i was flirting with this guy and he asked me to let him know in advance when i was out in his town next time rather than leave it to chance. i told him i fancied him and asked when he was going to ask me out on a date.he said that he thinks hes around this saturday.i said, well that doesnt sound very definate and we just carried on flirting.
im not going to be out in his town saturday but am friday so i text him saying that ill be out on friday nite if your around. he didnt text me back.
hes been chasing me for years and he says he likes me blah blah blah!!we have kissed too.
is he just keeping it cool, and if hes around he will text me like we both usually do with eachother?
would he have mentioned "a day" at all if he wasnt really interested?
hes was even chasing me when i was in my previous serious relationship, which he knew about.
hes nearly 29.ive heard he hasnt had a serious relationship before
2006-11-23 05:42:03 · 9 answers · asked by smokey!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Take it slow!!! Think about it, do u like him alot to go 4 it?
2006-11-23 05:46:32 · answer #1 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this sounds old fashioned, but men do really enjoy chasing women and calling the shots, some men are just not used to women being assertive. This guy also sounds as if he does like you, but has not had that much experience with women.
Let him come to you. If you force the issue...you might make him frightened or run away, because of his lack of experience he may not know how to act around women.
2006-11-23 13:50:32 · answer #2 · answered by km 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will i think maybe you answered your own question,29 and hasn't had a serious relationship, could be he likes the chasing, gives him a frill, but really doesn't like the catch.........seems he likes to tease and flirt.........back of for a while, play him at his own game and see what happens..cheers good luck.
2006-11-23 13:50:02 · answer #3 · answered by donua1022 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This whole thing sounds exhausting. At some point, if either of you are interested in not "dancing" around each other anymore, and not creating "drama" then it's possible you two might have an authentic interaction.
2006-11-23 13:46:56 · answer #4 · answered by cheyennetomahawk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's afraid of a 'relationship' type scenario, if he's not had a serious relationship. Or, maybe, he's married and just likes the 'fun of the chase'
2006-11-27 13:17:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just likes the chase or maybe he is the type that likes to play it cool and doesn't want to seem too keen. Some blokes are funny like that.
2006-11-23 13:49:31 · answer #6 · answered by b.ridgette 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just scared to go for it! (Let's face it, must be scarey to have to ask women out!) It sounds like he's sort of said he likes you so maybe you'll have to be the one to initiate the date!
2006-11-23 13:53:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy come, easy go.so take it easy and be patiant if it was meant to be then it will eventually happen.patiance is golden.
2006-11-23 14:10:21 · answer #8 · answered by Divalicous25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slooowwwwwwwwwww!
2006-11-23 13:59:50 · answer #9 · answered by Boots4ACowgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋