59 answers · asked by sm 1

she retired at 55,also my wife an i are disabled with two teenage kids and my mother in law will come for weeks with her old boy friends and eat us out of house and home,and never offer a penny for food,she is rich,and is so cheap it would make you sick.when shes here and we say we are broke and cant afford food,she says we can all eat hot dogs and doesnt offer a penny.what can we do?

2007-01-03 05:55:19 · 7 answers · asked by john doe 5

My son loves his games on the computer and will sit for hours and would stay up all night on weekends if allowed.We have a time table for school nights and weekends but I would like to see him do other things but since we moved away from his friends he does this now.We talk about doing other things but he isnt interested.What do you think is a long enough time on the computer a day?

2007-01-03 05:52:11 · 7 answers · asked by karen e 2

Can you help me out i'm sick of calling her darlin

2007-01-03 05:45:22 · 21 answers · asked by William H 1

Ok, so I dated this guy for 9 months, it was ok most of the time, but lots of pointless arguments as well. The relationship ended by me cheating on him. After that he broke up with me after I BEGGED him back. So about two months later I heard he got a car accident so I called him. He said that I was the only person he thought about and he CONTINUOUSLY begged me back. I said no because things never worked out, and he's boarder-line crazy. Be is the kind of insecure person and no girl really wants him just because of the way he is. So today he IMs me and goes ON AND ON about hanging out with girls doing this and that and blah blah blah, however, he is known to lie to make him look good. So I'm thinking he's making it all up and he still wants me back. But I just don't understand.
Plus he throws around the word "love" like it's monopoly money!
Why isn't he up-front? Does anyone think they know what's going on or have advice?

2007-01-03 05:43:57 · 7 answers · asked by pink_beauty3 1

2007-01-03 05:38:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-03 04:56:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

im almost 4 months pregnant. My babys father tends to drive me crazy and sends me in emotional circles. I met him only 6 months ago, and since day one he had my heart, the only problems are...he has lied to me in the past he has cheated on me. He has multiple promises he has yet to keep. So in love but its so hard to trust him, but at the same time i cant see myself without him,this is my first child. He tells me that things are going to get better but ive yet to see a rapid change. He doesnt really do too much to get my trust back. Im driving myself crazy having a hard time trying to trust him because of all the pain he has cause me, plus being pregnant my hormones are all out of wack. How many chances should i give him to treat me right before i leave? He wants me to stick around and be there for him, he said thats what a good woman would do. So my question is...after broken promise after broken promise should i leave him or should i stick around and try to make things better?

2007-01-03 04:54:38 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-03 04:50:00 · 36 answers · asked by Amanda 1

my best friend is the biggest whore ever.. & ive tried to tell her that whut shes doing is wrong but she dont listen. i even think she has some STD's but she wont admit it. how can i help her or make her realize whut shes doing is wrong.

2007-01-03 04:46:37 · 30 answers · asked by Amanda 1

have a close friend whom has been acting wierd lately.First off he all started when she came over after thanksgiving, she had been calling me everyday, and then she stopped.And once she left my house, she text messaged me calling me an hoe, (which was out the clear blue sky) I don't know where the hell that came from, and then she stopped calling me altogther, and so I called her to wish her a happy new years, and she never returned my call..which like I said before, in which I 'm never used too, Anyone have any advice as far as how to interpret it and what to do?

2007-01-03 04:23:56 · 41 answers · asked by Stephanie 1

My boyfriend since highschool and I are back together. He was always a really nice guy and all throughout highschool I cheated on him with an old boyfriend and other guys. I tricked him into getting me pregnant by telling him that I was on the pill, we had a daughter and lucky for me the child was his. Finally he decided he did not want to be with me anymore when he went away to the military. While he was gone I had another boyfriend and we moved in together, and I became pregnant again just when my highschool boyfriend returned from the military. I broke up with my new boyfriend and my highschool boyfriend moved in. I'm going to have a girl and I'm pretty sure that the child is not my highschool boyfriends, who wants to give her his mother's name. Should I just have the child and let my highschool boyfriend sign the birth certificate and give her his mother's name. After he grows to love the child, maybe he will not care that it isn't his.

2007-01-03 03:50:05 · 52 answers · asked by Candance1811 1