What wud u do, if you have 4 sisters sitting at home unmarried that too in the age of 30 and above. Wat wud u do, wen u luv someone and she leaves u boz her parents r not agreeing to him because of different caste and she never fights for it.. Wat wud u do..???/
2006-11-23 08:39:04 · 12 answers · asked by Sunny4U 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Question r 4 indian only..Foriegner dnt understand emotions..
2006-11-23 08:42:43 · update #1
hey sunny being an indian (not that others dont understand)but still i'm saying i can understand things..there's one thing u need to know life is not always fair!its natural frm ur girls parents side to stand against especialy when u have 4 unmarried sisters n i guess they rnt working either frm ur question n even if they r working being their brother its ur duty to send them married 30 or above watever!!n abt the dowry u'll have to make n all that wud be surely the concern of ur luver's parents.....n frm her part u said she isnt pushing hard too .it maybe cos there might be lots of limitation 4 her to press hard her parents(afterall they brought her up n u came to her life only after them!).anyways i think u'll have to 4get her ...but b4 that try ur level best to convince her parents n also think hard if u have the ability n financial set up to look after her if ever u marry her..
lastly there's one thing if u leave her like this when u still love her u might atleast have memories to cherish n if u jump in without thinking anything all u wud be left with wud be troubles..
2006-11-23 15:43:26 · answer #1 · answered by helen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can put your sisters' profiles in Jeevansathi.com and other matrimonial websites. I don't know whether you are living in town or a city but your sisters must learn to be independent by doing some job or business. As for the girl you love, if she really loves you she will come to you. Life is simple. Look for solutions not problems.
2006-11-24 00:27:57 · answer #2 · answered by artw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yaar...
I really understand ur feelings. One thing we have to learn from our experiences is to Accept the truth or things as they come in our life.
It is true that u hav 4 sisters to get married. If the girl is willing to marry u at that conditions it would have been diferent.
All ur sisters are working? not working? if they are working, atleast u can try giving advertizements and get them married.
Or may be the girl's parents are afraid that ur sisters may takeover her freedom.
Anyway, she is not for you.
The most important thing: Being lovable is great than loving.
Try searching for someone who loves you.
Hope u get suitable girl who can respect, love and take care of u.
All the best dear friend.
2006-11-23 22:43:09 · answer #3 · answered by SureshkumarYVS from hyderabad 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't make a sweeping comment that foreigners don't understand emotions. Women harbor the same feelings all over the globe. Love is a universal language. My advice, ask your girl if she really loves you, if yes, then be willing to fight and stand up for it. Love should conquer all. Because if it does not, then it is not TRUE love. On the other hand, if she is not willing to fight for it, then it means that she does not love you enough. and that she is not willing to take risks for your love.
2006-11-24 19:32:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok Sunny i can understand your feelings, First of all i want to tell you that you are not indicated that why your sisters not married yet? second thing is if you love some body and she also loves you so dont think about anything just go and marry her other wise she also sitting home like yours sisters so you become the responsible person of one more person.
2006-11-23 23:42:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you can truly say that "foreigns don't understand emotion" aren't we all human? We all have emotions and our own problems to deal with. That is so discriminating. Its hard to ask for advice, even from strangers so, kudos for you for doing that. Now, if you love someone, but she is from a different caste, maybe you should try to talk to her parents. As scary as that sounds, i think that if you really love her... its worth it to try fighting for her. Woo the parents, just like her!
2006-11-23 17:01:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face the situation courageously with hope and confidence of getting to the ultimate result what I want!
2006-11-23 22:50:43 · answer #7 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im not indian...
but think these sisters are very shy..or quite..am I right?
see now if they dont fight for it
some1 has to stand up for them
talk to them
tell them if u dont get married now
u'll get very old by the time when ur 45 u only have a child thats 2 years old....
2006-11-23 16:52:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would try to forget that person I love, because that person didnt loved me at all if she doesnt have the courage to fight back. I would see that person as if she used me for her lusty purpose. And as for sisters I would try to get them good alliances.
2006-11-23 18:40:45 · answer #9 · answered by billu_bhai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it becomes your moral duty to know if they r seeing someone if not than see good match for them get them married or help them take thiers lifes biggest decision. had you settled your sisters long back you would not have faced this problem. anyways forget past and plan out for your future, if your love can wait its fine not its your destiny
2006-11-23 17:25:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋