I don't think that sex is somthing that is needed in a relationship but it is somthing that I want. My girlfriend is a virgin and I am afraid that if I ask her to have sex with me then she will not trust me anymore. We do love each other... but up till this point I didn't think sex was somthing that we were ready for. I am ready now but I don't know if she is. How do I go about asking her to do this?
2006-11-18 21:19:48 · 6 answers · asked by vegeto38329 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You want us to help you defrock your virgin girlfriend?
Sheesh have a heart. Don't be a selfish jerk. If that is how you rate your relationship I pity your girlfriend. I hope when you do ask her, she runs away and never speaks to you again.
PERVERT, SELFISH IMMORAL JERK..........
2006-11-19 13:19:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she will tell you when she is ready. but if you want to let her know that u are ready but willing to wait till she is. just say that you have come to the point where you would like to have sex and you are willing to wait until she wants to. Her being a virgin is a big deal. I dont blame her if she takes a bit. its a life changing choice.
2006-11-19 05:25:33 · answer #2 · answered by B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think if she is ready you would both know it without saying anything. If she hasn't shown you any signs of wanting to move forward then I wouldn't ask. Sex is not a recreational sport.
2006-11-19 05:23:36 · answer #3 · answered by uknowme 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firstly you do not ask your girlfreind to have sex. When she is ready she will let you know. Love her, be around her, be there for her, pay attention to her. Express your true feelings for her let her know where she stands with you. Kiss her gently and make feel special and pay attention to her only. This will make her feel more confident in your relationship and in your loyalty. This will lead to making love. If you just want sex pay a hooker to do you justice.
2006-11-19 05:31:50 · answer #4 · answered by george 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How old are you 15,16 your body is telling you your ready but what is your head telling you.If your girlfriend isn't over17 she isn't ready.Sex isn't something you ask for you ease your way there.Get her in the mood by taking her somewhere where the two of you won't be deserved.tell her how much you love her and looking forward to the future with her slowly stroking her hair then kiss her so gently on her lips.From there your on your own.
2006-11-19 20:15:13 · answer #5 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dude!!!!!!!
u have the problem as i do...
what should we do?well,im looking forward for others answer for ya question
2006-11-19 05:23:41 · answer #6 · answered by Al Reda 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋