Other - Family & Relationships - 18 November 2006

Like if you kept arguing because both didn't think the other appreciate each other. That both need recognition the other refuses to give because they want it more. And have been trying to improve it for couple of years with the same thing occuring.

Both have to have the reassurance. Arguing all the time so stopped communication. Both have to get the recognition for survival of the self idenity. Sound immature but that's the way it is.

2006-11-18 23:05:18 · 8 answers · asked by wondering 4

The man I was dating several months back was having financial problems. I was 19, he was 26. I didn't know the severity of his problems until I started having to pay for everything: dates, dinner, movies, shopping, his gas, his food...etc. His car was almost repo-ed, I loaned him $800 so he wouldn't miss his payment. He promised to pay me back. Months later we stopped seeing each other. Everytime I'd ask for my money, he'd dodge me. The last time I asked he became angry. He said he couldn't pay me back. He has some items of mine(he claims to have lost, and said that is my fault i left them) I really want back: autographed CD's and diamond stud earrings. He said to leave him alone. Im in a serious bind. I want to get a lawyer, but in order to do so, I'd have to tell my parent's. They'll be FURIOUS with me for even loaning out money. What should I do? It isn't fair for me to sit idle while this jerk is probably conning another girl, and telling her the same lies he told me. Please HELP!

2006-11-18 22:56:22 · 11 answers · asked by Sarah A 1

when my girl & I desided to become more serious we got rid of any singles sites we may have had. we met on one of those sites , its been 7 months now & we have talked about marriage , but for the past month or so we've had some problems. Recently I desided to do a search on POF (you dont have to have an account to search) I geared my search towards my gf there she was & all of the info was correct as far as where she lives age zodiac sign the fact that she has a child e , in the spot for relationship status it says perfer not to say it also says that in the do you want childeren .. We recently found out she is pregnant. OK I am not stupid , but she swears she did not make that profile , she says she tried to log in to it and cant also that she sent an e-mail to the site about the fake profile. no response. She even went as far as to show me her history in her PC to show that she had not been on that site. So how do I prove that she did or didnt make that profile dont know what 2 do

2006-11-18 22:52:33 · 5 answers · asked by bigdaddycain 1

2006-11-18 22:43:47 · 7 answers · asked by lori 3

2006-11-18 22:34:46 · 27 answers · asked by catweazle 5

2006-11-18 22:18:47 · 17 answers · asked by hedgeybear 4

I am 35 and my husband is 40. We both are broadminded and have a lot of understanding. Once in a month we go for "spouse exchnge" programmes with other like minded healthy couples.( I get sex from the other man and his wife gets from my husband). Tell me, is it good or anything wrong with it?

2006-11-18 22:15:02 · 3 answers · asked by tullu 1

I want to find unique ways of showing my girlfriend how much I care for her. We have a good relationship but with some extra stress that we both don't need. I just want to show her that I am there for her no matter what. I already do the normal things but I would like some sweeter ideas to use here and there. The suggestions that I am asking for should be one's that I can use from time to time. I want to be the best boyfriend in the world for her as she is the best girlfriend for me. If you are a female I'd prefer an answer from you but if you are a guy that is okay too. Thanks everyone.

2006-11-18 22:05:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i work in the entertainment business, and i'm in a bit of a dilemma and need your help, i usually work in the older peoples section, like say from 30/40ish range, so the music i play is normally dated back to the 70's/80's, anyways i have started this new job where the people are aged 18/25, and last night i had a few problems with music, so i need some help here, yeah i am an old fogie....lol...and waaaaaaaaaaay behind the times...and would appreciate you 18/25's to help me out with the music of today....yes see, i told you i was behind the times....so guys, could you tell me whats the in thing today for your age range...i would truly appreciate it, as some lad asked me for some music last night and i had no clue who he was talking about..lol..so fire away people...i need some help here....thankyou...serious answers only please...not in the mood for smart *** quips today

2006-11-18 21:48:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

what three things we can trust? Like: old wife and what else..

2006-11-18 21:34:52 · 8 answers · asked by kc s 1

this question is for people of india...i m a fan of Carol Gracias and i want her postal or email adddress so if u know it can u give it to me...thanks

2006-11-18 21:25:39 · 1 answers · asked by justme_rai 1

I don't think that sex is somthing that is needed in a relationship but it is somthing that I want. My girlfriend is a virgin and I am afraid that if I ask her to have sex with me then she will not trust me anymore. We do love each other... but up till this point I didn't think sex was somthing that we were ready for. I am ready now but I don't know if she is. How do I go about asking her to do this?

2006-11-18 21:19:48 · 6 answers · asked by vegeto38329 1

wat does this mean? k my bf said this guy owed him money (my bf's in a gang) and he said he has to take him out wat does that mean im scared 4 him!

2006-11-18 20:43:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-18 20:34:01 · 2 answers · asked by crazyloverboyman 2

We met only online on the net, knew each other by chatting. While chatting on him I heard from him a very incouraging words about what life is. Really I'm impressed about his words and telling that He love me and He feels that I'm the Angle of his life that God to him which He has looking for. Until the time all his words I felt in loved with him

2006-11-18 20:32:45 · 7 answers · asked by truthie0603 1

2006-11-18 20:04:39 · 4 answers · asked by pavan p 1

This sounds weird, but it kind of bothers me that my current boyfriend's penis is 4 to 5 inches even though I'm not really into sex. He's also decently tall, at 5'11".

My ex's penises ranged from 6 to 8 inches, with the average at around 6.5/7" or so, so it's just weird for me.

Also, my boyfriend makes jokes about the penis a lot and the size, and I don't think he realizes his size is smaller, and I don't say anything because I don't want to hurt his feelings...so it makes it more awkward when it's not in the open.

Would it bother you, ladies?

2006-11-18 20:02:12 · 15 answers · asked by Forte 1

I need a friend locally, but my situation is complicated. Does anybody know a friend ship sites or anything like that? I am not looking for dating or anything like that, but a friend that can come over and chat, keep me company while I take care of daily chores, and go to doctor visits with. Does any body know of such sites?

2006-11-18 20:01:39 · 7 answers · asked by lino 1

My Bf had been acting really wierd!! Hes acting mad but won't tell me whats wrong! He's like blocking himself of from me! He said something about me kissing another guy but...I haven't! I told him i swore i didn't!!.....The only thing I have done is my bf wasn't where I Could get to him so I invited two of my guy friends over to watch movies but we layed on my bed with no parents! could he think that I did something with them? I need help what do I do I am so confused because he won't communicate with me what so ever!!

2006-11-18 20:00:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-18 19:54:45 · 22 answers · asked by Jo K.L. 2

2006-11-18 19:20:18 · 8 answers · asked by anna c 1

2006-11-18 19:16:23 · 18 answers · asked by ? 5

I'm currently dating this guy who's sweet and kind...(online) and one of my online friends asked me to go out with him... and he's nice too and we've been friends for a long time. Well.. which do I pick..?

2006-11-18 19:08:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i had a slight arguement with my friend today. Where she offered me a ride home and i wouldnt take it
she wanted to know why i wouldnt take it and why i push people away
i basically told her that she never has to worry about me
shes says that she just wants to help and cares that if i ever needed her she was there

then she sent me an email saying this

I just wanted to apologize for how hard I pushed you tonight. I had absolutely no right to butt into your personal buisness like I did. I hope that you can forgive me. Just please understand that it hurts me so much to see my friends in pain. And no, you are not "dragging me down" and yes, I do care, and I care on my own free will. I'm truly greatful that you accepted my offer for the ride because you live a long ways away. Know this: if you need me, I'm here for you...and I know Will is too. You've helped me so much in the past, I wouldn't be as happy as I am now if it weren't for you...so please let me do something for you in return. Even if what you is for me to stay away now, I will. I apologize again. Good night mon ami.

Your friend
Christa

so then i sent her this

i saying this as softly as I can

your not sorry ok

you did nothing wrong

im going to say it again

you did absolutely nothing wrong

its me Christa

i always pushed away its come from my experiences

its the way ive been brought up

I wont ask anyone for a dollar, i wont ask anyone for a ride its just the way i am

if i had to walk 3 miles out of my way to help you or anyone else out i would because that was never done for me


I truly appreciate the care you give and what you both did tonight

its just i never had that before i never had that caring

i didnt know how to react



if you want to know whats really going on with me right now i would tell you


i dont want anything in return as far as im concered i didnt do anything for you that you wouldnt do for me


i just want you to be yourself

thats it


i want you to laugh at my jokes when you think there funny i want you to smile when you want to smile

watching you or anyone else laugh because of something i did or said gives me more than you could imagine


Christa i know you still dont want to hear this

im the last person you ever need to worry about

i think its spectacular how you care after i say that

ill find my way through anything ill go over anybody

I would never hurt you.

i would never tell you to go away ever

im sorry for what happenend. Ill take responsiblity.

thank you Christa you gave me something i never had.

if you ever need me for anything im right here
ill always your shoulder to fall back on

shes read it and she hasnt replied back so what i want to know is did i do anything wrong is she angry what can i do to make this right or have i already made it right

2006-11-18 17:59:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-18 17:53:15 · 25 answers · asked by vinny c 2

2006-11-18 17:50:52 · 12 answers · asked by Linda 1

Men, what you make you feel better more...?
What would make you feel better if your women keeps messing up for the 1000 time and you are weary at heart and overly frustrated.

A.) She looks in your eyes and shares with you a deep conversation stating why she decided to change her behavior and take care of you

B) Deep Conversation and actions of comfort afterward like massages and holding and looking very pretty

C) To the point converstaion and actions and a vow on what she will do for now on like never disrespect ou again

D) No Conversation and just actions and a vow

E) Just Actions

F) Just a vow


Thank you. Have to make my boyfriend feel better. I really appeciate it.

2006-11-18 17:49:32 · 4 answers · asked by Muse 4

i have

2006-11-18 17:30:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husbands cousin is so clueless. he is 18, been in this country since he was like 5. he comes over and stays the night a lot. sometimes he won't even call and just show up to hang out with my husband. he will go digging through the fridge and he has a big appetite! if he needs something from my husbands closet, like for example, a t-shirt, he'll just go right in there and get it. I wouldn't mind it as much but i have my undergarments in the same closet. he once decided that he wanted to watch a movie i had in my tv so i walk in and he's laying on my bed watching tv.i have told my husband that i don't feel comfortable with others in my room but he tells me i'm just being paranoid. this is a normal thing in his culture but why does he not respect my wishes. i'm too nice of a person to say anything to him i feel bad because the boy is nice but GET A CLUE MAN! how do you think i should handle this!?

2006-11-18 17:27:36 · 13 answers · asked by adam's_mom 1

Do you agree or disagree? Can you support your argument?

2006-11-18 17:16:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous