my hubby works nights and he sleeps all day. I really miss the attention and the sex is gone. i dont know how long i can stay being unhappy.
2006-06-15 15:37:32 · 12 answers · asked by Ann A 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't cheat. It is not worth the risk or even putting your integrity at risk. Cheating leads to lies, and lies lead to more lies, etc., etc.
And before you know it, everything is a lie and you don't know the truth from a lie as you continue to cheat and live in an underground world.. Who wants to be in a 'love triangle' anyways?
Discuss with your spouse how you feel. Ask him if there is any way he can work another shift. Or try and arrange your schedule around his. Communication is the key. Keep busy doing things you like doing. Explore new hobbies, social events, exercise classes and the like. But whatever you do, don't cheat. It only complicates matters and infidelity is NOT the solution.
2006-06-17 01:14:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Just because your husband works nights doesn't mean you have to go and cheat on him. He is providing for you. Talk to him. I know he doesn't work 7 days a week. So maybe on his days off you two can find time to rekindle what was lost.
2006-06-15 16:01:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thinking about it is natural... but I advice against acting on it. You can really end up regreting it. Your imagination is better than reality, you know? I think the person sugessting quality mastubation may be on to something, if you're any good at it...
=P
Don't get a Divorce... GROW UP!
Please don't overlook marriage counseling, and possibly sexual therapy.
2006-06-15 15:46:18 · answer #3 · answered by Big C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will be imperitive that you clearly communicate your unhappiness and needs to him. If you fail to do that you will end up making some serious mistakes of your own and feel like the guilty party in then end; and you should love yourself enough not to fall into that position.
2006-06-15 16:29:13 · answer #4 · answered by learned from exp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find something to keep you busy, and keep your mind off not getting the atention. Crossword puzzles, read the paper, clean the house, work in the yard........just something that you enjoy doing. Have sex before he goes to bed for the day, and that will solve that problem. Good Luck.......hope you cheer up!
2006-06-15 15:43:29 · answer #5 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating is only going to create new problems and new issues to deal with.
That's not solving anything.
2006-06-15 16:07:26 · answer #6 · answered by liljomo1234 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this so well, I think I invented it. Add his kids that you hate and you're me. Get him off of 3rd shift before it's too late. It will ruin your marriage.
2006-06-15 15:41:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
vibrators do wonderful and I would just wake him up with a little bit of action a little before hes supposed to get up.
2006-06-15 15:40:47 · answer #8 · answered by FaeryKitten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell wake him up, hes not getting any either, and wasnt he on here asking what to do his wife want wake him up for sex
2006-06-15 15:49:24 · answer #9 · answered by charlesjerrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can cheat on him, you must not care about him that much, get a divorce.
2006-06-15 15:45:15 · answer #10 · answered by chrystallec 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋