Other - Family & Relationships - 19 November 2006

okay i have been riding horses since i was 6. i will be 20 in march that is along time that i have been riding. my b/f wants me to stop riding because i got hurt really bad. i was in the hospital fo r2 weeks i have 4 horses what should i do????? he says that if i keep riding that i want have him i am really stuck help

2006-11-19 23:58:28 · 7 answers · asked by yours truly 2

i've got a boyfriend and its been for about a month now...the thing is, its just for fun, for me aniwaiz, i'm on a kinda rebound thing and about 3 weeks before we hooked up, he broke up with his gf...i don't feel serious and i don't know about him..am i right by keeping him with me wen its just for fun??

2006-11-19 23:58:16 · 10 answers · asked by M!Z3 2

2006-11-19 23:41:14 · 2 answers · asked by interested 4

tables and chatting to me, i am chatting back but now my wife has found out - what do i do? This is a serious question

2006-11-19 23:41:07 · 16 answers · asked by EDWARD H 1

Can anyone help? I like to get them something a bit different every year. Last year I got them a trip out for the day but this year I'm really stuck, they already have everything practical and stuff related to hobbies! Help!

2006-11-19 23:13:05 · 14 answers · asked by yo_chick 2

and how many times a week is average

2006-11-19 23:05:46 · 20 answers · asked by diane o 3

My birthday is coming up, what shall I ask for if I'm asked? (i'll be 24!!!)

2006-11-19 22:55:57 · 3 answers · asked by curiosity 4

There is this guy frm church. I like him. We are just friends, and he dsnt kno abt my feelings for him. Recently he txtd one of my friends and asked for my phone number. ANd frm then on he has been txtin me. I also do.
And then everyday, even if we dnt txt each other, he will txt me every nite specially to say gud-nite.
Im confused. What are his feelings for me?

2006-11-19 22:50:56 · 7 answers · asked by Ninja 2

We live together for about half a year and moved in right away at the beginning. It went fine for a few months but then he just started to be so controling and starts to do very hurtful things, When I try to talk to him about something that's important to me or thats bothering me, he either falls asleep, says it's boring to talk about and if he does talk to me he makes it into a battle of just wanting to be right and not listining, turns it around to be about me and that i'm being stupid basicaly and I end up saying sorry for having the argument. Now lately he's been complaining we don't have enough sex, about once a week (or less), he wants to have sex 3 times a week. But he's simply not intimate, caring and respectfull with me, I really hate having sex with him, it feels like a chore just to make him be nicer to me. I told him I need more intimacy prior to sex but he doesnt seem to get it and just blows it off he even said his grandparents do it more just to hurt me.What should I do?

2006-11-19 22:45:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't mean sexual, just sweet things you may say or do every night before bed?

2006-11-19 22:32:02 · 8 answers · asked by blahblahblah 5

3 weeks ago I broke up with my girlfriend of 4 years. I'm living in a foreign country (that I came to because of her) and can't speak the language. I'd go home, but I love my job and I don't want to be unemployed and living with my parents. My work involves lots of interaction with people and I cope with that very well. However, I'm very depressed and I avoid all social situations. There is a lively expat community here, they meet up often, but I never go. I spend all my time working, sleeping or watching films alone. I really don't want another relationship for a long time and I'm not motivated to socialize. How do I get myself to cheer up and get out more?

2006-11-19 22:30:29 · 13 answers · asked by ben w 2

We're in a skul that restricts certain activities like frantenising (so guys n girls cant sit together or dance, etc), and there's gonna be no music allowed. depressing huh? da only gud ting is da food. PLEASE HELP!!

2006-11-19 21:58:24 · 3 answers · asked by noodles 2

When you have to "Pee". Do you just "Go", or do you find a toilet?

2006-11-19 21:01:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have 2 children and I dont feel any romance with her. Is that normal and real?

2006-11-19 20:45:33 · 20 answers · asked by itsme 1

I have been with my boyfriend 27 months and he is definately the one. I love him so much, we have been living together for 18 months.
His family live in Spain and he was meant to be moving across there to live there but he fell in love with me and decided to stay because he didnt want to leave me.
His family are now wanting to move to Australia and planning to move across there in about 18 months time... and my boyfriend wants to go, but said he will only go if i go.
He is so close with his family, honestly, i have never seen any family closer... his dad is like his best friend.
I feel so guilty because i dont want to go. I would be leaving my friend and family behind and i couldnt handle not seeing them.

SHould i break up with him? thats the only way he will go without me. I couldnt face him resenting me for him not going in years to come.

2006-11-19 20:38:00 · 24 answers · asked by XPINKX 2

hey i am amit 21 male from uttar pradesh
i am an IT professional i had never got any girlfriend as i always
seem that it is not neccessary to have it. I always dedicated all my
time in studies and never tried to make any girlfriend .
I have many friends(boys) but now from some time onwards i feel that
i should also have a nice girlfriend nice means here nice hearted.

So any girl who want to be mine girlfriend plz plz mail to me and
give her's E-mail id . Believe me i can be a very good friend of urs . So my request is to go ahead and forward your hand towards me for freiendship

2006-11-19 20:21:57 · 14 answers · asked by amit 1

my boyfriend has put on a lot of weight in the past year.....so much so that we cant find his manhood anymore.Infact its that bad he actually has to face the toilet with his rear just so he hits the bowl.Anyway im obviously feeling a little frustrated and am taking this out on him.I keep calling him fatty arbuckle and this makes him cry but last night i took it a step further....i tripped him over and nearly burst a gut laughing.He was like a tortise placed on his shell his little legs and arms flapping about.Anyway hes still there now looking like a fat weeble wobble body poppin on the living room carpet.Should i leave him there or call the emergancy services?Am i wrong to get joy out of mocking his fatness?

2006-11-19 19:55:54 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

We were whipped with a switch or made to stand in the corner. Jeeze that sucked. lol. It was almost always my Momma. God love her. She was still a great Momma though.

2006-11-19 19:46:38 · 13 answers · asked by ۩ Cuthbert ♂ 4

I am 19 and he is 28. He told me that we were "broke up" and now he says he's considering moving me in. However, I am not allowed to be there on the days that he has his daughter. I live in Longmont, and he lives in Glenwood Springs. It's a long distance. I will always be worried that he will drop me off and then not pick me up again. I don't know what to think. I love this man so much, but I don't need to be let down by him again. If we're broke up, then why would I move in? If I move in, it will be serious, and he doesn't want me to be around his daughter, mostly because of the ex wifes influence. He tells me he wants to get married and have kids someday, that he's angry because his ex "ruined our relationship," yet he wanted to break up with me only a couple weeks ago. I need some advice. Is it worth it to try again with this guy I'm in love with? Or should I tell him that we need to wait until he earns his trust? Should I talk to him and find out if he wants to be serious? Or not?

2006-11-19 19:44:20 · 5 answers · asked by Raye 2

why is it that you may be able to give great advice to others, but when it comes to yourself you don't know what to do? anyone have this problem?

2006-11-19 19:34:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am always honest with my girlfriend even if it up sets her, but recently she asked me if her tummy is fat and i said yes.At the moment she avoids speaking to me and pays no attention to me cause of this.I have said sorry for hurting her feelings but she is just not having it.Any advice ladies?Please help.

2006-11-19 19:34:00 · 21 answers · asked by mielo 1

he &me had a 9 month love affair. he always refused protection, but i refused to be careless. until weeks ago. i wanted to trust him and do love him. even though i knew it might be a risk. i was just so happy and love blinded me. after a long time not seeing him, i "freaked out" and fell from the clouds. i had fear of not knowing his past and of a possible hiv infection. i called him and asked him to make the test. he cheered me up a little. sweet. wanted to go there if i needed to be sure. i told him he kind of put me back in tracks. i was glad first. but now, since this call where he reassured me and cheered me up, i have not heard from him since 2 weeks :-( it is a long story...some things make it impossible for us to be closer. but as far as i can, i do love him in a special way. i tolerate his way and i really really appreciate and love him. but now...

what is it? is he afraid? angry i dared to think such a thing of him? does he feel like i overpassed a barrier & now hiding from

2006-11-19 19:10:18 · 1 answers · asked by india18 2

I'm 19, so the homemade stuff wont cut it. I'm looking to spend $50-$150 on multiple things or one good thing. He isnt a big sports buff, he rides a Harley (I've gotten him thousands of Harley stuff,) and he is a handy man but doesnt need any more tools. I'm stumped on what I should get him, and would love some ideas. Thanks!

2006-11-19 19:05:20 · 5 answers · asked by Snolan860 3

2006-11-19 18:38:05 · 21 answers · asked by Manikandan PK 1

I used to date this guy I met in AIT. It didn't quite work out so now we keep in touch. Lately, he's been getting into trouble, smoking alot of pot, dropping out of school. He didn't do any of those things when I was with him. He sent me an email saying that he misses me and that he still loves me. He called and sounded really pitiful. I told him there is nothing that I would rather be doing than hugging and kissing him. So, whats the problem you ask? I'm pregnant with someone else's child and engaged to that someone else. My ex is not ready for a child(especially if it's not his) but he says he doesn't care. He still wants to try to work it out. Even though we tried once, I think we can do it. But I don't want to hurt my fiancee. On the other hand, I believe that if you love someone(mainly an ex), no other relationships work. What should I do?

2006-11-19 18:17:04 · 5 answers · asked by dtwnangel04 1

2006-11-19 18:05:30 · 12 answers · asked by Janu 2

I told my family about my wanting to be a girl last night. Everyone promised not to tell my dad, but someone did. My mom told him because she said she couldn't talk to him if she didn't get that out. She kept saying sorry, but she doesn't know how badly my life is ruined. What am I supposed to do?! I feel like running away from home, but I can't do that again. I want to see a therapist but I have to set up an appointment, and i don't know where to find a gender therapist in my area. My brother david told my dad that I simply wanted to stay young and I was getting mixed up (to defend me) and my dad bought it. I just stayed in my room the whole day yesterday so I wouldn't have to deal with my dad. He knocked on the door and said he didn't care, but I was out of my comfort zone. What am I supposed to do? My own mom who I trusted the most betrayed me, and she says she likes me the way I am and doesn't ant me to change. I want to change SO BADLY, but no one knows that but me.

2006-11-19 17:58:37 · 12 answers · asked by Stephen 1

Doesnt seem kinda nasty when you really think about it? That your poop shoot is right by the vargina penis etc. Does anyone feel grossed out about that at times like it is not normal. Or better yet why did God design us this way, any ideas?

2006-11-19 17:46:32 · 15 answers · asked by sfgjhsfgjsfgj d 1

2006-11-19 17:39:38 · 13 answers · asked by Jojomon 2

ok im 15 and im the nice guy i am a ladies man i treat women like they should and not like objects but ive pretty much snapped cause theres no room for nice guys and im thinking about jus treating women like most guys do ill be the asshole bf should i change or no i dont know im confused and really hurt help plz

2006-11-19 17:05:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous