Other - Family & Relationships - 3 January 2007

Ok i've been goign out with my boyfriend for 9 months now and everythings been gogin fine, but lately i've noticed that i have this problem about being jealous about my boyfriends past, his ex-girlfriend and him had gone out for about a year and one day i asked him how far her went with her (sexually) and he told me that they had only made out, but then a few months later we had gotten on the subject again and he told me that he just remembered that he had actually gropped her (i hope i spelled that right) he told me it was only for like three minutes and it wasn't important because he couldn't even remember it very well, but still when i heard this i got extremely depressed inside and jealous because im 16 and he is 15 and he is my fisrt boyfirend so he never has to think about any past realationships i've been in because i've never been in any other realationships. but now lately i can't help but think every time he touches me, that his hand have touched another girl in that way.

2007-01-03 18:27:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-03 18:05:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

-What do you believe is the average age you think people lose their virginity?
-Does the age also depend on whether their male or female?

2007-01-03 18:04:53 · 16 answers · asked by Barlow 6

so its almost my sisters birthday.
and i have no idea what to get her.
as important as big 18 is i wanna get her something special. i only have the budget of $50. please make me a list!

2007-01-03 17:37:33 · 13 answers · asked by alwaysXDsmile 1

My DD is hung up on this guy that is addicted to coke and is a big thief. He recently stole my husband's portable DVD player and won't bring it back or replace it. What's bad about this is that my husband is a disabled vietnam vet and didn't do anything to hurt this guy. He's also stolen from others---mainly women and children and other vulnerable people. The guy is shiftless and lazy....extrememly untrustworthy. Since he's only 21 and I thought he showed some signs of potential I've attempted to try to get along with this guy and to attempt to get him onto the right path. But now I think I'd just like to scratch his eyes out....or worse.. I now think he's nothing more than a reprobate and would like to see my daughter free of him. They have a baby, which complicates matters. Any ideas? I've considered getting a restraining order/order of protection to keep him away from us.... Should I go that direction? I wish my DD had more sense and higher self esteem.

2007-01-03 17:34:42 · 3 answers · asked by Brenda 6

What are the best ways for a woman to protect herself physically? Long story short there's a freaky guy in my apartment building who I have caught a few times standing infront of my door in such a way I wondered if he had keys. I saw him today and he asked if he could come use my phone. Of course I said hell no. That is what scared me.

I don;t need long term solutions-like changing locks, gettin a dog and talking to my landlord-I just need something to help me sleep tonight. I am in Canada so no pepper spray or guns. I have heard many 'victims' get assulted with thier own weapons and am not sure if that's true but it's enough to keep me from keeping a knife under the bed. I moved something infront of the front door already but have no peace. Whatever can I do to feel safer tonight aside from the phone under my pillow.

2007-01-03 17:21:10 · 19 answers · asked by surfer_grl_ca 4

2007-01-03 17:16:23 · 10 answers · asked by jftcm 6 1

2007-01-03 17:05:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would you marry the man or woman of your "dreams" KNOWING that in 3 years time you will get a divorce because he/she was unfaithful to you throughout the relationship. And because of that you will never enter another relationship again?

Or would you rather stay single and unlucky in love for the rest of your life??

2007-01-03 17:04:55 · 10 answers · asked by Dee 5

relationships are usually limited to two, because people get close to each other and share intimate secrets and so on.
however, this same type of relationship could exist between three people. could it not?

there is so much pressure on people to act a certain way because of traditions and ideals held by society.
that shouldn't be the case, though, because there are moral ways to live that are unique, but aren't necessarily things to be frowned on by everyone......

2007-01-03 17:04:15 · 18 answers · asked by bad_ambassador 3

I can't stand the way my fiance and other guys flip channels and have to stop if they see some girl lying in a sexual position with her breasts hanging out and her *** in the air. Never thought I'd married someone like that, but I really feel like I have no choice. Do any of you agree with my point of view, that if a guy is in a serious relationship, he shouldn't need to get turned on by that crap on tv?

2007-01-03 17:00:39 · 19 answers · asked by Kate 2

2007-01-03 16:35:28 · 5 answers · asked by NOTHOTATALL 1

Will you let your 18 yr old daughter date a 24 yr old guy?

2007-01-03 16:32:07 · 17 answers · asked by Prince82 1

We dated for almost 2years. He was my first love, serious relationship, and my first. He cheated on me, he's told me that he's sorry and that I'll always have his heart. And that he's loved me more then anyone he's ever known.

2007-01-03 16:26:41 · 12 answers · asked by Angel face 1

I`m an Argentinian, sexy woman... I have everything that a man could ever imagine...but jaja, I like a man who I don`t know if he`s gay or not... I will show him my body and I think it could work!!!
What do you think I should do???

2007-01-03 16:21:53 · 13 answers · asked by GUada motion 1

Recently a family member was murdered and I feel that I need to go and pay her respect back east in Connecticut I live in Washington State, her funeral is on the 24th of January and we will be leaving by bus on the 17th of January. Heres where I need the opinion; I start school in Community College on the 8th of January and I only have one class I am taking which is math I have no problem catching up on my homework finding a study buddy etc while I am away If I do not go to pay her respect I will later regret it in life and I will feel terrible, What can I do???? How do I explain to the instructor about this???? will the instructor drop me from the class while it being so early in the quarter because I am away patching things up with family? any advice? 10 pts for the best answer please no rude or smart remarks

2007-01-03 16:10:25 · 22 answers · asked by Melody-Lynn 3

My sister has eroded her and my relationship. I've only seen her self-destruct with jealousy, stealing, deceiptoin, manipulation narcissism, & materialism.
She was nothing but trouble growing up. She would use my innate disabilities as faults because she couldn't attack my character. Now, she's using my not always getting food groups. If that's the the worse you can say about a person, wouldn't you want that person in your life?
Sister Dearest has done this for 27 years and turned 35 in October.
I love pyschology and this fascinates me. Freud & Anna would love this,too.

2007-01-03 16:07:39 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

What would you put in it ???

2007-01-03 16:03:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's this crazy man I always see in my building though I know he doesnt live here. He visits the guy across the hall from me that I dont know well at all, just his name. He seems nice but this guy is weird. He has a few friends in my building. When I first moved in I caught him at 6am standing outside my apartment door. I am very tiny but dont intimidate easily, I stared him down and he never did anything but he had the look in his eyes that if I had of shown weakness he would have done something to me. Today I got into the elevator and he was there, I live alone. There were two others in there and this guy refered to me by name and asked if he could come use my phone. Of course I said Hell no, but it kind of worried me. Since he hasnt touched me or been inappropriate yet I cant complain much to anyone but I am a bit scared. What can I do to stay safe from this creep? I just have a bad feeling about him and it makes me fearful.

2007-01-03 15:51:30 · 19 answers · asked by surfer_grl_ca 4

I always go after men that are like 20 years older than me. I am only 18 and i know that none of these men will ever actually care about me, and there are lots of guys my own age that want to be with me, and i never give them the time of day. There is a guy that i work with that is 37 and we have messed around a few times, but we always stop because we know how wrong it would be if we were to sleep with eachother. This isnt the first time it has happened, and i have been with a lot of older men, but i know that i can never be with someone who is married, or is way too old for me. I dont think that this is a healthy way to think, and i dont know why i do this to myself when i can find a nice guy my own age that will actually care about me.

2007-01-03 15:51:13 · 6 answers · asked by chelsea3578 1

2007-01-03 15:48:18 · 10 answers · asked by Annie 2

do you feel it's ok to be in a "polyamorous" relationship? it seems that many of my pagan friends feel that, because they are pagan, they are entitled by some ancient, obscure law that not only permits it, but encourages it.

2007-01-03 15:45:19 · 5 answers · asked by wrldzgr8stdad 4

2007-01-03 15:24:48 · 14 answers · asked by thirdeye67 2

He has asked me out to the movies twice, and both times when we went his guy friends were with him, I was the only girl there. We've met up with friends at a dance club and both times he has only danced with me the whole time. He also invited me to his house and we stayed up talking all night. He has never, not once, tried to kiss me or anything, not even hold my hand. He has sometimes called or sent text messages like "what's up sexy" or "good morning" like 2 0r 3 times a day, and then won't call or text for like a week or two. I really like him but I just can't figure out if he likes me or not and I am embarrassed to tell him i like him. I don't want to seem desperate. It seems when he begins getting closer his just runs away. please help I am confused! He is not known to be shy with women and his friends consider him a ladies' man. Does he just want to be my friend or does he like me? If he likes me why doesn't he hit on me?

2007-01-03 15:22:30 · 12 answers · asked by sexylatina 1

2007-01-03 15:20:21 · 6 answers · asked by tumake_ami 1

2007-01-03 15:07:03 · 8 answers · asked by sweet_sargam9 1

two of your relatives are telling you, you should apologize to the relative, yet you didn't do anything....would you apologize for something you didn't do?
should it not be, the relative who is wrongfully accusing you that should apologize to you?
especially when the relative never even came to you and said there was a problem, they just started telling everyone that you started the problem and you are responsible for all the problems they are having

2007-01-03 15:02:24 · 11 answers · asked by ♥chicagurl♥ 4

2007-01-03 14:59:04 · 14 answers · asked by Reo 5

2007-01-03 14:47:49 · 7 answers · asked by Reo 5

2007-01-03 14:40:00 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous