This sounds weird, but it kind of bothers me that my current boyfriend's penis is 4 to 5 inches even though I'm not really into sex. He's also decently tall, at 5'11".
My ex's penises ranged from 6 to 8 inches, with the average at around 6.5/7" or so, so it's just weird for me.
Also, my boyfriend makes jokes about the penis a lot and the size, and I don't think he realizes his size is smaller, and I don't say anything because I don't want to hurt his feelings...so it makes it more awkward when it's not in the open.
Would it bother you, ladies?
2006-11-18 20:02:12 · 15 answers · asked by Forte 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Actually no, I've only dated white guys...he's pure Caucasian.
2006-11-18 20:08:39 · update #1
I'm sure he's seen other guys in the locker-rooms, and his jokes are a cover-up for knowing that he doesn't 'measure-up'.
Next time he starts telling those jokes, just tell him, "Honey, it's not the size of the tool, it's the skill of the operator".
That should put him at ease and maybe put a stop to the jokes too!
2006-11-18 20:08:14 · answer #1 · answered by bc_is_the_place_to_be 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
size isn't everything. Is he pleasing you in the bedroom? That is the question. You didn't really tell us that. Size is not based on his height, weight it come from his genetic code. I have been with both smaller and larger guys. But one of the best partners i had was smaller. He just knew what to do besides just the in and out motion to make it good for both of us. Most guys talk about their privates whether they are big or little. Just a guy thing. But if it bothers you this much now then it could present a larger problem later on. No a relationship is not based completely on sex but it is a big factor and can have a bad effect on an overall relationship if not there.
2006-11-19 04:10:35 · answer #2 · answered by mommyblues78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you seem to be keeping some pretty accurate stats on the sizes of your various boyfriends penises. That in itself is a bit wierd, are you obsessed with size? I think you are, else you would not have brought it up as a problem. If you are in anyway dissatisfied with your boyfriend, size, performance, whatever, you need to go find yourself someone else and dump him, because you are what we call a size queen, and size means everything to you wheather he is a capable lover or not size is what is going to ring your bell. Else you would not have been 'bothered' that he is smaller than the others.
2006-11-19 04:11:07 · answer #3 · answered by Pete 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my ex boyfriend penis was also 4 to 5 inches, it didn't bother me because that was the best sex i ever had. I have three kids from three different men(not bragging) even though they all had bigger penis sex wasn't as great. if you love your boyfriend and enjoy the sex size don't matter. at least that's what i think.
2006-11-19 04:11:11 · answer #4 · answered by prettypueo1812 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For me it doesn't matter...there are so many ways to enjoy sex no matter what the size is...it depends on how the two of you do it. Just be open with each other to tell what way you like it done. Remember ...that your tongue...your finger...and etc...can satisfy you more...than the size of the penis can...for as long as it can lead you to climax and orgasm...whew!!!! GO GIRL...DO IT!!!!
2006-11-19 04:08:28 · answer #5 · answered by dimma59 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are used to something bigger then break up with him and do not mention why. Find the size that you are looking for. Let other people call you shallow if they want to. After all you are the one who has to live with it.
2006-11-19 04:17:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my personal experiences it's not the size it's how and what u know what to do with it...Hun talk to him and let him know how u feel,,, make sure ur both understanding and open about ur sexual relationship and that ur not hurting one another just to satisfy the need...
2006-11-19 04:08:25 · answer #7 · answered by Shawty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not his fault that you're shallow and that genitalia size is all you care about in a partner.
By the way real ladies don't discuss such things in public. Not that you don't realize that you're a woman and not a lady, but still..
2006-11-19 04:07:51 · answer #8 · answered by AngryAmerican82 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well.You shouldn't ever mention that to him,plus,if u love him,then be grateful for what you have,think about the positive qualities he possesses and eventually nothing in him will bother you.On the other hand, the G-spot can be stimulated by a finger,so imagine what a 5 -inch can do!
2006-11-19 04:14:53 · answer #9 · answered by Lucifer 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what is it with women and size? I am 7 and average . Not all men are so but they manage to satisfy thier partners and father kids. Get real..or if you cant feel him.. cross your legs,
2006-11-19 04:06:44 · answer #10 · answered by hharry_m_uk 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋