i just ended a 5 yr relationship with my bf.when i first met "tom" at work he use to drive in with this blond "val".he told me they were just old friends.later after we had been dating for about 3 weeks(and after we had sex)he told me they were dating and if i did not like it i could leave.i later found out from his sister he left his wife for this girl.did i leave,no i stayed hoping i could win him over.i watched as he sent her flowers at work,heard about the jewelry he gave her,the expensive diners ect.all i every got was invites over for sex and a movie.after 5 mons he left her(not because of me he told me he could not keep her happy) but over the last 5 yrs i have caught he sneaking around on the internet/phone with her and would tell me i was over reacting,with their history i think not.has he cheated,more than likely.now on top of all this add a controlling in your face exwife with a kid and a huge debt and i STILL STAYED.love is not blind its dumb.oh yes we were all in our 30s
2007-01-02 13:01:15 · 3 answers · asked by kellymarie908 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This guy sounds like a pig with no concern for your feeling. Stop being a doormat and find someone who will treat you better.
2007-01-02 13:17:20 · answer #1 · answered by dolphinsfan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are in love but not dumb
the question is how much do he love you
if your love is one side is best give your love to someone better
the logic of love is to make you happy
2007-01-02 13:10:17 · answer #2 · answered by kimht 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
darling, you need to run like hell. this guy is a bore. and a loser. he's not worth the trouble. at all
2007-01-02 13:13:46 · answer #3 · answered by m.wright 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋