Like if you kept arguing because both didn't think the other appreciate each other. That both need recognition the other refuses to give because they want it more. And have been trying to improve it for couple of years with the same thing occuring.
Both have to have the reassurance. Arguing all the time so stopped communication. Both have to get the recognition for survival of the self idenity. Sound immature but that's the way it is.
2006-11-18 23:05:18 · 8 answers · asked by wondering 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It also includes getting recognition from people outside the relationship. Like with strangers as well. Getting more recognition. One is taking it from the other and causes competition and conflict.
2006-11-18 23:17:13 · update #1
This doesn't sound like a healthy relationship. It will never work if the two of you are constantly competing for attention. You're right it does sound very immature. If the two of you can't give each other what you need ( obviously you can't) then it's best to move on. No communication and constant fighting doesn't make for a relationship.
2006-11-18 23:35:57 · answer #1 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personaly, if I love someone I wouldn't leave them, even if we kept arguing all the time. I would try to solve the issues we have. I will do my best to improve the way I treat that other person, apreciate them more or at least to show them that I really do care or apreciate.
Being stuborn here will not work. Believe me it won't. Sit talk and have a serious conversation about this, don't blame each other, compromise and things will work out.
2006-11-19 07:16:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I (of 5 years) always have this battle. We both love each other but at the end of the day we nit-pik the small things, we have a toddler, so the small things are meeting each others needs. Relationships are hard but if at the end of the day you and look at the argument and your life and still love them to no end...that's the answer.
2006-11-19 07:12:22 · answer #3 · answered by chrissy757 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If both are willing to work on insecurities then there wont be the need for that. yous are really fighting against yourselves for that and not each other, If im giving myself what I need then I wont have to beg someone else for it and will be able to give genuine love to another without needing anything for myself in return...
2006-11-19 07:13:39 · answer #4 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow you two need to talk. You need to sit down and think of how much you each mean to each other. get away quit inactive place with a hot tub. burn some candles make your woman feel good then discus it before someone else does.
2006-11-19 07:13:36 · answer #5 · answered by Ryan S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is too short to have those kinds of conflicts, if you can't work them out.
2006-11-19 07:42:04 · answer #6 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not a recognition issue its that both af you are insecure within yourselves
2006-11-19 07:10:07 · answer #7 · answered by PASSION 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I DONOT THINK SO. I MUST NOT LEAVE SOMEONE I AM COMPATIBLE WITH INSPITE OF ALL HER SHORTCOMINGS.FOR IT IS NOT EASY 2 FIND SOMEONE PHYSICALLY AND EMOTIONALLY COMPATIBLE WITH YOURSELF.
2006-11-19 08:29:00 · answer #8 · answered by subhash s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋