To make a long story short, my friend told me that her boyfriend (bf) told her that my bf told him that he cheated on me with a bartender. When I confronted my bf he said he never said it. I would feel unfair and unsatisfied to break up with him with no proof because I love him and he could be telling the truth, yet I at the same time I feel that he is dishonest b/c my friend would not make it up. The doubts in his honestly is making our relationship hard. How do I get proof that he did cheat or that he didnt? They didnt say the bartender's name but i could guess because he pays extra attention to one girl, but i could be wrong. I need help in detecting lies. Does anyone know HOW I can catch him if he is lieing? I have considered lie detector tests? What about interigation services?? I REALLY need to know the truth for closure so I can deal with it. I am desparate! Its driving me crazy to be in this limbo. You can email me for more details or if u have ideas. Thanks
2006-11-23 07:43:09 · 8 answers · asked by beverly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Find a friend that he does not know - maybe a pretty cousin - and see if he tries to cheat on you with her. Set him up. Sometimes guys just like to talk big to other guys too, so maybe he didn't.
2006-11-23 07:56:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy crap. Are you nuts?!?!? interrogation services? Lie detector tests? Either you believe him or you don't. If you think that this is something that he could do, then just break up with him. The drama!! Is it really worth it if you doubt him so much?
Give the guy a break and let him find someone who's not as high strung as you are.
2006-11-23 07:48:19 · answer #2 · answered by tipper 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
firstly you need to figure out who you trust more how long have you been friends with your mate? why would she tell you this and what would she gain from it?.. If you are unsure tell her or the person you trust the least something totally untrue and no-one else and see if someone comes back to you with this untruth,other than that confront the bartender with your b/f and watch both reactions x
2006-11-23 11:07:59 · answer #3 · answered by squawinpants 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get Joey Greco from Cheaters to see if he is cheating on you
2006-11-23 07:45:25 · answer #4 · answered by Hanky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not hear on your acquaintances, do not hear on your boyfriend. you will experience it on your intestine in case you think that your companion cheated on you. in case you experience that way he in all probability did
2016-10-12 23:51:26 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you want a three some and he gets to decide who the third wheel is , instant answer
2006-11-23 07:50:40 · answer #6 · answered by fiddiefive 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have him followed. or follow him yourself.. or find a decoy to set him up.
2006-11-23 07:46:50 · answer #7 · answered by DEVIL IN A BLUE DRESS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
spy on him. or set up webcameras :-)
2006-11-23 07:50:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋