Other - Family & Relationships - 3 January 2007

My best friend is happily married and has been for 2 1/2 years. And it's not just a fake marriage where they act like they're happy, I'm really close to both of them and they really are happy. They treat each other like royalty. But here's what's weird. She broke up with an ex boyfriend 4 or 5 years ago, which was a pretty serious relationship, and she still loves to think about how she left him and how he probably cries over her everyday still. I have told her several times that she dreaming, but she says it makes her feel good about herself. Should she still be doing this after so long, and also while she's married?

2007-01-03 09:59:05 · 12 answers · asked by #1 Buckeye Fan!!!! 4

How much suffering would be saved in our lives.

2007-01-03 09:51:38 · 14 answers · asked by bob 2

was thinking of going to amsterdam but am taking my mother and aunties with me so its too risky as there is too much temptation to misbehave. ( not that sort.) would appreciate any tips on somewhere not too far from cork but with a good night life. thanks x x x

2007-01-03 09:49:43 · 16 answers · asked by mariska s 2

Then the next thing you know she's telling people that you were ******* her babydaddy so you did. Does that still make you triffling

2007-01-03 09:47:12 · 8 answers · asked by lanea e 1

2007-01-03 09:45:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a problem. My mom a never asks me a question without knowing the answer so almost never get away with lying yet try to do it sometimes anways. She is very intimidating and I lie over stupid things. I get so scared. today she asked me “are u wearing ur contacts” I said yes even though I wasn’t. “if your lying tell me the truth” I said “im not” I then proceeded to “try” to get the contact out of my eye to show her. later she said she then said “if you don’t tell me the truth now, your pushing my limits” then she said “youll never get ur doll collection back if u lie about this”(I luv my collection thats been in her closet for two years now because ive never “earned them back”.)I didn’t want to admit about contacts then, because then shed say “oh so when it comes to those damn dolls youl come clean but you don’t give a **** about your own mother?”(cont...in additional details)

2007-01-03 09:39:33 · 7 answers · asked by ♥Pictsy♥ 4

I asked a close female friend that we need to lose contact for awhile(no time limit set)-so that I can get over my feelings for her.
She said that she don't deserve my feelings.

She also said “If thats how you feel sweetheart,ok and that maybe you do need time out”.She only wants to be friends.The conversation ended with an argument, with her calling me 2 faced and selfish.(asked her if she ever felt anything for me and for her to be truthful).Why would she call me this? We're close friends-we were never a couple.

We've not spoken for a month....tried to get in touch---she's not responded at all.

I just want to know WHAT I HAVE DONE?

Surely by me getting back in touch, she should recognise that I've delt with my feelings.

She said that we're only friends---could she have possibly fancied me?If so why didn't she tell me?

Wanted to be a true friend---thats why I asked for no contact for AWHILE---not for good....

2007-01-03 09:37:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-03 09:35:57 · 16 answers · asked by bob 2

2007-01-03 09:23:30 · 15 answers · asked by bob 2

When my boyfriend came to live with me and my kids he brought the movie Brokeback Mountain and my 13 yr old daughter who has ADHD wants to see it do I let her?

2007-01-03 09:16:55 · 28 answers · asked by Maddigahn 1

2007-01-03 09:04:37 · 9 answers · asked by sm 1

....i dont understand, he refuses to tell me why. what he does not understand that i am going to get him in a quiet corner tomorrow and have a little word with him. anyone know why he calls me this?

2007-01-03 09:04:05 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't know if this guy likes me or not. He has asked me out to the movies twice, and both times when we went his guy friends were with him, I was the only girl there. We've met up with friends at a dance club and both times he has only danced with me the whole time. He also invited me to his house and we stayed up talking all night. He has never, not once, tried to kiss me or anything, not even hold my hand. He will sometimes call or send text messages like "what's up sexy" or "good morning" like 2 0r 3 times a day, and then won't call or text for like a week or two. I have a crush on him but I just can't figure out if he likes me or not. It seems when he begins getting closer his just runs away. please help I am confused!

2007-01-03 09:03:08 · 2 answers · asked by sexylatina 1

i have a b/f who loves to steal bibles from the library and then give them away to other homeless people thinking he is better than them, there is security here should i tell on him he has stolen 7 bibles from here but then i will lose him .. he said he won't do it again..?HELP???????

2007-01-03 09:00:19 · 8 answers · asked by peaches 2

i live close to a family member. thier kids are always at my house. between thier 3 & my 3, they trash my house every time! if i tell them they can't come over, they show up anyway & tell me thier dad told them to come to my house b/c they get on his nevers. don't get me wrong, i love them & don't mind them coming over, but it's like i have no say in it. how do i politly tell them they need to deal w/ thier own kids, even if they get on thier nevres? or an i being a b**ch about it? please tell me your opoin & what i should do. thank you for your time.:)

2007-01-03 08:55:43 · 4 answers · asked by rblankenship_rblankenship 5

whats the most embarasing thing youve ever done?

2007-01-03 08:42:36 · 2 answers · asked by cheergal4 3

change your socks ......is it more than once a week .....or once a month?

2007-01-03 08:37:09 · 39 answers · asked by crazeeladee no more 5

i have this old friend, she droped all of her friends for this new boyfriend. and me and all of my other friend know that he is messing around on her. but she wont belive us if we tell her. they are living together and have been together for almost a year. and he has been messing around an her for almost the whole time. and i tryed to tell her in the begging but she blew me off. how can i tell her? to where she might believe me?

2007-01-03 08:29:30 · 13 answers · asked by avery's mommy 3

hello....i am married but still think about my GF in college. Is it normal? I think i would have been happier with my GF.

2007-01-03 08:26:53 · 26 answers · asked by nav_nav2000 1

my boyfriend and i got pregnant after a month of knowing each other. we moved in together and had our baby. the problem is we disagree about everything. we are very different. i like to go out he likes to stay home. im optimistic hes pessimistic. i stay at home with the baby. he accuses me of cheating with people on myspace all the time. he has trust issues from a previous relationship. he hardly helps me with the house or the baby. i dont ask much just do dinner dishes. under different circumstances i would not have been with him. we never really had the chance to get to know each other and now that we have we really dont like each other. we love each other but the spark is gone and im losing the desire to make things work. i also feel stuck because i dont have money of my own.even if i wanted to leave i cant. is there any hope for us to regain the love we once had for each other or should we go our seperate ways and raise our son apart. i dont want to argue anymore.

2007-01-03 08:21:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-03 08:17:28 · 9 answers · asked by MJ 6

2007-01-03 08:16:46 · 3 answers · asked by Love United 6

my fiance asked me this question and i didn't know what to say so i asked her back "do u like banana or chocolate pudding??" ok im lying but answer the question!!...who would you go for??

2007-01-03 08:12:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-03 08:02:46 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Like my mom she had me when she was 19 and clearly not ready for motherhood. Things that she should have protected me from she didn't and I feel like I went through as saw things that could have been prevented had she been "ready" to have children. I'm not bitter or anything I was just wondering if there is anyone else who wonders how different (be it negative or positive) life would have been for them if they had a different mother. Please do not be rude and feel free to elaborate.

2007-01-03 07:53:37 · 6 answers · asked by Love United 6

i am 27 and never felt so low i have no friends a partner i dont love an no family that really cares about i have 3 kids i love but find it hard to get out ov bed because ov my life i dont work so have no way ov meetin people my mum thinks more ov her dogs than me my ex and i carnt get on even thou im happy he's meet some1 else help distressed mum

2007-01-03 07:53:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

how many songs do u have on ur mp3player/ ipod...do u have an i pod or mp3??

2007-01-03 07:44:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend yell at me a lot. He doesn`t respect me, he doesn`t care for me and in New Year`s he hit me, how I should take revenge?

2007-01-03 07:34:46 · 20 answers · asked by Diana V 1

2007-01-03 07:27:05 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

when someone has a four years relationship and an ex reapperars and u still have feelings for that person and think even about leaving the current and retuning to the ex,but you dont leave the current at the end,does it mean u dont really love the current g/f?when u love somenone canu have feelings for someone else as well?

2007-01-03 07:12:32 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous