Other - Family & Relationships - 2 January 2007

2007-01-02 15:37:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, I have fallen for this guy, and well I really like him! I told him my feelings late October and he took it just fine. We are not going out or anything, but me and my friends are starting to see some progress! Anyways, my parents think I should focus more on my school than love (Dont worry, Im not young) well, they think its absoulouetly wrong for me to have feelings for someone...i think its because that's the way it was when they were young! But isnt life all about loving??? What should I do?

2007-01-02 15:34:17 · 1 answers · asked by HAPPY <3 2

2007-01-02 15:32:25 · 6 answers · asked by wrldzgr8stdad 4

My sister has had a boyfriend for 4 months. When should she finally kiss him
P.S. We are only 12

2007-01-02 15:30:33 · 11 answers · asked by brillantbrunette 2

I have liked this alterboy in church for 2 yrs now and I know he has an attraction for me as well. We are always exchanging looks during mass. Problem is, we never got a chance to talk. On New Years Day, I dreamt he became a priest!! And only then, did he asked me for my number!! And I gave it to him!! (in the dream of course) I felt it was wrong but I'm crazy about him. It was a really strange dream. Then in the evening I went to church and saw him, only that he wasn't at the alter (for the first time) but a few rows away from me! I was with someone (dating recently) so I couldn't approach him. I'm still having feelings for my alterboy. What does the dream mean?? (And no I'm not a priest...Im a girl.)

2007-01-02 15:30:01 · 12 answers · asked by Cream 2

2007-01-02 15:27:31 · 8 answers · asked by eloi 2

Me n her been together since Dec. 01 2006, and i came back to school on the 2nd. Everything was good until i got back home on the 13th and thats when we started having problems... she practically moved in wit me though she never spent the night in her room nor anywhere else at the time we were havin this constant argument. I would first say that she has lots of male friends that she communicate wit and i feel very uncomfortable wit it. She tells me she'll never cheat on me, but these dudes blow up her phone like everytime and i get frustrated wit it most of the times. i told her to talk to em so they wont be calllin her like everyday cos she got a man now, but each time she gets mad at me tellin her that. And I think i ask her too many questions while she went home for xmas. Questions like "where u at?, what u doing?, who is that dude u was talkin to on the phone, and so on" She gets really pissed and we end up gettin into an argument. Any kinda advice for me so we have a good r/ship

2007-01-02 15:24:43 · 6 answers · asked by PeaceMaker!!! 1

You even realize later... 'hey, i mis represented myself.. I talked to that person about 'problems' that really don't bother me or were from my past, but aren't problems now'...

Does this happen to you when you find a really really interested listener?

2007-01-02 15:08:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here it goes. I met this guy,we were attracted to each other but more then anything we had a truly awesome friendship. Recently I did something to upset him. I blew him off 2 times,1st time ( I call it a miss communication) but he was coming home (he is a truck driver) and it was already late I told him I was going out to dinner with my dad instead and I would call him later that night well it got to late and I never called he said he waited all night for my call to see me. 2nd time, I didnt bother b/c he was busy making a delivery and I didnt want him to rush and plus never really said "are you coming so we can go out" But he accused me of lying to him and actually having a boyfriend which isnt true. He asked my reasoning for what I did but I told him I didnt have one and Im sorry. He called me a liar and said I really did him wrong. Now we dont talk but I miss him. What can I do how can I fix this? I know what I did but when I tell him he is wrong 2 he tends to always turn it on me.

2007-01-02 14:59:44 · 9 answers · asked by Miss L 1

I have been seperated from my husband for 2 years and am in the middle of a divorce and have a new relationship and i have been criticized for having a new relationship. Maybe I am wrong but I dont see how it is harming my children they are happy and loved and well taken care of by me their mother

2007-01-02 14:49:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, my cousin, who is living with us and is basically my brother, (long story), wants to join the army, but me and my mother are afraid that when he gets there, he will be sent to Iraq and very possibly get killed. He is only 17 years old and does not know what he wants. i am only 13 and i am more rational than he is. he just wants to go because he says there is nothing for him here. he tells me to stay out of it, and that i don't know what im talking about, but i do. Gosh, i have a lot of respect for him, and i will stay out of it somewhat, but it is really hard. if he wanted to go and make this huge decision because he is truly devoted to it and really wants to go, i would understand. but that is hardly the case. it's all a game to him, and he doesn't want to hear about it. he is so hardheaded and thinks that he knows everything, but he still has a long way to go.. Is there anyway we can convince him not to join?? SORRY THIS IS SO LONG. THANKS GUYS.

2007-01-02 14:45:39 · 1 answers · asked by Fun lovin girl 2

Every time a president dies, they go here and there. The families must go to each place and this usually goes on for a week. Don't you admire the famileis of these men for all that they go through? When a loved one dies, three days drains us. Don't you admire Betty Ford and all of the wives of presidents and their children for all that they endure? My heart goes out to them how about yours?

2007-01-02 14:33:07 · 5 answers · asked by grannywinkie 6

Is it wrong for me to be 3 years older than my boyfriend? You see I don't know what to do, b/c he's dad doesn't like me b/c of me being 3 years older than my boyfriend. What should I do? His dad scares me b/c of him not approving of me. Should I break up with him b/c of his dad not approving of me? What should I do? Please Help!!

2007-01-02 14:31:06 · 8 answers · asked by Twinkie 2

2007-01-02 14:24:21 · 3 answers · asked by red_ca112 1

he or she says that they are a people person so they have all these woman or men in the cell phone, and they call at all time of the night and day. they say that it is only you that they want but they need all these other men or women in there lives to. They won't make the choice to let it be you or them.

2007-01-02 14:24:17 · 13 answers · asked by njsickinlovewithyouboo_45 1

2007-01-02 14:10:55 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

theres this guy that i LOVE. but me and him havent met in person and he lives 500 miles away and hes 21 years older than me. he keeps trying to get me to tell him what role i want him to play in my life he said "friend boyfriend husband lover brother what ever." with him living 500 miles away and me having a high sex drive i dont want to call him my BF. he starts work this month so me and him would meet in person but im going to south africa (he doesnt want me to change my plans for him) but if i dont change my plans me and him might not be together in person for a long time and i cant not be with him. HELP!!!! why do i have totell him what role i want him to play? Why the hell did he mention husband?

any advice and input is appreciated.

and please no smart @ss remarks.

2007-01-02 14:03:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you think of that? My dad is a gigalo who uses women for sex and money. He met my sister-in-law at our reception. I told her what type of guy my dad was and that he just wanted to get in her panties, apparently that's what she wanted.... Two years later they are "engaged" and can't understand why we don't approve...cosidering that there is no "blood" between them???? I really refuse to have my sister-in-law as my step-mothers. She definitely is my son's aunt, not grandma....and she most certainly is not my husband's step- mother-in-law....Does anyone else see the insanity and lack of morales in this situation?

2007-01-02 13:59:39 · 17 answers · asked by So lyrical 2

when you were young and a child who was your support area?? parenting roles??

2007-01-02 13:48:49 · 1 answers · asked by Kimberly 1

Okay, I drink a lot. I have a job where nobody cares as long as I stay productive, which I do. My friends and boyfriend don't seem to mind my drinking at all, I never act any less responsible because I'm used to the effects of alcohol well enough that I have learned to be in control. I don't have to drive and I don't have children.

I wake up in the morning and start drinking. I usually never go more than a couple hours without having some sort of alcoholic beverage, at least a beer but usually I drink vodka and scotch. I drink until I pass out every night, literally 365 days a year. I carry around a flask with me everywhere I go. I even have a special needle for injecting liquor into certain kinds of foods so I can get drunk just by eating some of my meals. When I am sober I can't really think straight and I feel dizzy and confused, but then I just drink more. I consider myself a happy person. Is this a problem then?

2007-01-02 13:48:49 · 15 answers · asked by xNancyxSpungenxJr 1

so yea. hows the waether over there?
no jk. my question is do you love someone?
not just like family but whole heartedly love someone? and who is it?

2007-01-02 13:46:19 · 11 answers · asked by Night visions 6

i emailed a old bf after my divorce,he was married with a child.I did not seduce him or make him leave his wife.we just talked about old times and he told me how unhappy he was in his marriage.he said his wife had made his life hell and nothing he did could make her happy,he was just staying for his childs sake.well one thing led to another and we slept together and he left his wife for me.am i guilty?yes but so is he.he was the one to leave his wife not me.if he had told me he was happy and to leave him alone i would have.i now have his wife showing up at my house at all hours and calling me saying she wants her husband back.well now 6 mons later i just found out hes been cheating on me with someone at work.what comes around goes around i guess.i do feel bad for what i have done but why is all the blaim allways placed on "the other women" after all this his wife still wants him back

2007-01-02 13:29:32 · 10 answers · asked by sarahnail456 1

2007-01-02 13:22:16 · 10 answers · asked by sudirman 1

2007-01-02 13:17:08 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 17, it is okay to sleep with my 18 year old boyfriend? My parents, and his dad all say that it isnt legal.

2007-01-02 13:16:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, for New Years Eve my "so called" boyfriend asked to have me to have a threesome with a girl he knew from along time ago. We had done this before on one occasion, but since my feelings have grown, I really didn't want to do this anymore. He finally ended up convincing me. I got really drunk while he went and picked up the other girl so that I could go through with it. Anyway, it happened...and of course, it hurt me to see him mess with another girl. I ended up passing out on the bed. I woke up in the morning and he was doing it with her. I didn't say anything. I just turned over and tried not to cry. About a hour later, I grabbed my things and left while they were sleep. Do I have a right to be upset? Is this grounds for dismissal? I mean if I agreed to a 3some, that didnt mean he can do it with her without me right? Or should I not be mad because he already messed with her? Please help me! I haven't answered the phone when he calls since the incident. I don't even know what to say!

2007-01-02 13:15:38 · 68 answers · asked by angie20k 4

I take care of my wifes daughter, whom I consider my own. Her real father wanted nothing to do with her and actually wanted my wife to have an abortion when carrying her. He then took off and never was around for her. He recently came back (about a year ago) and is semi in her life. When she is with him, he tells her "That is NOT Daddy! I am Dada! That is Mikey! That is what you call him!" She calls me Daddy and him Dada. I have been daddy since she was 7 months old. This really hurts now. What do you think?

2007-01-02 13:12:23 · 34 answers · asked by bitty_and_me@verizon.net 2

my partner wants to have sex and dont get me wrong I do for sure but she has been raped twice in the past by her ex and even though she says that she is ok fro me to do whatever I want to her I dont think that she really is, I am thinking that she may have a flashback and scream....and I just dont want to ever hurt her at all as she is my baby and if I was to hurt her while having sex it would kill me so I am looking for advice as to what to do here, if we do have sex what should I do?? be gentle or let her take the rains?? and any other ideas incase she has a flashback...

thanks
Mitch

2007-01-02 13:07:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i just ended a 5 yr relationship with my bf.when i first met "tom" at work he use to drive in with this blond "val".he told me they were just old friends.later after we had been dating for about 3 weeks(and after we had sex)he told me they were dating and if i did not like it i could leave.i later found out from his sister he left his wife for this girl.did i leave,no i stayed hoping i could win him over.i watched as he sent her flowers at work,heard about the jewelry he gave her,the expensive diners ect.all i every got was invites over for sex and a movie.after 5 mons he left her(not because of me he told me he could not keep her happy) but over the last 5 yrs i have caught he sneaking around on the internet/phone with her and would tell me i was over reacting,with their history i think not.has he cheated,more than likely.now on top of all this add a controlling in your face exwife with a kid and a huge debt and i STILL STAYED.love is not blind its dumb.oh yes we were all in our 30s

2007-01-02 13:01:15 · 3 answers · asked by kellymarie908 1

15 mo old girl, loved mommy to give her baths, than one day didn't like them anymore. (no abuse has accured. Is is possible to have dreams about water and than hate taking a bath?? Is there a Dr. out there that could answer this?

2007-01-02 12:55:58 · 8 answers · asked by Tammy E 1