2007-01-03 14:59:04 · 14 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
NO,NO,NO, I HAVE BEEN HERE AND DONE THAT!I ALLOWED MY BOYFRIEND TO VIDEO TAPE US ONE NITE BECAUSE HE WAS INTO THAT KINDA STUFF ALOT AND NOW DONT GET ME WRONG IT WAS A LOT OF FUN DOING IT BUT NOW THAT WE BROKE UP LAST FEBURARY 2006 HE STILL HAS THE TAPE AND WONT GIVE IT TO ME TO DESTROY I STILL TALK TO HIM WE R STILL FRIENDS BUT HE JUST WONT GIVE IT BACK AND HE HAD THE NERVE TO TELL ME NOT TO WORRY,HE HAS THE TAPE IN HIS SAFE AND IM NOT THE ONLY GIRL HE HAS DID THAT TO!I TRUST HIM THOUGH AND I KNOW THAT HE HASNT LET ANYONE ELSE SEE IT BUT IT IS STILL THE POINT THAT AFTER YOU BREAK UP WITH THAT SOMEONE,WHAT IF THEY WONT GIVE YOU THE TAPE OR DESTROY IT???????????
2007-01-03 15:47:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My personal rule has always been to not allow anything with which I was uncomfortable. The fact that you asked this question leads me to feel you are not comfortable with having a tape of your intimate moments. I thoroughly agree with you. Things happen; lives change; anything that could eventually be used against you or to hurt you is something you should avoid. I'd not do this!
2007-01-03 16:07:14 · answer #2 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would but, there would be two copies, one for her and one for me. If you're afraid then wear a mask or a costume. That'll spice things up won't it? You both might be living out a fantasy and that's what love is about.......sacrifice, my friend. What's the worse that could happen? Get put on the internet?
2007-01-03 15:07:10 · answer #3 · answered by saturn man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you guarantee noone else will see it?? I have seen about 4 tapes with my friends on them. The guy swore it would be secret, but I ended up seeing the videos. There is no real guarantees here.
2007-01-03 15:04:33 · answer #4 · answered by gato_loco_since_1979 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whilst i like parakeet spanking, my spouse prefers parakeet strangling. She says she does it till they simply about bypass out and then watches the ecstatic seem on its little face while she releases her choke carry. i'm in many situations interior the corner with a video digital camera, boxer shorts on and a balloon floating close by.
2016-11-26 01:58:51 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even though promised are made i will not allow it to be taken you do it bec you really love each other so why videotape it if there nothing behind it.
2007-01-03 22:20:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah... the real deal with your partner is better! and you know what they say -- "distance makes the heart grow fonder" and "longing and expectation increase desire"
And of course there's always the risks pointed out in the other answers.
2007-01-03 19:32:04 · answer #7 · answered by Saphire Aurora 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think the person will keep it lying around whhenn they get mad at u.... and what if one day u become famous, and then that video comes out don't risk it !!!
2007-01-03 15:16:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never, ever fall for this scheme. Ever! It will come back to haunt you again someday.
2007-01-03 15:05:51 · answer #9 · answered by mJc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, because he/she might back at me when we break up. And he/she might show it to their friends or pos in on the internet.
2007-01-03 15:32:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋