he or she says that they are a people person so they have all these woman or men in the cell phone, and they call at all time of the night and day. they say that it is only you that they want but they need all these other men or women in there lives to. They won't make the choice to let it be you or them.
2007-01-02 14:24:17 · 13 answers · asked by njsickinlovewithyouboo_45 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If they wont make a choice between you and them.... just make the choice for them and leave
2007-01-02 14:26:52 · answer #1 · answered by I know, I know!!!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is not the persons calling but the type of relationship that exist. If it were a business relationship, then obviously after a certain hour they should not be calling ( either sex). If it is a friend, then they should not be calling either after a certain hour, and they should be making an effort to be a friend to both of you, not isolate him for themself.
Don't get all hung-up on the females calling, you need to look at all of them calling and, as stated, the type of relationship, and what it appears to be aimed at ( isolating him).
Tell him, rather than having all these people just call all the time, invite them over for a small party - so you can get to know some of these people, maybe this will put doubt to rest also.
2007-01-02 14:33:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally wouldn't approve women calling for my bf, but i do understand that he had friends before me and i wouldn't make him cut them off, that would be selfish of me. You shouldn't be the only one he communicates with and visa versa. Now asking that the ppl call before 8p or a time that works for both of you shouldn't be too much to ask, and if it is then there's a problem. Unless you have some trust issues, i wouldn't rack my brain about it, and if you think he's doing sneaky stuff behind your back then there's no need to be with him. You can't have a relationship without trust.
2007-01-02 15:38:52 · answer #3 · answered by The One 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh boy, get some therapy. you already know the person you love. if he/she is a social butterfly now, that won't change because of you. if you don't want to sign up, don't sign up!
on your side, if you are sharing a home together, there must be some ground rules. nobody calls our home after 10 (or it doesn't get picked up), just because that's what we have agreed to. if my wife saw it differently, maybe we shouldn't be living in the same household. clear it up before the marriage.
marriage does not fix anything that was already broken. fix it and move on or get out. good luck
2007-01-02 14:30:02 · answer #4 · answered by gabound75 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a man/woman cant choose between you and their "contacts". Then u have ur answer. no other man or woman should be calling ur house during the night, even if its business related. if they have nothing to do with work, your partner should understand how u feel. if they really dont want to change that. find someone that wil
there are boundries in a relationship, and your partner has to draw the line.
2007-01-02 14:27:38 · answer #5 · answered by scion_xb_girly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be okay with a lot of calls from women to my husband now or when we were engaged! They've made a commitment to you!
2007-01-02 14:27:29 · answer #6 · answered by Kim S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk out.. unless he is willing to do whatever it takes to make you feel comfortable in this relationship, it won't work. He needs to show his commitment to you. That's not the way to do it.
2007-01-02 14:27:31 · answer #7 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His life is not going to end just because your getting married.
2007-01-02 14:26:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't demand that my gf have only friends of one gender for the rest of her life. That wouldn't be love. It would be a cage for her.
2007-01-02 14:26:49 · answer #9 · answered by Haiku Hanna 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its not right. Disrespectful!
2007-01-02 14:27:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋