Marriage & Divorce - 15 June 2006

2006-06-15 16:17:58 · 29 answers · asked by Lookinstr8over 3

During a fight, my husband (from whom I'm separated) said he doesn't know if our son is really his. It's no big deal to me b/c I know the truth & I also know he's just saying to get under my skin. But still my mother and stepmom flipped out when I told them- saying that that's one of the most horrible things a man could say. What do you guys think? Is this the worst? What others are up there?

2006-06-15 16:16:18 · 19 answers · asked by Jarna R 2

2006-06-15 16:12:41 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I understand a little when I am not with him (with my friends) that he wants me to wear shorts over my bikini bottoms, so people arent checking me out when he isnt around... Well we recently made plans to go to a waterpark and I went out and baught myself a cute new bikini. Well while talking about our trip, he says " I hope you are wearing shorts over that" .. what the heck I am going to be with him !!.. he says he doesnt want guys checking my *** out, but hello girls are going to be checking him out to.. i just dont get him... what can i say to him to make him understand why he shouldnt be this way? thank you.. we are a young couple by the way.

2006-06-15 16:10:18 · 13 answers · asked by stina 2

I have been with my husband for over 4 yrs and it is going down hill. I hate because there are times I think of my ex's. It really sucks. I think I am somewhat still in love but like a little. And I know I do not want to split for my kids and because I do not think we have worked to much on it. Well, I am pretty unhappy in all the aspects of the realtionship-- he is becoming too macho and is always telling me things like you are gaining weight and who in the hell would want someone like you. You know I like romantic guys and he has killed all the desire to be with him. I know I have to because I do not hold my tongue too much-- I say what I have to say. I know I am wrong but he makes me sick-- it is like i can't even stand his presence. And I have tried to work on it. But the more I work on it he starts with stupid comments and attitudes. He tells me I am the best thing you ever had in your life. And I feel like just screaming and letting him have it but he always starts crying.

2006-06-15 16:09:19 · 5 answers · asked by maria l 1

I can't have an orgasm by just having sex. I have to masterbate with a vib. every time I want to have an orgasm. Help! Does anyone have a trick I could try?

2006-06-15 16:07:20 · 5 answers · asked by annie 1

2006-06-15 15:56:52 · 14 answers · asked by dontyouwishyounew 1

2006-06-15 15:55:20 · 16 answers · asked by karrybear_2000 1

I know this gold-digger has been using my name & ss# for years & just when I thought I could catch her, she files for divorce & moves to Hawaii! How could I get some proof? Don't say ask him-we don't talk & he never honored the divorce judgement from 1990. I so want to see her butt in jail, but I need proof & ideas! Help please.

2006-06-15 15:51:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-15 15:50:55 · 45 answers · asked by foodme 1

2006-06-15 15:46:54 · 12 answers · asked by petes2084 1

do you think that after having say 10 relationships and getting to know virtually all the options available to you (regarding the "other half" - dated pretty much every kind of guy) getting married is the only choice - in order to not end up single and old maidedly in a few years... Being in early twenties I am not even sure I believe in "love" and "the one" etc, but I do believe in time running out and girls getting older. I just dont know if marriage is the best idea ..with him...right now ( I do love him by the way, whatever that word means)

I would really love some feedback from the adult crowd out there (meaning round 30)

2006-06-15 15:45:51 · 12 answers · asked by Jackie 4

Divorced because of financial issues, the love and admiration (and attraction) are still very much there. Is it stupid?

2006-06-15 15:44:45 · 7 answers · asked by La_Belle_LadyR99 4

my hubby works nights and he sleeps all day. I really miss the attention and the sex is gone. i dont know how long i can stay being unhappy.

2006-06-15 15:37:32 · 12 answers · asked by Ann A 2

my girlfriend was married in California 6 years ago [ her and her husband were here illegal ] she a 100% child custody established and divorce completed in Mexico how ever Mexico will not let us get married because they have nothing from California saying that they were divorced [ there as been no contact between lawyer there and the united states ] now I have learned that we have a treaty with Mexico stating that we except laws rulings and decision from Mexico and have been told that only it need to be recorded here at the clerks office in ca. well two years and two lawyers latter it is turning in to hell! no I thinking of scrapping the whole idea and just getting a new divorce done her and so her is another problem how do two Mexican citizens get a divorce here there is no way for either to get here legally to sign or file papers?
is there a state where it is not needed to be present in person or how to get a Mexican divorce recognized here? this as to be very simple but .....

2006-06-15 15:36:44 · 4 answers · asked by afarmboy87 2

He has been listening to other people - I've worked hard for 11 years to build the business - I work 50-60 hours per week. My business I love. If we do split what can I do to protect myself. I am also working hard on keeping the relationship, but I need to be protected if the worse happens.

2006-06-15 15:35:31 · 3 answers · asked by promoter8827 1

I want to see feedback to this... This really has me curious!!!! Do our churches really have enough resources and things for couples to keep them together and to not even think of divorce as an option in marriage? What can be impoved upon in our churches to make this better!!!! I see so many couples not even sit together in church and that is sad! If as Christians we cannot be successfully married how can we teach non Christians and unsaved people how to work on theirs ?

2006-06-15 15:34:20 · 7 answers · asked by Lady Hewitt 6

what is the purpose of getting married?

2006-06-15 15:33:46 · 24 answers · asked by Trisha 1

My husband and i have been married a year come this july and have a 8 month old child. As the typical relationship...yeah we were all over each other in the beginning. It died down. Then it turned into me not really ever being in the mood. Seeing how my labido went to hell after popping out a kid. But now its back. And just recently he just went off telling me how its been 8 months and im still not skinny enough. Sex is not enjoyable more or less for him..."do kiegals!!!". I have been working on losing weight...its always been for me, not him. And now i feel like im not doing it for myself anymore. But to save a relationship. I feel so unloved. Like im just here to get him off. This morning he asked for head. Ive had a really sore throat...so no. Then it goes straight to can i have anal. He wants nothing to do with pleasing me. And on top of that we dont see each other very much because of work as it is. When im around him hes just nasty. Hes in a bad mood so everything i do is wrong.

2006-06-15 15:32:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend lost his job and has been applying to different places. He finally got a job but he starts on the 30th of this month. We moved in together about 7 months ago and it has been very difficult....he says that I have changed that I am more serious now and I take everything personal but I am just stressed about the situation that we are in... he has been very cranky with me and I feel he no longer appreciates me and takes me as a nagging girlfriend plus he is stressed himself....forget about talking to him he won't listen....he just thinks I am nagging....Help....I am so frustrated with him I just want to break it off

2006-06-15 15:18:01 · 9 answers · asked by nurse1983 1

I was just wondering if there is a way to find out online whether my ex has remarried in the state of Arizona.

2006-06-15 15:10:59 · 9 answers · asked by johnnnyca 1

2006-06-15 15:09:24 · 39 answers · asked by asoldierswife 7

i met this guy and he is so amazing but i want to know if he really wants to be with me what do i do about this?

2006-06-15 14:59:11 · 24 answers · asked by reddishlady29 2

2006-06-15 14:49:18 · 15 answers · asked by celexaman 1

2006-06-15 14:48:55 · 16 answers · asked by hbunch11 1

2006-06-15 14:48:27 · 9 answers · asked by friendlyguy4ya 1

he only lasts 10 mins at the most and then can't hold it any longer...is that a short amount of time?

2006-06-15 14:47:53 · 16 answers · asked by abby m 1

All I do is owe and owe. When I have a little money and try to save, another debt just shows up...help!

2006-06-15 14:46:13 · 3 answers · asked by FamilyRocks! 2

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2006-06-15 14:43:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

if a parent has to pay child support every week 52 weeks a year and the child doesnt get to see a parent only 1/2 of this only on the weekends . whats wrong with this picture ?? is there any web sites that fight for equal rights for both parents that treat both as equals to where the non custodial parent doesnt get a royal screwing ?

2006-06-15 14:37:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous