I am in a very healthy relationship which is very unusual for me. I am used to having a drama filled/ cheating / untrustworthy relationship with men. Not me being the cheater but being cheated on...I finally found someone "sane"...actually he is my neighbour and we get along great! But I am not jealous of him IN THE LEAST. Not feeling this emotion is making me feel as though I am falling out of love with him and that I dont care if he is with someone else. I trust him 100% and that is VERY rare for me. Does my lack of jealousy mean that I am not in love with him?
I get along great with him but have lately been catching myself think about my ex all the time. It was a very hard relationship to get through and I hate him to this day but for some reason or another he keeps poping up in my mind.
I want to spend my life with my current bf...He's great in every way but I am so scared of falling out of love with him? Do you think I am?
2007-01-02 07:10:12 · 4 answers · asked by dawson190154 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just because you are not jealous of him doesn't mean that you are falling out of love with him. You being not jealous of him can just mean that there is no reason for you to be jealous of him. You may be just very comfortable with him and know that he won't do you wrong. I have been with my fiance for 6.5 years now and I still think of my ex. It's just something that we do. It doesn't mean that you still want them but you can't forget about that relationship for some reason. YOU ARE NOT FALLING OUT OF LOVE. You are just comfortable.
2007-01-02 07:15:33 · answer #1 · answered by Candi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I very much think that you still haven't "let go" of your ex, lets look at it from this angle..why do you want to keep thinking about a jerk who will never change (because this is who he is)? when u can have a secure calm life w/ someone u can actually trust. Look the drama guy has sucked the life out of you it's something you are immune to, you're so used to the hurt and worries, leave that behind start new if this new guy is nice and trustworthy then thats great but let it go if ur not in2 him and ur getting further from him this will prevent him from getting hurt and making u more confused. IF UR NOT HAPPY WALK AWAY..trust me on this one..get rid of baggage FIRST then hook up w someone. âºâºâºâº
2007-01-02 15:54:05 · answer #2 · answered by RoseFairy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are just not used to being treated good..stop thinking about your ex and concentrate on your healthy happy relationship..its a new year so its a new you. good luck.
2007-01-02 15:15:31 · answer #3 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i dont think your falling out of love. you're just so trustworthy of him that you have no reason to be jealous. its the same thing with my boyfriend. even though i'm not jealous i still know that i love him with all my heart and that i dont want to be with ne one else.
2007-01-02 15:13:44 · answer #4 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋