Ok i've been goign out with my boyfriend for 9 months now and everythings been gogin fine, but lately i've noticed that i have this problem about being jealous about my boyfriends past, his ex-girlfriend and him had gone out for about a year and one day i asked him how far her went with her (sexually) and he told me that they had only made out, but then a few months later we had gotten on the subject again and he told me that he just remembered that he had actually gropped her (i hope i spelled that right) he told me it was only for like three minutes and it wasn't important because he couldn't even remember it very well, but still when i heard this i got extremely depressed inside and jealous because im 16 and he is 15 and he is my fisrt boyfirend so he never has to think about any past realationships i've been in because i've never been in any other realationships. but now lately i can't help but think every time he touches me, that his hand have touched another girl in that way.
2007-01-03 18:27:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Try to stay calm and remember, he's with you and not her. I understand jealousy (I have a problem with it too)...but I just remember it's in the past. If he didn't care about you he wouldn't be with you. Just try to keep that in mind and not worry about a past girlfriend, you'll just drive yourself crazy and possibly drive him away!
2007-01-03 18:31:36 · answer #1 · answered by Nicole K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you ask him because you intend to have a physical relationship with him and need to know whether or not he might be at risk for having a sexually transmitted disease? You must be careful and responsible about your behavior because the consequences could be very serious! If you are not intending to have a physical relationship with him, then your questioning of him was unnecessary and it would have been better to honor his privacy. His behavior with his previous girlfriend is in the past. Be happy that he has chosen to be with you!
You may not want to hear this, but, you are 16 and he is 15 and there will be other boyfriends in your future.
2007-01-03 18:47:54 · answer #2 · answered by jom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have violated the first rule of dating and that is NEVER ask your boyfriend or girlfriend about their past relationships. Except, I suppose you need to find out if they have a disease if you are planning to have sex. You are just asking for heartache by asking for details. Part of it is your age--you will hopefully become more secure as you mature. And at your age, you should be having fun with other friends and activities and not being so fixated on sex.
2007-01-03 19:18:38 · answer #3 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋