2006-06-15 15:55:20 · 16 answers · asked by karrybear_2000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A husband wants his wife healthy but if he truly loves you he will accept you as you are. Most women that have babies are the ones that are most disgusted with themselves than their husbands are.
2006-06-15 16:00:56 · answer #1 · answered by martielove1234 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really. After seeing both my daughters being born, I was so amazed and appreciative of what she went through, I really could not care if she carried extra baby weight. But I think if a woman just gives up and lets herself go after many months, he could politely suggest to her to lose a few pounds, for her own sake. Unless he's a fatty himself. Then all bets are off! My wife lost her weight on her own, no prompting from me at all. And she got prettier!
2006-06-15 23:01:45 · answer #2 · answered by michael g 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on the man and how selfish he is.most say they do not mind but yeah they do mind but love u enough 2 over look it.or they r idiots n do not think about what the hell u just went through n get mad because u r fat.not thinking its there damn fault 2 that u got pregnant in the first place.damn I wish one man just freaking one had 2 go through 40 weeks of not knowing what the hell was wrong with ur body,mood swings,swelling,heartburne,headaches,back aches,feet hurt,cannot find a damn thing 2 wear that does not look like a freaking moo moo oh and lets not forget the freaking labor n shoving out a watermelon through a hole the size of a straw.
2006-06-15 22:59:28 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am 25 weeks through my fourth pregnancy, when i got pregnant with my second daughter, i was a few pounds underwieght, like maybe 5...anyway, my husband said i looked better with a little extra wieght, said i had more curves, after she was born, i quit smoking and kept an extra 20 lbs...i was insecure, but hubby said i looked good, eventualy i lost that and gained some, and lost and gained, as i said this is my fourth pregnancy, n e way, we pregnant wemen can be very self concience about our wieght, during and after...if it takes more than a year to lose at least 1/2 of your pregnancy wieght, i think you have to stop calling it pregnancy fat though.
2006-06-15 23:15:38 · answer #4 · answered by Rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm still have 20 pounds left from my baby and my husband loves my body more now than he did before. They shouldn't look at you as fat anyway. if your husband truly loves you, he will see the body that went through miracle changes to grow and deliver his children.
2006-06-15 23:13:30 · answer #5 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i put 15 pounds duringmy 2nd pregnancy with my daughter Alexandra and now after 7months my body is back in shape and my husband didn't care about me putting on Little weight during those 9 months he even put on alittle but to look at us now we both have lost all the weight and are very healthily and happy about it.
2006-06-15 23:11:29 · answer #6 · answered by KIMBERLY S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband would not particually care but he would exercise with me and try to help me lose the wait and walk with me and things and by me lots of veggies and fruit which i love anyway lol and we would have alot of well you know sexerise rofl!
2006-06-15 23:00:08 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they shouldn't care but most men do! I think if your confident about your appearance people see you differently so stay positive and get a work out routine everything will be fine! good luck!
2006-06-15 23:05:09 · answer #8 · answered by carpenter2929 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i should hope so. women don't get pg and gain weight all on there own. you're married and spoke before god to love each other better or worse. if he has a problem then he needs to deal with it
2006-06-15 22:58:29 · answer #9 · answered by kansasgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT ME! A woman may be fat, but still be fabulous as her true beauty lies within.
2006-06-16 18:21:58 · answer #10 · answered by TheMusicMan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋