Ok, so I dated this guy for 9 months, it was ok most of the time, but lots of pointless arguments as well. The relationship ended by me cheating on him. After that he broke up with me after I BEGGED him back. So about two months later I heard he got a car accident so I called him. He said that I was the only person he thought about and he CONTINUOUSLY begged me back. I said no because things never worked out, and he's boarder-line crazy. Be is the kind of insecure person and no girl really wants him just because of the way he is. So today he IMs me and goes ON AND ON about hanging out with girls doing this and that and blah blah blah, however, he is known to lie to make him look good. So I'm thinking he's making it all up and he still wants me back. But I just don't understand.
Plus he throws around the word "love" like it's monopoly money!
Why isn't he up-front? Does anyone think they know what's going on or have advice?
2007-01-03 05:43:57 · 7 answers · asked by pink_beauty3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
maybe he cared more about u than u thought....or than he realised...also the car accident might have made him feel like life is really short, and u can never know when it`s gonna end, so that`s what made him feel like u meant so much to him, and since he is so insecure, instead of trying to find smbody else, he is trying to get u back, which he thought was going to be easy, since u begged for his forgiveness....i think he was lying about hanging out with all those girls....and i think he`s just afraid that he`s gonna die alone, with noone there to love him, but he`s to insecure and afraid to try to find a new relationship....i don`t think his "love" for u is real....he just wants it to be, maybe, but it`s not
2007-01-03 06:10:13 · answer #1 · answered by dNbBabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's confused.. he's lost... doesn't know what he wants. Besides... maybe you can start explaining why you decided to cheat on him and why you begged him back?
It sounds like you both are playing mind games with each other... just to seek revenge... just to get even. It's actually you two who are fighting with each other.
What he's actually thinking is... why don't you get back with him. Is he going to wait? will you give him a second chance? A third chance? When you say no that you don't want to get back... then he'll say the same thing?
I can imagine you two begging each other like bunnies but then you two are always going to say no...
and I don't know how to tell you this... but one way or the other... you are going to have to make up your mind.
What do YOU want? That's what you need to start asking yourself. Or is dating a game you like to play?
Either way... get on with it.
2007-01-03 05:48:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has problems obviously and probably is lying , why else would he tell you about other girls if he wants you back. He is trying to see if you get jealous. I would run as far away from this guy as possible, sounds like a psycho
2007-01-03 05:47:16 · answer #3 · answered by big stan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok whut i would do is ask him how is feeling. Ask him why hje broke up with u in the first place. If I where u i would just sit and listen to whut he has to say.
2007-01-03 05:57:50 · answer #4 · answered by Elizabith S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, if you dont want him anymore why are you still talking to him? secondly, if you know he's lyeing call him on it...but if i was you...i would say dont call me anymore go to the girls you be around all the time...
2007-01-03 05:50:01 · answer #5 · answered by ladywetherell23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's going on is you're a whore because you cheated on him, and he's a freak because he is like stalking you.
2007-01-03 05:48:13 · answer #6 · answered by Thing H. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like love at all...
2007-01-03 07:23:01 · answer #7 · answered by kcgurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋