relationships are usually limited to two, because people get close to each other and share intimate secrets and so on.
however, this same type of relationship could exist between three people. could it not?
there is so much pressure on people to act a certain way because of traditions and ideals held by society.
that shouldn't be the case, though, because there are moral ways to live that are unique, but aren't necessarily things to be frowned on by everyone......
2007-01-03 17:04:15 · 18 answers · asked by bad_ambassador 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well - I suppose it could work if each person was aware and involved in each person's life. I don't know how successful it would be though. Human nature tends to get in the way - perhaps you should do some research into polygomy.
2007-01-03 17:07:06 · answer #1 · answered by karespromise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While it is possible and does work for some these sorts of arrangements usually have some problems unless you have right individuals involved. Most people are far too jelous to have this sort of an arangment that currently usually goes by the term polyamory. It requires personalitys that are very open and honest with each other, its just a bit more complicated than a one and one relationship and requires much more work. There are many many people that this will never work for and likely should not try it. It is definately a good way to destroy a valued one on one relationship so be ready for feelings that could be unleashed that are unprepared for. I have never seen this arrangement work for very long and i have seen far more relationships ended by this sort of experiement than have blossomed from it.
here is a pretty good link about it from a pro perspective
http://www.polyamory.org/~joe/polypaper.htm
2007-01-03 17:23:03 · answer #2 · answered by scottc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its certainly possibly, but challenging. There are many people into polyfidelity, not just mormons. Its really a shame that people limit the types of love/relationships they can have to small, narrowly defined categories.
2007-01-03 17:06:54 · answer #3 · answered by D.A.L. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 people in a relationship is NOT NORMAL. to you it may seem o.k., but, things can get complicated. A relationship is usually based on 2 people, whether it be male to female, male to male, or female to female....but it should never consist of 3 people. If your going to do this, be ready for problems to occur later on.
GOOD LUCK TO THE 3 OF YOU! LOL....
2007-01-03 17:09:15 · answer #4 · answered by sugarBear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure- as long as they are willing- You are a lucky man. 2 for the price of 1
2007-01-03 17:06:30 · answer #5 · answered by todd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you live in the wild kingdom,or in the Amazon?
Get a reality check,fantasy's usually have an end .
2007-01-03 17:21:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you have a good case..i speak from experiance..BUT in human nature you will eventially favor one over the other...even if it isn't you favoring one, another one will. one could hope for such a way of living, but im telling you it wont always be so great between the 3 of you..people change and so do their expectations of one another
2007-01-03 17:08:33 · answer #7 · answered by kristina43 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey it worked for Hugh Hefner why not for you. i was actually watching a show a few weeks ago called "my three wives" and it was about a guy who was married to two women and they were all very happy together. i wish you the best of luck.
2007-01-03 17:07:07 · answer #8 · answered by psycho_rhonda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are as many people who can pull it off as there as many people who have seen a dinasour. but i guess if you all realy commit it may work, i give props to you for not be tradditional
2007-01-03 17:07:30 · answer #9 · answered by carebear_destroyer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some that can pull it off successfully, but they are few and far between.
2007-01-03 17:05:56 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋