I want to find unique ways of showing my girlfriend how much I care for her. We have a good relationship but with some extra stress that we both don't need. I just want to show her that I am there for her no matter what. I already do the normal things but I would like some sweeter ideas to use here and there. The suggestions that I am asking for should be one's that I can use from time to time. I want to be the best boyfriend in the world for her as she is the best girlfriend for me. If you are a female I'd prefer an answer from you but if you are a guy that is okay too. Thanks everyone.
2006-11-18 22:05:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just listen and don't try to solve her problems. Try to relate to her feelings and not fix anything. And from time to time when you can just bring her flowers or a gift for no reason to let her know you care about her (not just when things are bad for her but even when things are great). Kudos to you for loving her enough to ask this question...best wishes for you both.
2006-11-18 22:50:05 · answer #1 · answered by chrissy757 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Make a special dinner for her, with candle lights, and her favorite flowers on the table. Serve her the dinner, and desert. Later run a bath for her, put some nice smelling bath salts or flower petals in the water. You could even make it a bubble bath. Put some soft music on and light some candles. Then give her a back rub, and soap her back down. You could even bathe with her. Spend time talking just about her day. This may take alot for you, but women like being listened to.
If you don't like to cook, take her to her favorite restaurant, or even make a picnic for her. Go for an after noon walk and a picnic to her favorite place. Tell her you love her, and do some fun things on your walk. Like surprise her with some one serenading her, or just have a gift waiting for her in your pocket.
Like some earrings, or a bracelet.
You could hire some cleaning company to clean the whole house for her, that does relieve stress for a few days. Take her out while they clean. Just have a friend stay there to keep things in check. There are so many things I can think of, but I hope these suggestions have helped.
2006-11-18 22:29:06 · answer #2 · answered by woman of steel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest and simple in everything u do. its better to be frank in most things.
do keep enquiring about the health of her and her family from time to time. add a compliment about her dress. make her feel special in simple things.
when there are misunderstandings( i pray they never come) never hesitate to talk about it, cos there's no problem in this world that cannot be solved.
do not look for perfection, for everyone is born with some imperfections. just try telling that "it'll be better this way"( if u really think it'll be better) rather than "it has to be this way".
love her, its better not to expect returns for ur affection will have its own impact and sometimes, it takes time. but it'll definitely be reciprocated.
2006-11-18 22:14:14 · answer #3 · answered by bonu rhesus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave sticky notes on the bathroom mirror, saying I love you have a great day baby, I will be thinking of you.
Leave roses in different places, in the car, in the dish washer etc...
2006-11-18 22:12:06 · answer #4 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for her in the good times and the bad times.
2006-11-18 22:10:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't provide solutions to her problems if she doesn't ask. She wants to know that you'll listen when she's having a bad day.
2006-11-18 22:18:08 · answer #6 · answered by Lazarous Castolano 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all else fails....chocolate!
2006-11-18 22:29:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋