I am always honest with my girlfriend even if it up sets her, but recently she asked me if her tummy is fat and i said yes.At the moment she avoids speaking to me and pays no attention to me cause of this.I have said sorry for hurting her feelings but she is just not having it.Any advice ladies?Please help.
2006-11-19 19:34:00 · 21 answers · asked by mielo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you always reply NO to the fat question!
2006-11-19 19:36:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You NEVER you the words yes and fat in a sentence together when speaking to a woman! If youd felt compelled to be so honest with her you should have phrased it something like - well dear you certainly look curvy in it - but I fancy you rotten in it - something along those lines!
I admire the fact taht you were honest with her and not lulling her into a false sense of thiness - but just be careful and more considerate when answering questions as sensitive as this! xx
2006-11-20 00:32:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-20 05:28:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, what the hell is wrong with you.
If a girl asks anything about looking fat, the answer is ALWAYS "No honey, you look great".
You need to apologise and beg for forgiveness. Maybe plead momentary insanity. Get her a big bunch of flowers and take her out for a special evening.
Maybe join the gym yourself and begin working out - what's good for the goose, is good for the gander
2006-11-19 19:38:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you are a fool! I always want the truth also! If you told me "yes your tummy is fat" I probably would get upset but that will motivate me into doing something about it..... if she cares so much for your relationship with her she will soon forgive you..and ask her "did you want me to lie to you or tell you the truth?!"
2006-11-19 19:40:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right, you did a bad bad thing, thats the worst thing a man can do exept for cheating, when she asks you that your meant to say something like - awww its so cute i love it, its part of you! or if shes ultra sensitive you just lie and say no way honey your not fat at all! Try and explain to her that it wasnt an insult, you just meant it was rounder than usual and you love it!!
Silly, silly man
2006-11-19 20:53:04 · answer #6 · answered by Summerbreeze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh dear... that wasnt a very clever thing to say was it? Little white lies are designed for this scenario and you shouldnt have been so honest. Tell her you made a mistake and you love her body reagrdless of the little lumps and bumps that we all have!
Make her feel special and beautiful and she will come around eventually
2006-11-20 02:35:45 · answer #7 · answered by Sophia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh-oh, it's the dilemma regarding to fatness. It's always wrong, anyway. If you tell her the truth, she would get mad... but if you tell her "No", she knows you lied.
The safe thing to tell is: "Not to me!"
Yeah, you have to lie, but you have no choice. But if your gf has a sense of humour, you could pass her an article about "How miserable it is for a guy to answer this question", or you should warn her, "Don't ask me about things you wouldn't like to hear from me."
2006-11-19 20:24:25 · answer #8 · answered by Jo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD NEVER EVER EVER EVER tell a girl that she is fat,
and if your lucky your girlfriend might forgive you,but thats a 1 chance in a million, ovbiously,sorry isnt enough,take her out to a meal,get her some bunch of nice flowers,and a box of chocies, im sure she will
forgive you,(well,hopefully!)
2006-11-20 03:58:20 · answer #9 · answered by *Å®åßîåñ P®îñÇꧧ ©* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have said that it's not fat, but if she feels like she'd like to tone it a little you'd be happy to help with some sit-ups and she could help you in return and you could talk about your days while you're at it.
She'd have preferred that.
2006-11-19 19:36:36 · answer #10 · answered by jinz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont lie!! tell her this darling would you like me to go through our realtionship just telling you what you wanted to hear? If so honey our relationship isnt based on trust is it, I want you to tell me the truth always darling!!
as for your tummy being fat its not huge maybe if you did a bit more exercise with me.(not sex)
My husband used this on me and i really respected him cause relationship is based on truth and honesty
2006-11-19 21:10:09 · answer #11 · answered by jules 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋