Other - Family & Relationships - 23 November 2006

I am not a sexual person and he knew this from the begining.
I only have sex once or twice a month with him, and this is not enough for him.
He tries alot then gets depressed and acts like it's a big part of a relationship.
He says he loves me but can't respect my wishes of not wanting to have sex.
Is this wrong?
How often do you have sex with your "significant other"?
Please answer these questions honestly for me. (And him)
Thank you.

2006-11-23 08:01:15 · 14 answers · asked by [Heza] 3

Every time I looks in the mirror, I think I look like a dog. Do I have self-esteem issues?

2006-11-23 07:56:36 · 5 answers · asked by missnewbooshi 1

my boyfriend and i decided to break up and i didnt wont to and i gave him a 10 page letter saying how i still loved him and he gave me another chance but its not the same!!

2006-11-23 07:49:07 · 14 answers · asked by hayy<3 2

To make a long story short, my friend told me that her boyfriend (bf) told her that my bf told him that he cheated on me with a bartender. When I confronted my bf he said he never said it. I would feel unfair and unsatisfied to break up with him with no proof because I love him and he could be telling the truth, yet I at the same time I feel that he is dishonest b/c my friend would not make it up. The doubts in his honestly is making our relationship hard. How do I get proof that he did cheat or that he didnt? They didnt say the bartender's name but i could guess because he pays extra attention to one girl, but i could be wrong. I need help in detecting lies. Does anyone know HOW I can catch him if he is lieing? I have considered lie detector tests? What about interigation services?? I REALLY need to know the truth for closure so I can deal with it. I am desparate! Its driving me crazy to be in this limbo. You can email me for more details or if u have ideas. Thanks

2006-11-23 07:43:09 · 8 answers · asked by beverly 1

Last night I was sleeping and all of the sudden the room really got cold and I woke up and their was a black figure in my room and the next thing I knew the thing just went into the air. Here is the scary part EVERY WORD that was RUNNING IN MY HEAD appeared on the wall EVERY SINGLE IMAGE IN MY HEAD APPEARED ON THE WALL LIKE MY WALL WAS ONE BIG TV. My dog, which is scared of nothing was under my bed shaking violently. One last thing early that day I was having deja vu constantly throughout the day. What is happening to me?

Ps I'm not religious, don't do drugs nor alcohol, nor on meds.

2006-11-23 07:38:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-23 07:17:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

At the beginning of the year I met a guy through a dating websie and in may I met him in person.
We got engaged in August and we chose a ring and decided to pay it off (I only work 2 days a week and he only works casual too so we don't have money). I called the jeweler a few weeks after we chose it and found out that he had cancelled the purchase, then his mum called me and told me things were happening too fast and he wanted to call off the engagement.
I spoke to him and we are now secretly engaged and planning on telling our parents next year.
The thing is he has called off the engagement 3 times so far and I'm scared he is gonna leave me so I am going to try for a baby so he stays.
My friend thinks thos is wrong of me but I don't agree.
I'mm 33 and he'd 36

2006-11-23 07:17:15 · 11 answers · asked by nerrie 1

ive been with my partner now for a year and 3 months, he suffers from Bi-Polar 111 which is bad mood swings and strange thoughts and many more things, underneath his a very nice man when his not on one of his moods, i keep telling him he needs me more then i need him, his lost the abilty to talk to people and keep friends because of his behaviour, he gets very high rated and wont see im trying to help him we went to relate but after the 5th visit he shouted he dont want to go no more he wants to do it him self, and wants to be the head of the house hold and take control of my money as his always complained i get more then him and his jelous of the bond i have with my family and he has none with his as they dont want to know him as his to hard to live with his mental state, ive told him i have a load of patients but at times i do lose it with him as he over steps the mark with his words, which at times do hurt and he always wants people to let him off due to his mental state.

2006-11-23 07:16:44 · 1 answers · asked by A A 2

My girlfriend and I are having a trip around Christmas times, one of these nights, we'll be getting a hotel room in a nice little tourist town.
I was wondering how can I make her feel really special that night? crafting a really romantic atmosphere.

for example, flower petals on bed, champagne, chocolates, things like that? of course there's a budget to all this too.

original/cheesy ideas all welcomed!
thanks!

2006-11-23 07:14:22 · 6 answers · asked by fjass 1

2006-11-23 06:56:03 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend and I had NO problems whatsoever, promising, planned future, marriage, kids, she even planned the wedding! she said, well elope in vegas, then have a reception when we get home. Just two weeks ago, she was telling me that i had better sing at the reception, what the hell happened? she quit her job, and became depressed, stressed out, then started getting feelings for her ex again. I moved out, and cant get her out of my head. i did not know happiness until i met her. i just want to know if she is going to come back to me. i cant ask myself, because i am too scared. i just cant throw all that we had away. it was too perfect. we had no problems at all. we spent every minute together, and loved it.

2006-11-23 06:48:08 · 11 answers · asked by Jermz 1

2006-11-23 06:45:10 · 3 answers · asked by robert 1

2006-11-23 06:40:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-23 06:23:02 · 10 answers · asked by tom h 1

Whenever i refuse to fulfill her demands,she becomes violent (yelling &shouting...).

2006-11-23 06:20:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Where would you like to see yourself? What would be your greatest achievement for that period?

I hope it comes true by the way!!

2006-11-23 06:18:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-23 06:16:01 · 1 answers · asked by chris s 1

my friend who is a girl doesnt like her pictures being taken, i have seen her pictures, they come out awful! she looks quite good in real life though (well of course she has her bad days, and apparently quite a few, but generally speaking she is very cute, and i think she knows that!) now if she doesnt want her pictures to be taken, then why do people force her to? like they literally use their physical power to drag her into the picture. fine, they like to have their friend/family member in the picture, but isnt it a kinda selfish reason? i have seen her cry when she sees her "ugly" pictures, is it really worth it? those people need to give her a break. friendship/family love is not all about taking pictures, is it?

2006-11-23 06:12:12 · 1 answers · asked by rose 1

doesnt love them back, cold towards them, boys who hurt them still they stay.. and mean boys who hurt thier hearts but girls keep coming back..


are GIRLS born martyr or what ???

2006-11-23 05:59:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

She has very expensive taste and needless to say, I can't keep up! But I also don't want to give her something that she hates, you know!

2006-11-23 05:56:47 · 13 answers · asked by blitzyditz 2

I ask this question, because it is too easy to remember the BAD things people tell you!

2006-11-23 05:53:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

A family of 4? Husband, wife, and 2 children?

What do you think about the ideal family size?

2006-11-23 05:52:50 · 11 answers · asked by Jimmy the Cricket 3

He is a black minority at the school. Infact, he was the first black child at that school & was well received. he has made many friends too. Recently he came back complaining of having been called names (racial) & we discussed this with the teacher. We been called to the school on a number of times to discuss his behaviour. He interupts lessons, doesn't raise his hand before speaking, interjects class and generally his listening has deteriorated. There was a noticeable change for the worse when he moved from year 4 to 5. He had the same teacher in years 3&4 who used to adhore him and treated him exceptionally. At home he doesn't even listen to us at all & we have to repeat ourselves several times before he obliges.His interests are more on tv,games & sport. He is constantly in a fighting mood with other kids and is very loud. I desperately need help. We were contemplating sending him back home but the situation economically is at its worst there - Zimbabwe. I'm worried stiff.

2006-11-23 05:48:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was flirting with this guy and he asked me to let him know in advance when i was out in his town next time rather than leave it to chance. i told him i fancied him and asked when he was going to ask me out on a date.he said that he thinks hes around this saturday.i said, well that doesnt sound very definate and we just carried on flirting.

im not going to be out in his town saturday but am friday so i text him saying that ill be out on friday nite if your around. he didnt text me back.

hes been chasing me for years and he says he likes me blah blah blah!!we have kissed too.

is he just keeping it cool, and if hes around he will text me like we both usually do with eachother?

would he have mentioned "a day" at all if he wasnt really interested?

hes was even chasing me when i was in my previous serious relationship, which he knew about.




hes nearly 29.ive heard he hasnt had a serious relationship before

2006-11-23 05:42:03 · 9 answers · asked by smokey!! 1

i thinkt this is a gd quetions that neeeds ansering!! Plssss

2006-11-23 05:08:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend has his own place and I still live with my parents. He is always doing nice things, like cooking me meals or taking me out. What could I do that is really romantic for him. p.s I'm not a good cook

2006-11-23 05:08:53 · 4 answers · asked by laura h 1

2006-11-23 05:05:56 · 21 answers · asked by skin 2

2006-11-23 05:05:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

been in lot of pain on my life. and my parents was part of it.I had a big breakup . with my last BF.it was so hard form.it takes me alot of time to get over it.my mom wants to get me out of the country. so she can take my passport and get me married with someone I don't know. that's why I didn't wants to leave with them.anyways. my parents keep give me hard time. I cant go out. they wants me to work and that's it.I turn 21. this year I fell like IAM ruined my life listening to my parents. I have good job and I can live i n my own. But I don't want to leave them specially. there old. anyways. I met this guy in the mall he seems really nice. but hes so Young. hes 23 and I am 21. The way he Acts I don't think hes ready for a series relationship. he keep asking for my pass. he told me he never had a GF. I fell like he just want to get the experience from me. and leave me. I told him I don't want to have sex now he seems okay with it but still . I cant trust men again.he told me that he .

2006-11-23 04:45:07 · 2 answers · asked by heregoagain_1 1

Any ideas how people dont understand that you can cause many problems with having unprotected sex? how can people be educated better?!

2006-11-23 04:42:52 · 6 answers · asked by bikbokkop 2