My girlfriend and I had NO problems whatsoever, promising, planned future, marriage, kids, she even planned the wedding! she said, well elope in vegas, then have a reception when we get home. Just two weeks ago, she was telling me that i had better sing at the reception, what the hell happened? she quit her job, and became depressed, stressed out, then started getting feelings for her ex again. I moved out, and cant get her out of my head. i did not know happiness until i met her. i just want to know if she is going to come back to me. i cant ask myself, because i am too scared. i just cant throw all that we had away. it was too perfect. we had no problems at all. we spent every minute together, and loved it.
2006-11-23 06:48:08 · 11 answers · asked by Jermz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2006-11-23 06:49:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its really hard to say if she will come back or not. Maybe she got scared and decided to drive you away so she wouldnt have to commit? Maybe she did something wrong and didnt want to tell you and hurt you. People change rapidly if they screwed up. I dont want to put bad thoughts iny our head, but you should avoid contact for a while to get your head straight. If she loves you, she will call you to talk. I would stay strong on this one. Sometimes there are hidden problems. Maybe she didnt express her concerns and now she feels trapped. Maybe you never realized there were problems becuase she never voiced them. Even when you are doing EVERYTHING right, there are still problems. you know? I would try to cool down first and deal with yourself before you hop into this one. You want a clear head, not a confused and frustrated one.
Good luck.
2006-11-23 14:57:28 · answer #2 · answered by bluestar_dreamsx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever has happened is not good at all. Your ex is surely not an honest person, to me, it appears that she had strong feelings for her ex in spite of her being with you, it is evident by the way she just walked out of your live and returned to her ex. YOu gave your honest self to a person who was not a bit honest. She only gave you false hope and imagination.
Her behavior towards you has damaged your honest feeling, it is going to be hard for you to believe in love. You surely dont deserve her, do not base this and see love in the future. Your love is pure and you will find love.
Will you trust her if your girlfriend comes back? Her behavior has proved something to you. She has proved to you what she can be wonder how you will feel living with her again.
2006-11-23 15:01:15 · answer #3 · answered by thachu5 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to sound like a pessimist, but if she is having feelings for an ex, you need to sit down and write the pros and cons of the situation. Try to keep an open mind while doing this.......dont keep telling yourself that the two of you were meant to be together. It sounds as if she may have some stress over a marriage that is supposed to be commited between two people.
Try to talk to her and see how she really feels. Best of Luck!
2006-11-23 14:52:52 · answer #4 · answered by Mark C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My gut feeling is telling me that she is scared of getting married and she is trying to find a reason for not get married, such as those feelings for the ex. I understand how you feel, but give her some time. I am sure she will be back. Do not pressure into married. Go back to be boyfriend and girlfriend again and then she will come around. Give her some time.
2006-11-23 14:54:40 · answer #5 · answered by bbluckylove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is as perfect as you say it is,then fight for your relationship. It cud be that she had some wedding jitters and chickened out. Find out if she has gone back to her ex at all,maybe she is constantly reminded that what she had with you was afterall the best. So send her flowers with a self picked card telling her how next to a perfect dream was what you guys had and that you miss her like crazy. Let's see if she calls you or tries to contact you. Go from there.... remember, if this was so good,then maybe God is testing you to earn for what is yours. I broke it off with this guy and he fought for me, this went on for an year, it melted my heart eventually that this guy is willing to go that far.....and now im happily married to him for over an year. Best of luck.
2006-11-23 14:56:36 · answer #6 · answered by S.Kishwar A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your g/f has finished with her ex, she needs to get over him before you can have a meaningful relationship. Time will tell, if she doesn't come back in a reasonable time with her baggage gone, cut your losses and find someone who isn't still hung up on the past. Good luck!
2006-11-23 14:52:23 · answer #7 · answered by boots 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she probabaly finally sat down and thought about it...and got scared. U 2 need o have a talk and itll be ok...dont worry
2006-11-23 14:51:24 · answer #8 · answered by as 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she still loves u then yea she will come back to u
but if not then ur out of luck
2006-11-23 17:24:00 · answer #9 · answered by Kells 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her, communicate, find out, am I being clear enough?
2006-11-23 14:49:59 · answer #10 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋