when my girl & I desided to become more serious we got rid of any singles sites we may have had. we met on one of those sites , its been 7 months now & we have talked about marriage , but for the past month or so we've had some problems. Recently I desided to do a search on POF (you dont have to have an account to search) I geared my search towards my gf there she was & all of the info was correct as far as where she lives age zodiac sign the fact that she has a child e , in the spot for relationship status it says perfer not to say it also says that in the do you want childeren .. We recently found out she is pregnant. OK I am not stupid , but she swears she did not make that profile , she says she tried to log in to it and cant also that she sent an e-mail to the site about the fake profile. no response. She even went as far as to show me her history in her PC to show that she had not been on that site. So how do I prove that she did or didnt make that profile dont know what 2 do
2006-11-18 22:52:33 · 5 answers · asked by bigdaddycain 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I dont want to leave her if by some 1 in a million chance she is telling tha truth espesially with her being pregnant , but if shes lie'n then she's a cheat & a lier & I would have to end the relationship....HELP ME HELP ME
2006-11-18 22:55:58 · update #1
There are a few things that you can do. First, you can just trust her and hope that she is telling you the truth. You can download a key logger program, which will show you everything that she or you types on the computer to include screen names, passwords and anything in between. She wont know that the program is there, its hidden and then when she isn't around you can see what shes done. Or you go get a fake name and then message her or respond to the site and see if someone answers and if someone does you can find out if it is her and then you can decide from there. Good luck.
2006-11-18 23:03:24 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree, act like you aren't you to try to trap her. cuz she's probably smart enough to not use her own computer in case you ask about the history, or she could have deleted that site from it, i used to do it all the time. and at least it doesn't say she's single in the spot for her relationship, i got in a huge fight with my ex about that on myspace.
maybe it's not what you think, she's just trying to find friends or someone to talk to or something, but since you agreed to let go of all those sites she feels that she has to hide it from you. if you find out that she is doing it, talk to her about why.
2006-11-18 23:02:44 · answer #2 · answered by pikachu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on line flirt with her do not tell her its you and then see what happens if that doesnt work just ask her other than that wait till the baby is born and get a blood test
2006-11-18 22:56:32 · answer #3 · answered by PASSION 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are lots of computer programs you can buy to monitor her activity.
http://www.exploreanywhere.com/catching-cheater.htm
or
http://www.spy-software-online.com/
There's a start.
2006-11-18 22:59:48 · answer #4 · answered by ....... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are that untrusting and jealous of her, then maybe you should apologise to her and move on... You aren't good enough for her...
2006-11-18 23:06:43 · answer #5 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋