My Bf had been acting really wierd!! Hes acting mad but won't tell me whats wrong! He's like blocking himself of from me! He said something about me kissing another guy but...I haven't! I told him i swore i didn't!!.....The only thing I have done is my bf wasn't where I Could get to him so I invited two of my guy friends over to watch movies but we layed on my bed with no parents! could he think that I did something with them? I need help what do I do I am so confused because he won't communicate with me what so ever!!
2006-11-18 20:00:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
From the situation that you just mentioned, I assume that is a normal reaction and not really weird. What you mentioned may be an ''only thing'' for you, but your boyfreind may have got to know through other sources with a bit of twist to it. Did you mention this to your bf before he went, or after he wasnt around, or made any efforts to tell him exactly what happened ? Are these guy freinds, freinds of your bf too ? You mention that there were no parents, and you watched movies, lying on your bed, which I hope was no more than what you mentioned. If you are really true, and if nothing has happened, there is absolutely nothing wrong, and further explaining the whole thing to him and convincing him. His reaction is normal, perhaps you could clear with in the presence of your guy freinds too. Would you be able to do that ?
He may not communicate with you, but you have to, and let him know that this is it. And after a lot of convincing if he is not able to trust you, then he is never going to trust you all your life. Tell him that. Tell him, if he cannot trust you now, and have some faith in your sincerity to him, then I guess that would never happen. Also if you did patch up, this situation may be brought up in different other situations when he chooses too, mentally hurting you.
The solution is, to clear the situation, convince, and communicate, and do this at your best. If it doesnt work, quit. Be calm, quiet, and wait. If he really cares, and has some feelings for you, he may come and tell you himself on how he feels. So the only option, inspite of trying hard, is to only wait and see for yourself.
good luck.
2006-11-18 20:10:35 · answer #1 · answered by arya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't want my girlfriend laying on a bed with a couple of guys either. Maybe he needs to cool down a bit and then explain everything to him. Guys are easily hurt when they are younger or new to the relationship thing. Put yourself in his shoes. Would you like to hear about him in his bed with two girls?
2006-11-19 04:07:01 · answer #2 · answered by RIDLEY 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well wouldnt you be mad if you found out he was laying in bed with two girls? You just gotta think about how he feels now, I think all guys are very jealous i think its in there genes or something.lol Just give him some time to cool off an it'll blow over dont worry.. ;) best of luck!!!
2006-11-19 04:06:06 · answer #3 · answered by ohio_gurl042 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
that is the ultimate no no. You never know what could have happen that night. how do we kow you didn't do anything. and you layed on the bed. with no supervision. that asking to be hated. and they aren't he real friends cuz why aren't the talking to him about the situation and they should have never went over there in the first place.
2006-11-19 04:09:20 · answer #4 · answered by tribal811 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like all of you are too young to date. Concentrate on school and life. Those immature, insecure boys will become men and you will become a woman. Skip all this childish nonsense.
2006-11-19 04:08:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most children are naive insensitive clods – but suffering will teach you both to appreciate your next partners.
2006-11-19 04:18:34 · answer #6 · answered by ★Greed★ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋