i've got a boyfriend and its been for about a month now...the thing is, its just for fun, for me aniwaiz, i'm on a kinda rebound thing and about 3 weeks before we hooked up, he broke up with his gf...i don't feel serious and i don't know about him..am i right by keeping him with me wen its just for fun??
2006-11-19 23:58:16 · 10 answers · asked by M!Z3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sure it is, as long as he knows that your not interested in a relationship right now.
2006-11-20 00:00:21 · answer #1 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me when a person says they have a "boyfriend" or girlfriend" then it is already of a serious nature. There are different levels of seriousness. So it seems this male person is someone you just want to hang out with maybe even on a regular basis until something else better comes along. To me this is called playing a person unless the other person knows totally up front that you just want to have fun and nothing else because if they don't know and they get hooked on you then someone gets hurt. If this other person wants to just have fun with no level of seriousness as well then there should be no problem but if you have not expressed your feelings then might you be telling this person so they can make a totally fair determination of what they want and if this is what they want and they get hooked then it is by no means your fault otherwise you are playing an unfair game. So tell this person where you stand and then go from there.
2006-11-20 00:17:11 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look if this is the way you feel, tell the boyfriend that is was just for fun and you do not want to take this relationship any further. Just be honest with him. If you did the sex thing with him, you really should not have. You know guys, the sex thing really means more to some guys than others. Hopefully when you tell him he can take it as maybe just something that happened or maybe a one night stand or so. Let him go if you are not serious and do not do any more serious things with him. Know what I mean.
2006-11-20 01:00:52 · answer #3 · answered by Rooster 1972 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. in order to heal from a broken past, one must be patient & take the needed time it requires. the worse thing people do is look to other people to make them feel good. why r either of u wasting time, risking ur bods 4? fun isn't fun -- it's potentially dangerous! ask urself y u feel it's necess 2 be w/someone 4 "fun"? u need 2 really eval u n order 2 know how & what has gone wrong n prior relations 2 prepare 4 when the "real-thing" comes along.
2006-11-20 00:04:45 · answer #4 · answered by 4everFaithful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends make the world go round- As long as you make it clear to him, you will avoid any 'issues' that may later arise. Have fun and enjoy it - together ! But don't stop comminicating to him that what you really want is not what you doing with him. BUt you never know what life throws at you- so go with the flow !
2006-11-20 00:21:15 · answer #5 · answered by Isabella B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right as long as both of you are semi-involved. Its normal for both of you to find eachother after break ups but just try and make sure you know when to put a stop to it! I have never been able to let go of a sure thing, my ex, and it got super ugly between us just because I didnt say stop at the right time!
2006-11-20 00:00:40 · answer #6 · answered by Curious George 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as he knows it's just for fun.
2006-11-19 23:59:36 · answer #7 · answered by tumbleweed1954 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well yeah everyone deserves a life with a bit of fun in it
2006-11-20 00:01:00 · answer #8 · answered by laura j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all need companionship and friends. Soo, enjoy.
2006-11-20 00:00:14 · answer #9 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no b/c someone is going to get hurt if you are not careful
2006-11-20 00:01:23 · answer #10 · answered by yours truly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋