Other - Family & Relationships - 2 January 2007

I am in a very healthy relationship which is very unusual for me. I am used to having a drama filled/ cheating / untrustworthy relationship with men. Not me being the cheater but being cheated on...I finally found someone "sane"...actually he is my neighbour and we get along great! But I am not jealous of him IN THE LEAST. Not feeling this emotion is making me feel as though I am falling out of love with him and that I dont care if he is with someone else. I trust him 100% and that is VERY rare for me. Does my lack of jealousy mean that I am not in love with him?

I get along great with him but have lately been catching myself think about my ex all the time. It was a very hard relationship to get through and I hate him to this day but for some reason or another he keeps poping up in my mind.

I want to spend my life with my current bf...He's great in every way but I am so scared of falling out of love with him? Do you think I am?

2007-01-02 07:10:12 · 4 answers · asked by dawson190154 1

its her 21st and we are back up at uni but hardly any1 else is so i quite fancy setting up a few surprises and other things but can't think of anything! help... it's tomorrow!!

2007-01-02 07:07:03 · 8 answers · asked by amzydoodles 1

i got in touch with my dad last year after 8 years. one of my aunts use to call me all the time and w'e talk. she made me feel special i couldn't wait for the phone to ring! now the other day i called her and she said to call her the next day. i asked her y and she said i'm going to forget. i was bothered by this because she told me that whenever she wnats to tlk to ppl she makes time for them. i feel that since a year has passed she's acting like i don't matter. when i first got a cell phone the first few days before it got messed up she never called. she would only say i'm going to call u tomorrow then i'd end up calling her instead and she'd always call her bf on the other line. now i got my phone again and she never called she only returned my calls. i think it's unfair for her to expect me to call and she can't remember to call me anymore. i called her a few days after she told me that and she never called back. i think she's messed up to call at first and now she forgets why now?

2007-01-02 07:06:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

well i am the youngest in my family by 6years. my sister and brother go off and i'm the one stuck here. my parents are divorced. i have to deal with my mom throwing her toys out the cot. my dad's a drunk and picks a fight ever time a try visitin him. i have major friends problems. boyfriend? no not with their whole where you now and what you doing every hour. i can't stand it.

my mom's remarried and so is my my dad. i stay in hostel and you would think my mom would want to spend time with me when i'm home does she no it's all about my new dad!!!!!don't get me wrong he's very nice and i love him but **** couldn't my mom try to be my mom?????????

so can you tell me how is this year gonna be good?

2007-01-02 07:06:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

between man & women relationship what is most importan thing for trust sex,love,or any thing else......
i just want to know who women trust guys in witch conditions

2007-01-02 07:03:21 · 1 answers · asked by xxxxxxxvenomxxxxxxx 1

2007-01-02 07:01:22 · 10 answers · asked by dinkki 1

2007-01-02 06:55:37 · 5 answers · asked by Steve H. 1

but they once didn't? Do they not still have their own opinions on things?

2007-01-02 06:44:05 · 6 answers · asked by ♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥ 5

I have been seeing an very old boyfriend he is currently with someone esle and so was I when we first start seeing each other again. My orginal relationship has ended and his has not. He say that he is in love with me and want to be with me, but say he is having a hard time ending the relationship he is in b/c of his girls. He hopes that the chick he lives with will just leave him and wonder why she has not since she know that he is seeing me and that he is just there b/c of the kids. I maybe pregnant he hoping so I'm hoping not. What should I do? We have been in this situation for a year now should i just cut my loses now or see what happens.

2007-01-02 06:34:21 · 9 answers · asked by SexyR 1

saying 'you' or 'KC' or 'hotbluesnow' would be so 2006

2007-01-02 06:30:06 · 14 answers · asked by Humpy 3

What i mean is, if you're lets say, a Michigan Wolverines fan, but she's an ohio state fan, would you try to make her change, and root for Michigan?
*any sport,any team...just making her change to your team*

or would you let her root for who she likes and not try to change her.

2007-01-02 06:20:03 · 4 answers · asked by ♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥ 5

i afraid of losing my love or missunderstanding

2007-01-02 06:19:14 · 11 answers · asked by simon h 1

2007-01-02 06:12:37 · 1 answers · asked by HEY boo boo 6

I've had relations with twenty of them, and I still haven't figured it out.

2007-01-02 06:10:42 · 12 answers · asked by Dayne's gal 2

2007-01-02 06:04:00 · 13 answers · asked by tender_desirable_blackarican 1

2007-01-02 05:59:34 · 22 answers · asked by partygurl 1

Hi there before you read this , im not a marrage wrecker, or husband stealer, i went into this relationship, well can i say , eyes wide open, ive being seeing my lover for a year , im 35, had come out of a 15 yr relationship, didint want to get involved, or serious with anyone , then i met someone , by accident , we becme friends , the lovers after a time , his wife, wha can i say , gives him a sexless marrage, buthe wont leave ehr, they have a 7 yrs old its not the scenario he wont leave wife till kid older syndrome , it goes much deeper, which i cant go into , we have a great sex life , fun with each other , meet up nearly every dayevery time he got even 5 mins hes here. we chat online , tex , call all the time every day even when he leaves here, tell me he luvs me , ive made a difference to his life , truly believes he luvs me, but ive got to stage what happens next , will he be with me years to come and leave her ... i just dont know i luv him also and im at crossroads ..

2007-01-02 05:58:55 · 38 answers · asked by jaycee 1

I tell the truth, even when it hurts someone, and it is done with tact. I want to know why has society found this to be an acceptable practice?
Please, only the serious-minded need respond!!

2007-01-02 05:57:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

And, no, this is not done during a Sunday afternoon football game!
It could be any place at any time and I am not known to be a gossip or blabber mouth. (Such ppl deserve to be ignored!)
Serious answers appreciated, please!!
Thanks.

2007-01-02 05:53:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife has a friend that had implants. She had to have them taken out for medical reasons. She had a month between the time they took the old ones before they could put the new ones in. During this time she came over and showed my wife and I her boobs with no implants. Not sexy but cool I got to see my wife friends boobs. Then when she got the new implants put in she came back over and pulled up her top to showed us the improvement. Now they were sexy and she even ask if we wanted to touch them. I am married but I am a man. My wife was there but come on. I not only wanted to touch them I wanted to do all sorts of things to and with them. Why do boob implants make some ladies more likely to pull them out in front of you?

2007-01-02 05:41:01 · 9 answers · asked by Brian 5

Dropped something off at my Dad's house today. My 3 year old son was looking around doing little jumps.He went near a puzzle which he was aggressively told not to touch. I told him too. He sat on a chair near the puzzle and my Dad went mad. Picked him up and dumped him the other side of the room. He then said to me you give him no discipline. My Dad then pushed him on his forehead forcefully which made him fly back landing in a pile on the floor. A man and a three year old fighting. My son was very upset. Now I understand why previously he has said 'I hate Grandpa'. I left 1 min later shocked as my 3 year old.

2007-01-02 05:37:16 · 63 answers · asked by OO7 3

Thanks for the quick replies. He is an abuser because first he was so sweet and captured all my attention, and he said he was craving for love. When I gave him, a month after he tried to ban to speak with my family and tried to cut off my friend network who know me 10 years. I had one relationship lasting 8 and a half years and we are still good friends. He tried to belittle him and me in front of my friends. First, I thought he was kidding and since I loved him, I ignored them. He was my 2nd boyfriend. He told me stories about his father beating him with leather belt and I held his hand and I told him that those days are over and I had compassion for him. However after a while he started battering me and complained that I never make him a part of my life. No matter what I did, he did not like. He was flunk out of a very famous graduate school for something that happened him and his advisor. When he moved onto another guy, I felt really betrayed. Curious if he will be able to hold this

2007-01-02 05:25:03 · 13 answers · asked by bubi 2

TN, She is age 11. Never had a relationship with her father until 1 year ago. She hates seeing him because of stepmother/stepsister. I never asked for child support for fear of him asking for legal rights. If I do ask for support, can the courts force her to have visitation with him against her own will. I have never told her she couldn't go with him on a visitation and won't! It's always her decision. But he also will go months without even calling her. Her father and I were never married, nor lived together. I raised her myself in a christian enviroment. He on the other hand drinks and does drugs. I am unemployed, and can't get her on Tenn Care unless I name the father to DHS. I'm afraid if I do, he will retaliate by forcing her to go on visits against her will.

2007-01-02 05:21:02 · 8 answers · asked by SPIRIT 1

Serious answers only please. I live with my boyfriend of 4 years and we generally have a good relationship but I am so jealous if he has contact with other women. Now he wants to join a squash league and I am terrified about him playing with other women I know this is wrong but how do I cope. I am currently out of work and depressed and fat so I think he won't like me much longer but he always says he loves me. Help.

2007-01-02 05:19:46 · 17 answers · asked by profile not in use 2

where you send your old 'fronts' from your christmas cards?

I think it's st. Jude's Childrens hospital, not sure.
I could google it, but i'm on here.

Thanks, for any help.

2007-01-02 05:10:47 · 1 answers · asked by lil' angel 6

I had an emotional abusing boyfriend and he left me without any communication and moved onto another guy(his boss in his workplace within a month after he started working) and was with both of us for a while. If I didn't ask him, he was probably going to play the game with both of us and when I asked him, he said he was with another one and I was hurt since he never communicated it to me. We kept the contact but me wounds still did not heal. I am curious if he is going to be able to hold this relationship for a long time with him. Before this, he had a lot of 3-month, 4-month, 6-month, 8-month relationships and it seems that there is no gap between these and all overlap. When I ask him why he was with them, he gave me different answers eact time such as I didn't want to be alone, or I was enjoying the sex and etc. I really loved him but when I discovered his this face, I was shocked and sad.

2007-01-02 05:00:01 · 6 answers · asked by bubi 2

I am a married 33 year old man. There is another couple that we are friends with. She stays at home. I stopped by their house one day at lunch to pick up something. I ended up sitting around for an hour just talking with her. Her husband is an hourly worker that is not allowed to come home for lunch. Well, it became common for me to spend one lunch a week with her. No sex just talk. Sometimes I would go with her to get things done in town so I could help her with the kids. I found myself looking forward to those days and becoming close to her. We stopped this about 3 weeks ago because of the appearance of it. We never had sex, talked about sex, or even touched. We just talked about our lives and what was going on. I know that we can not continue because of what others will say we are doing. I miss it though. I have thought about trying to find someone to talk to on the phone or email to have this kind of relationship. But it is hard to do. I have a pretty cushy management job what allows me lots of free time and that is both good and bad. Is it common for ladies who stay at home all day alone to desire a friendship like this?

2007-01-02 04:59:46 · 21 answers · asked by Brian 5

Ok, for New Years Eve my "so called" boyfriend asked to have me to have a threesome with a girl he knew from along time ago. We had done this before on one occasion, but since my feelings have grown, I really didn't want to do this anymore. He finally ended up convincing me. I got really drunk while he went and picked up the other girl so that I could go through with it. Anyway, it happened...and of course, it hurt me to see him mess with another girl. I ended up passing out on the bed. I woke up and he was doing it with her. I didn't say anything. I just turned over and tried not to cry. About a hour later, I grabbed my things and left while they were sleep. Do I have a right to be upset? Is this grounds for dismissal? I mean if I agreed to a 3some, that didnt mean he can do it with her without me right? Or should I not be mad because he already messed with her? Please help me! I haven't answered the phone when he calls since the incident. I don't even know what to say!

2007-01-02 04:56:34 · 61 answers · asked by angie20k 4

ok so me and my boyfriend are in our teens. we love each other VERY much and we have been going out for 7 months but weve known each other since kindergarten! we think were ready to have sex now but i dont want to ask or tell my mom because im afraid she wont let me see him anymore. we want to have sex but not let anyone know...he has got condoms but do they really work? what can we do to be COMPLETLY safe??? please help!

2007-01-02 04:52:52 · 5 answers · asked by c to the i e double r the a 1

i know a girl who said she wanted to give me a brown shower, being a guy who is naeive about such things i said what is it? she said go find out and when i do tell her she said she wants me to chew it right from her faucet and be a human tissue what is she talking about?

2007-01-02 04:47:39 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous