my friend who is a girl doesnt like her pictures being taken, i have seen her pictures, they come out awful! she looks quite good in real life though (well of course she has her bad days, and apparently quite a few, but generally speaking she is very cute, and i think she knows that!) now if she doesnt want her pictures to be taken, then why do people force her to? like they literally use their physical power to drag her into the picture. fine, they like to have their friend/family member in the picture, but isnt it a kinda selfish reason? i have seen her cry when she sees her "ugly" pictures, is it really worth it? those people need to give her a break. friendship/family love is not all about taking pictures, is it?
2006-11-23 06:12:12 · 1 answers · asked by rose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
SHE needs to stand her ground and firmly tell them no. I personally have the same problem....I HATE PIX OF ME. They never look good. I just adamently tell the NO to a pix. Unless it is a family pix for a reunion then she needs to decide to be in them as they are keepsakes. Also one of the reasons they may come out looking "awful" is BECAUSE she was forced into them and it shows on her face. Tell her that if she just goes along, if she is going to give in anyway, and GRIN and Bear it the pix will come out better. Other than that if she is uncomfortable that day with a pix she needs to say NO and mean it. People are funny they truly do not understand others phobias. By funny I don't mean ha ha. Tell your friend she is not alone. I wish my pix would come out as good as my avatar. GOOD LUCK to both of you and what a great friend you are to ask the question.
2006-11-23 07:01:34 · answer #1 · answered by ஐAldaஐ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋