2006-06-15 16:17:58 · 29 answers · asked by Lookinstr8over 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Females and males are no different sweetie. But your question is far to vague to allow a proper answer. So generally speaking, I would say that some one is hurt or angered by the others actions or nonreciprocating love.
So maybe SHE?HE is feeling F'ed over and unfortunately some people respond with negative emotions rather than recognizing that it is just not meant to be.
So in a nut shell, I would say that you are not alone in how partners react to certain relationship situations. But you can be the one to make a difference in a relationship by always clarifing your intentions and being as open and honest as you can.
But remember one thng, that once a negative relationship is called off by either partner? And you know this is not the right person for you? Do not re-enter the relationship. Don't do the phone call thing, the name calling thing, or who can hurt the other the most thing.
2006-06-15 16:38:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anna M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well sometimes some guys don't deserve the hell some woman put you through. It has a lot to do with what they're relationship has been like with other men. I mean you could get a girl that has been screwed over by a guy time and time again and yes unknowning take that out on you. But guys do it too. But they're not vendictive....they just screw you over people. It's all has to do with the maturity level of person you're with and what kind of relationship you have. I mean if you're like high school or college...some peopl e just aren't mature enough to handle a relationship and have yet to figure out what it means. It might also be a good idea to look at what else is going on in their life or take a good long look in the mirror to see what could be going on with you. Could it be something you said or did? If you can honestly say it's nothing you're doing then why stick around to get used like that again?
2006-06-15 23:34:20 · answer #2 · answered by clarnely_2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a girl and I think that they want people to be able to read their minds and if you can't they play mind games to hint that you are wrong or right.....they have too much pride when they are wrong and will do anything to prove that they are always right......the vindictive part comes in when the girl knows she is wrong and knows that you know she is wrong but wont admit it and is mean because she is to proud to be defeated. She will keep a grudge an do irrational things until she feels she has been compensated.....oh and if it's her time of the month( you know) make the viciousness times 10.... I know because I'm a girl. We eventually grow out of it at about 30+. hope this doesn't discourage you, just remember this is only if you get on the bad side...there are many benefits for being on the good side...
good luck
2006-06-15 23:27:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As women, we deserve to be. Do you realize the s--t we go through on a daily basis? Let me give you a few reasons why we're that way....
1. there's the whole "men are stronger than women" thing
2. monthly periods....
3. 9 months of pregnancy (which includes cramping/contractions, sickness, stress from the baby's father which results in mood swings, massive weight gain, no sleep at night)
4. the things we go because of our children (need I elaborate on that one)
5. menopause
I'm gonna stop there. Clearly you can already see why we can be so mean. There's so much more that entitles us to be that way but there's no need to go any further.
2006-06-15 23:35:24 · answer #4 · answered by so what 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You used the word "girl", that is where your answer lies... Real women don't use men, we appreciate them and love them. It's not the entire female population that has treated you poorly, it is I am guessing, a very young and immature girl who isn't ready or prepared to accept the responsibility of a relationship. When men attempt to enter a union of any kind with an immature female (and vice versa) it will inevitably end in disaster... it's just part of growing up and learning what life is all about. Don't be so cynical... you will find your princess one day and know what I am speaking of now. Peace.
2006-06-15 23:26:34 · answer #5 · answered by julianna76301 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think it's that so much as; they might have some issues that they haven't addressed or are in denial about, so they act or react in the terrible way they do. i feel that if they had an available ear, a compassionate person to talk with, to, they might not behave as they are now. this is just my opinion! if you want to elaborate some... i will be glad to listen!
Saint Gillian.
2006-06-15 23:24:31 · answer #6 · answered by Saint Gillian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a good question. Many women will deny this, but we are all freaking crazy and cant let crap go. I have learned to harness that energy and use in more constructive ways.
2006-06-15 23:19:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They have been given a lot in a short amount of time, now they are like vampires and want more and more. It isn't until there looks begin to fade that they realize they're human.
Or not....
2006-06-15 23:20:55 · answer #8 · answered by J. L. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most have to have good reason to Fu*k you over...
I think the question that should be asked here is, what did you do to piss off this girl?
2006-06-15 23:19:43 · answer #9 · answered by Talamascaa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women have asked the same question of men.
2006-06-15 23:19:15 · answer #10 · answered by lovehavok 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋