I am not a sexual person and he knew this from the begining.
I only have sex once or twice a month with him, and this is not enough for him.
He tries alot then gets depressed and acts like it's a big part of a relationship.
He says he loves me but can't respect my wishes of not wanting to have sex.
Is this wrong?
How often do you have sex with your "significant other"?
Please answer these questions honestly for me. (And him)
Thank you.
2006-11-23 08:01:15 · 14 answers · asked by [Heza] 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First of all you are not married to him, and even if you were, you are not his sex toy. The two of you need to sit and talk in a non-sexual environment, like a park or zoo, and discuss what it is that you expect from each other - and I don't mean just the sex. Just remember to tell him that you are not his booty call.
2006-11-23 08:05:27 · answer #1 · answered by kny390 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's a problem at all that you won't have sex often with your boyfriend. Relationships aren't just about sex. It's about building a deep friendship between people. If your boyfriend really loved you he would be willing to put off sex. But you also have to realize how important sex is to men. They do need it
2006-11-23 16:08:24 · answer #2 · answered by wolfgirl1987 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
TWICE A MONTH!!!? you are totally depriving him. I have sex with my partner 3 or 4 times a week. don't be suprised if his mind starts to wander, thinking of other women and maybe acting on his thoughts
2006-11-23 16:06:01 · answer #3 · answered by Micheal 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just done be surprise if he cheats or leaves you.
Sex is a big part of a relationship.
I am not sure what is wrong with you that you dont feel sexual, but I dont think it s a normal thing.
2006-11-23 16:03:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
honestly, depending on how much me and my bf saw each other before we moved in, it was whenever we had a chance (usually 3 times a day, daily)
but when we moved in together, it dropped to once a day, and then once every other day, and i should mention im pregnant now and we werent trying,
i am ocasionally a hor.ny person, but since your just not a sexual person, he should understand
2006-11-23 16:06:22 · answer #5 · answered by ruspecialenuf 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually you shouldn't be having sex with just a boyfriend. If he isn't your husband don't sweat it. He knew this in the beginning of the relationship.
2006-11-23 16:05:50 · answer #6 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sex plays a big role in any relationship...and if youre not willing to put out more than twice a month (my god! poor guy) he may find it somewhere else...and me and my hubby have sex at least twice a week
2006-11-23 16:05:39 · answer #7 · answered by BUTTERFLY 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Twice a week not fair.. if you didn't want to have sex u shouldn't have started, it would be easy er for him if u never did.
i have sex with my boyfriend almost everyday. but when i don't feel like it he respects me.
2006-11-23 16:11:18 · answer #8 · answered by Nicole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not really wrong ok. i have sex with my man a lease 2 time a week. may be you don't enjoy having sex with your boyfriends. try new stuffs to get it enjoyable.
2006-11-23 16:07:34 · answer #9 · answered by Melody M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he isnt respecting your wishes then you shouldnt be going out with him
its not fare when 1 of you wants it and the other doesnt
you should find someone not as ubsesst with sex\
also talk to him
and tell him how you feel
2006-11-23 16:05:58 · answer #10 · answered by iluv2run 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋