2006-11-23 05:05:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Help please my confidence has gone because of him!
2006-11-23 05:07:06 · update #1
Not everyone can return the feelings that you feel for them. Humans do have sexual needs as well. It was wrong of him to use you, but you should have been able to see that he didn't love you and said no.
You just have to grow and learn from this experience. Good luck in the future.
2006-11-23 05:10:09 · answer #1 · answered by chaser_downer 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Some people are callous and users. You will find then everywhere so you need to be on the alert. People can use you in so many ways and not just for sex. When you choose a friend and especially a boyfriend make sure you have an idea of what they are like. You do this by observing how they act around you and also others and if they do not have kindness in them then move on.
As far as your relationship now, I am sorry you are hurt but you can do better and you know you can. There is someone out there and one day you will meet and then you will be as loved as you love him. Cheer up and count this as a blessing that you found out who the real character is and move on to what you deserve.
2006-11-23 13:13:49 · answer #2 · answered by The_answer_person 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look, some guys are slugs and have one thing on their minds, sex. First thing you need to do is take a hands off approach. Going out, dating and all that is great, but if the first thing he wants to do is jump into bed, hold off. Most guys who are sincere value that and will wait.
Once you are sure this guy is honest and sincere, then go with your heart. I dated my wife for over a year before getting married and we did not have sex until about four months into our relationship. We spent all that time talking, sharing and bonding with each other and no, I don't regret it and neither does she.
2006-11-23 13:11:06 · answer #3 · answered by bigmikejones 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because you love him more than he does to you. I'm sympathy with your sufferings coz he doesn't love you with his whole-hearted but just physically intimacy. Is this what you want from him? I doubt so...
Start afresh, and do not seeing him nor answering his calls/ sms from now ons. Find back your pride and intigrity and you will find someone who is sincerely to you one day.
2006-11-23 13:39:13 · answer #4 · answered by Adorable Mrs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because some guys are like that, they pretend to like you just to get some play. You deserve better, and you will do better next time. Good luck!
2006-11-23 13:07:37 · answer #5 · answered by Ariella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you let him.i'm sorry if it sounds hush but it is true.my angel you need to know that actions speek louder than words.if he was never able to tell you how special you are you should'nt have felt this way.
2006-11-23 13:20:28 · answer #6 · answered by Divalicous25 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not because of him totally,You consented each time.Don't get me wrong,it's not totally your fault either.You have to change the way you think when it comes to giving it up.
2006-11-23 21:42:17 · answer #7 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he was a pig! find someone who loves you for you and not just sex
2006-11-23 13:12:46 · answer #8 · answered by DEVIL IN A BLUE DRESS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because he is a MAN
2006-11-23 13:07:38 · answer #9 · answered by Brian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you allow him to.
2006-11-23 13:22:41 · answer #10 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋