well i am with this guy...and i been with him for a while now a couple months..and well i like being with him and the only thing about it is that we hardly talk and see each other..the only time we talk and see each other is in school..and i just found out that his friend likes me and his always talking to me..his okay and all but i am just afraid of his friend asking me out..and i don't want anything to happen..i like him too..alittle but i just don't know what to do. i am so confused..
2006-11-23 10:26:01 · 5 answers · asked by lyn n. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You have to make up your mind because if you TRULY want to be with this guy you would not be thinking that MAYBE you would do something with his friend. Come on.
2006-11-23 10:43:06 · answer #1 · answered by egg_sammash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself which matters more to you.....
That you like someone a lot
OR
That you have a lot of face to face time with someone
It sounds like you actually like the first guy best but you are unhappy about not seeing him enough.
The second guy is OK but you could see him a lot more. And, with a small amount of encouragement, he PROBABLY would ask you out himself.
You are confused because two guys like you at least you know the first guy does and PROBABLY the second guy does too.
You just have to decide whether it is more important to have a lot of time with someone or to have a little time with one you like a lot...
2006-11-23 10:43:23 · answer #2 · answered by CrystalChaser 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something that only you can decide. That is why it is a good idea to be friends first so you can get to know a person, may be it will be a good idea, to hang out with his friend, and see how he is, no commitment. and then you can decide what you are going to do! Sometimes it is good to just have friends, and hang out, and have fun!
2006-11-23 10:33:30 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever dont lead the wrong person on. Take some time away from them both and that'll make the decision easier.
2006-11-23 10:53:19 · answer #4 · answered by justbrigitte420 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...if your bf don't have time for you...whats the use of having an affair with him....talk to him first....and explain your side....still if theres no changes.....junk him...and entertain this guy that give you so much attention.....
2006-11-23 10:43:36 · answer #5 · answered by Adele 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋