Other - Family & Relationships - 18 November 2006

My boyfriend recently moved to iowa. Any who i kinda sneaked into his email and messenger and i found all these girls on his messenger. He doesnt know that i know about the messenger so i go on and i check it out. Everytime that i check his messenger, thier is a new girl. I even pretend to be someone else and he quickly added me to his messenger (he thinks that i dont know about). I started talking to him and he said he was single (which of course he's not) and that he was looking for someone to love him. He also said that he was single because his past relationships were always on his case 24-7, i also asked him that if he wanted to meet me but he never said yes, he kinda just avoided the question.
I dont know what to think! Should i tell him that its me or should i collect more evidence

2006-11-18 13:16:15 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-18 13:10:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Comes up to you, randomly yells boobs! and just walks away?

2006-11-18 13:08:20 · 13 answers · asked by 77684 3

he gets mad and turns the situation around to make me look like the bad guy and then tells me to make a decision to either put up or get out. Then he stops speaking to me for days. Is this normal male behavior? Is there a chance he will outgrow it? And how do I deal with it?

2006-11-18 12:43:47 · 5 answers · asked by kamieshac99 1

2006-11-18 12:42:03 · 8 answers · asked by KC 1

Vacuum Cleaner or any other household applliance

2006-11-18 12:19:13 · 23 answers · asked by matthewlenihan 2

I have been with my bf for eight years now, we have a great relationship, and he is extremely close to his parents. I work with his mother who is a kind catholic woman, and his sister. I have to see them everyday. Over a period of about a year now I have suspected that my bf's mother is cheating on his father with their best family friend/neighbor. This friend has signed everything over to my bf in his will, which I found too friendly as well. He is a good man and helps us with anything we need. My bf's father is sick a lot, and though kind, a little bossy. His mother admits to a few people that she wishes he would die sometimes in his sickness. She is also secretly on the phone with their friend constantly before/after work, and I caught them on the phone having a pretty intimate conversation...the point it, I confronted the friend, and he admitted everything to me. Should I tell my bf? would it destroy us? I must remain loyal to him/dont want to hurt him...I am so torn..

2006-11-18 12:18:58 · 22 answers · asked by carrie p 2

i have a 2 and a half year old and recently had another, who is 13wks old, my partner works but is pretty busy with recreational sports when not working. im always stressing out yelling and cursing at him because i dont feel the support.im getting fed up and am worried i am going to make the wrong decision of breaking up, and becoming a solo mum of two.why is relationships like this?

2006-11-18 12:12:05 · 7 answers · asked by missmama 1

when last seen, he had been selling cars, blk,300 lbs., 6' tall..

2006-11-18 12:09:53 · 1 answers · asked by wormdrive2002 1

I saw dis ugly girl at the mall and she tried to talk 2 me and ii told her no cuz she wuz ugly and she talking bout some dats iight becuz ii can go get otha boyz dats in dis mall......so she tried 2 talk 2 another boy and he told her the same thing and she got mad......LMAO ii was laughin!!

2006-11-18 12:06:12 · 20 answers · asked by Lil taz 1

-Pretending to be Santa-

Soo little boy/girl,
what do you want for
Christmas/Hanukkah/Kwanzaa
this year??

2006-11-18 12:05:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need to know.I am going out with a man that is 10 years younger than me,which is new to me,as I have always gone out with men who are older.
Do younger men really want to be with older women? By the way I`m 36,he`s 26.Can this kind of relationship last?

2006-11-18 12:00:05 · 7 answers · asked by sunflower2052002 2

We are both engage to other people, but we keep contacting eachother for that crazy sexual tension. It's bad...and threatening to our others. How do you stop something so addicting? By the way, we were a couple for 2 years but broke up 9 years ago.

2006-11-18 11:48:07 · 8 answers · asked by Jane 2

I was in a bad relationship for 18yrs he beat me and was never there for his 2 children. now im with a guy who i love with all my heart he has been there for me and my teenage kids for the past 4 years. He wanted kids of his own and i cant give them to him as my ex beat me so bad i had to have a full hystorectomy i feel as though i am holding him back from having the precious gift. he has said as long as he has me he isnt bothered but i dont no whether to leave him so he can find that special person to have kids with or do i stay with him cause i love him with all my heart. sensable answers plz

2006-11-18 11:36:09 · 26 answers · asked by kjw 2

I was bullied in my seconday school (for girls only) between the ages of 12 and 16, my class was mainly full of b*tches and tarts and they used to love picking on me, eg. because I hadn't had a boyfriend when I was 11 and didn't wear make-up 3 inches thick. The school tried to stop it by talking to the class, but it didn't do anything. One of my "best friends" even turned against me. She did eventually realise how cruel she was being to me, she said that she had been "brainwashed" by them. She is still a friend now, but I feel I still can't trust her fully.
When I went onto the 6th Form (at the same school) most of the bullies left and I made new friends, so the bullying stopped.
It was all mental/emotional bullying but I feel that my confidence is still affected by this and I still feel hurt inside, even though I'm 22 now. Is this normal?
(Please no stupid "Get over it", "Suck it up answers", which aren't constructive at all)

2006-11-18 11:27:16 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

I broke up with my ex 2.5 months ago. At first I was so sure that I didn't want to be with him and I quickly moved on. It has been a month in my new relationship and I have been having mixefeelings about my ex. We shared alot together and planned on marrige etc. Our relationship wasn't perfect and the thought of forever scared me a bit. I have never had a relationship where i felt thi way and I am so used to being unhappy that I tend to destroy anything that makes me happy emotionally. I still see my ex sometimes and I try to avoid expressing myself to him because I am dating someone else and to get back together with him would be alot of work. I am happy with my current bf but not the way i was with my ex, i know the new guy is just a rebound. My ex still loves me and he tells me that often. I may have jumped the un on the breakup and now i really miss what we had, but is it just guilt? I know I have really hurt him and I do still care, I dont speak to any of my other exs, so why him?

2006-11-18 11:10:36 · 2 answers · asked by cjkaniman 1

I don´t know who to talk to anymore so i guess dats why im writing this…..im a 15 year old girl and i feel useless and im so tired of trying so hard at skool to get good grades and keeping them up…to keep trying to make fwends but never make them…to try dance even though i suck at it!

I have lost my enthusiasm for life actually i hav for a long time and i dont wanna live anymore its 2 hard i know i sound like a stupid weakling but i dont care i hav no friends here where i live i just study but i hav just studied and had no fun for already 1 and a half years since we left our oldd country but anyway i dont think i was even that happy now…..i dont find myself to b such a good person and i always fight with my familly and i feel like crying so often….im supposed to continue doing great at skool and go to havard to become a doctor and save lives but i think that if people hav to die wen they old they just should because its natural and to help other people there is already enought doctors…..so i thought why not become famous because i love entertaining but that is impossible because loads of people want to do dat and im not probebly the best so i dont think ill make it and to include i dont have much support from anyone….and im so upsed wit good grades bcause of my father….and i hav no fwends at all basically here where im living so lets just say im not living like a normal teenager…i find people my age or even 2 years older inmature and find it easier to become fwends wit adults….yep well dats about it so if u hav any advice of how to get rid of my depression or on how to make fwends i will be greatful……th ank you for your time…

2006-11-18 11:04:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

He just joined crip some dats ago and is actin real funny

2006-11-18 11:02:08 · 31 answers · asked by Kia H 1

Do you like them in silk, cotton, or some other type of fabric.

2006-11-18 11:01:50 · 8 answers · asked by Rickard 3

My mom has gotten involved again with her first husband and well we as my brother I had met him a number of years and well he turned out ot be a professional con-artist and took my mom for over forty thousand dollars and then just took off leaving us in this hotel we were staying in footing the bill. Since then my mom did move on but it appeared he was watching her because soon as I moved in with my now wife he showed up on her doorstep to get her back needless to say my mom was lonely and took him back and they moved to Regina and he talked her into opening a restaurant that went south quick and my mom had to declare bankruptcy anyways the main reason I write this is because the guy is abusive and has hit her more then once and both my brother I would love to kick his as s but don't because my mom loves him and says she is happy. I wan't my mom to be happy but not with an abusive jerk any answers?

2006-11-18 10:55:07 · 1 answers · asked by Livinrawguy 7

As you get older do you find yourself getting more and more emotional.....Why is this.....I can cry at the drop of a hat now.......

2006-11-18 10:53:44 · 20 answers · asked by Pennyless 4

Does anyone know where I can find a new girlfriend?

2006-11-18 10:44:05 · 7 answers · asked by maguathehearteater 1

because my girlfriend would get three Golds for UK

2006-11-18 10:36:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

So i am a 18 year old, black female, im with this guy, but the thing is he's white, right now we are in a long distance relationship, so he'll be here soon, and i really want him to meet my parents, but im afraid of what my family may think of me, i dont want them to like him just because he's rich, so im leaving that out, but i dont want them to think thats the only reason im with him, i want them to accept them for who he is, and see pass him being white, but my family is very judgemental, what should i do?

2006-11-18 10:35:57 · 4 answers · asked by The Cool. 1

(a chimpanzee)

2006-11-18 10:33:20 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a bf ive been with for 2 yrs. hes left me twice 4 two different chicks but he always came running back. now we're together and he dont talk to any girls on the phone or computer or anything. He says he does it for me and that he just wants to make me happy because he knows its hard for me to trust him after what hes done to me in the past but i want to know does he really like his life like that? does it really matter that he only talks to me? i need to know.

2006-11-18 10:27:16 · 7 answers · asked by money-ca 2

2006-11-18 10:17:43 · 9 answers · asked by midnight princess 2

okay....im 17, and im in a hard situation. i havent had a period since july. and i just barely told my boyfriend that i think im pergnant. i cant tell anyone i live in a town of 500 people my parents are very abusive and i dont have anyone to trust. the sad part is is that i think im like four months along,but im a cheerleader and a track runner and a weight lofter so i probly already lost the baby. what do i do ? please dont leave smart allic amswers...help me

2006-11-18 10:08:20 · 10 answers · asked by j baby 1

2006-11-18 10:04:32 · 10 answers · asked by midnight princess 2

Women I know you dont like them but what exactly do you count as a pencil dick?
(And dont just say skinny!)

Also what do you consider to be just too small in general?
Anything under 6 inches for example?

2006-11-18 09:51:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous