Other - Family & Relationships - 23 November 2006

Somebody came up to me Tuesday at school and said that my BFF did not want to be my friend anymore because I ignored her too much. I do not think that is true she's just not in any of my classes so I dont see her much. Now, it is Thursday and I don't know if I should call her and if I do, I don't know what to say? HELP! P.S I do know that she really said that because my friend,Libby asked her and she said that she really said that.

2006-11-23 11:11:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

if my dad ever wants anything, he goes and buys it, which leaves me nothing to get him as a gift, hes around 50, but 35 in his mind, he worksout a lot and lvoes sports . . any ideas

2006-11-23 11:08:43 · 8 answers · asked by Balln" 2

and he gives me no space 2 myself and if i tell him im going out with my m8s he starts argueing with me because he wnts 2 b with me and i just carnt cope no more and im wondering if im right on thinking i should end i hope some 1 can help

2006-11-23 11:07:29 · 13 answers · asked by luvinlife 5

2006-11-23 10:51:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

It seems, trust is something I've lost in people. Though I know not everyone is lieing to me, I still don't trust a thing anyone says to me. I don't want that to become a problem again.

2006-11-23 10:47:46 · 3 answers · asked by justbrigitte420 1

Just let me know what you think is the best movie you have ever seen( and anyone who says "honey" will be slapped!)

2006-11-23 10:43:43 · 13 answers · asked by Jonnygirl 2

I have recently ended a 4 year relationship that just wasnt working. My boyfriend put me through hell with drinking problems for the first 2.5 years after which he started to get his act together and stopped partying so much and lost a lot of weight etc. But despite us both trying to make things work it just wasnt working, from my end anyway, I wasnt happy. So I ended it. But now he is completely shattered and broken hearted and is saying he has no purpose left anymore and that he will never stop hurting and that he is afraid of what he'll do when he goes back to living alone next week (he is currently staying at his parents). He is taking full responsibility for things not working (he was a bit of a selfish bastard and took most things for granted) despite my telling him that it is 50/50, but he wont stop beating himself up. I am afraid of him doing something stupid. What can I do to help him without hindering my ability to move on. I love him but I know I've done the right thing.

2006-11-23 10:42:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im in new zealand for 6 months in my partners house at the moment with my partner and 3 yr old girl. My partner is 43 and im 21, although my partner is not my daughters father he fully accepts that my only responsibility is to my child and her future, therefore he encourages me to take her to every mums and tots event there is in the morning while he cleans and prepares lunch so that we can spend time together in the afternoon. Its not that hes desperate, his kids r grown up and he has had such a sucessful career in the fire service he has now retired and runs several businesses, so why cant more men, and indeed after reading a few answers on this, women adapt to the times and stop being so pig headed? a mothers duty is surely to provide a happy childhood, is that keeping them in the house while you cook and clean for their arrogant fathers? Surely not!

2006-11-23 10:40:43 · 13 answers · asked by angel 1

Well, I am just wondering what I am supposed to do in this situation.

-My teacher is a little too comfortable on sexuality, he compliments a few of the girls in the class, like, in the middle of I test he all of a sudden said to me, "Lookin good Maddi." And, I was terribly embarrased and didn't know how to react, he had done the same thing to other girls too.

-He once said that we had to do an assignment that involved watching the TV, then he said to one of my friends Cody, "That doesn't mean you can watch the playboy channel Cody."

-Then, when we were studying the reproduction of cells, I said sexual reproduction, or binary fission, and he said "Yeah, you like that."

I have no idea what to do, because he keeps victimizing people and saying compliments that are actrually insulting people.

Help!

2006-11-23 10:40:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-23 10:38:03 · 13 answers · asked by rami selawi 1

I prefer older men, not for their money or anything like that (I'm could care less about it, I'm not materialistic) but because I'm looking for someone with more maturity and wisdom. I'm more mature and serious than all the guys in my age group, they bore me, so I would rather spend my time with someone I can actually have a meaningful conversation with, someone who can teach me a thing or two about life. Anyhow, my question is: why is society these days so against that when 100 years ago it was exactly the opposite?

2006-11-23 10:32:01 · 18 answers · asked by layla 2

well i am with this guy...and i been with him for a while now a couple months..and well i like being with him and the only thing about it is that we hardly talk and see each other..the only time we talk and see each other is in school..and i just found out that his friend likes me and his always talking to me..his okay and all but i am just afraid of his friend asking me out..and i don't want anything to happen..i like him too..alittle but i just don't know what to do. i am so confused..

2006-11-23 10:26:01 · 5 answers · asked by lyn n. 2

My younger brother (age 16) brought home some Puerto Rican/Mexican Indian (Asian?) girl and told me that they were dating. My family is German-American (blond hair and blue eyed) and my family and I don't want latino/indian/black/asian in our family tree. It was an embarassment to see them together. I dont want her seeing my brother. I love my brother very much and only want the best for him - I dont think a mixed race latino/indian/asian would be that.

I'm a college student at Stanford so I know the whole "dont be a racist" bit. If you personally don't have a race (I say genetic) bias like I do then fine. But, it took thousands or years of evolution to get the features my family does (blond hair) and takes one generation to screw it up.

Either way, I will eventually break them up.

How can I break them up faster? Should I just talk to that latino indian girl in private and tell her to stop seeing my brother? Or should I just tell my brother why dating her is a bad choice?

2006-11-23 10:20:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well today I was explaining to the 13yr old girl I am mentoring about her firs period and she strarted asking so many questions about sex. Is better to give her books and stuff or actually explain? How do I explain? Im only 17 for crying out loud I mean damn helping out the community is hard but I guess its worth it.

2006-11-23 10:16:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do I cheer her up I don't have the money to take her home and she really misses them.

2006-11-23 10:14:28 · 9 answers · asked by Stoney D 1

I just started going to church with my grandma on Sundays two weeks ago. The first week I went, I was sitting in the pew and looked over and saw my english teacher. I about died. She is not one of my favorite teachers but shes not evil or anything. I hoped she wouldn't see me but after church she came over and talked to me. She said "You lucky girl! You get to see me six days this week!" Then she gave me a hug. I was thinking O yeah, lucky me! And what with the hugs? She doesn't do that at school! Anyway the second week I pretended like I didn't see her and did't tallk to her. The last thing I want to do is see my teacher on the weekend. I know I am going to have to get used to her being there but how should I act. Should I pretend I don't see her every week or do I go and tell her hi. I don't want to be rude but I don't really want to just go up and give her a hug every week. What do I do? This is REALLY awkward.

2006-11-23 10:05:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hello,

My name is Lisa and i am a student at New York University.

I am majoring in Psychology and i am conducting a study on what the "perfect" young female would be these days (teenage)

I liked the idea of posting the photos on here, because it is simple and i won't be get responses from just young guys.

I have three photos used with permission, All you need to do it "point out" the imperfections you see in these girls, they choose to participate and none of your responses will be show to either girls.

Examples of responses: Her nose is to big, her hair is ugly, she is too tan. etc.

Thank you for your participation!

The links to the photos are as follows

Girl one - http://i9.tinypic.com/2iiafe9.jpg......

Girl two (both links are the same girl)- http://i7.tinypic.com/40218b4.jpg...... & http://i15.tinypic.com/48fn6yr.jpg......

Thank you again & happy holidays!

2006-11-23 10:02:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

What can i do if:

"ur close female friend doen't want to be with you, but she doesn't want you to be with anyone else"?

What can i do?Advice…

Anyone be in a similar position?

p.s. attraction is there....

2006-11-23 09:49:37 · 23 answers · asked by Machine 3

I'm thinking about taking my life. There isnt' enough space on this thing to explain the whole situation. I'm depressed over being alone on thanksgiving, i'm in the military and they won't let me go home or nothing, and when try to talk to people about these things on top of everything else, they shun me and tell me to not do it because "it would look bad on them". I already cut myself and like to watch myself bleed. Should i just go all the way and get my wrists too? The only reason why i haven't done it yet is because of one girl i love sooooo much, but it almost seems worth leaving her like that now......

2006-11-23 09:40:16 · 22 answers · asked by John C 1

Who told you?
Mine is my best friend, he's a boy, i got mad at him and he said "No, Sydney, I'm sorry, you know I love you, your my best friend!!".
It was so sweet, but his girlfriend got so mad about the love you part until we explained to her that we tell eachother that all the time meaning "love you like a best friend", lol

2006-11-23 09:30:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

He's my brother, 19, on the computer nonstop, likes anime, and goth music (he isn't gothic)

I don't want to get him the movies he asked my mom to get cause each one is around $100

Please make it $90 or under

2006-11-23 09:26:11 · 2 answers · asked by Sarah S 2

i feel like i really love him and i trust him and i dont think he is cheating yet everyone still tells me 2 break up and says"it isnt worth it" but i believe it is

2006-11-23 09:25:26 · 4 answers · asked by krissykris7701 1

my bf dont say i love u to me and that is really buging me please help me
or how do i ask him if he really likes me or love me

2006-11-23 09:05:46 · 3 answers · asked by Kells 1

Today my grandmother discreetly told me to stash an envelope in my purse that she handed to me after my dad told her not to. She's given me money that my parents tell her not to give me before. I've learned to, after trying to refuse it in the past, take the money with a gracious thank you.

My dad stopped me after getting home and asked me what my grandmother gave me. I told him she gave me ten dollars along with a small note saying "Just something to say I love you." We were in a recent severe car accident, so I understand that she's glad I'm still here, but dad said something like "You shouldn't have taken that."

I went on to say "What was I supposed to do? If I hadn't accepted it, she'dve been mad. If I did, you would have been mad." He finally admitted to me that she'd try to pay him for part of a relative's funeral flowers that his sister didn't pay a part of. He didn't accept it, so she told him she'd give it to me and did.

What am I supposed to do?

2006-11-23 09:04:23 · 4 answers · asked by madame_operaghost 2

2006-11-23 08:56:59 · 9 answers · asked by Blue Neon 1

What wud u do, if you have 4 sisters sitting at home unmarried that too in the age of 30 and above. Wat wud u do, wen u luv someone and she leaves u boz her parents r not agreeing to him because of different caste and she never fights for it.. Wat wud u do..???/

2006-11-23 08:39:04 · 12 answers · asked by Sunny4U 2

but why why why are funny intelligant people that make me laugh getting violations blah blah blah yet for the 2nd day running the same sick question about someones husbands need to pass bowel movements into wifes mouth still being repeatedly posted???? Its gross and makes me want to hurl.Just thought id say.Cheers for listening .....i feel better now

2006-11-23 08:28:52 · 12 answers · asked by Nellynoo 4

In a month I will be with my girl for 2 years! We have been through so much together that we are so close I can almost garuntee that I will marry her...sometime soon. Anyway she has taken so much sh*t from me in the past year that I want to show her how much I love her and appreciate her for standing beside me the whole way. I thought about getting her this huge diamond ring I saw at the jewlery for about 1k but I feel like I should do somthing more special than just buy her something. Should I take her out somewhere for just the two of us or somewhere more public like a good restaurant then afterward give her the ring...or should I even give her the ring yet. Any suggestions?

2006-11-23 08:26:36 · 2 answers · asked by James M 2

please, and i wish to have a happy lovelife and a good future with my buddy someday.

2006-11-23 08:22:41 · 6 answers · asked by beth m 1

If u tell tell ur close female friend that you need a break from her and she DISAGREED\WAS RUDE TOWARDS ME as a result---does it mean anything???

I said this after she said we wudn't go further than friends as she didn't want to risk losing our friendship.(we r attracted to each other-is confirmed).

She said friends don’t take breaks and that I should get a grip---MEANING?

My reason was that she was behaving odd towards me and I thought it best we have some time apart.Especially for me to get over my feelings.

Have said I value our friendship and I mean that.

Advice?

2006-11-23 08:16:22 · 12 answers · asked by sircrazydude90 2