how can i get my husband to last longer in bed?

Question

he only lasts 10 mins at the most and then can't hold it any longer...is that a short amount of time?

Answer 1

10 mins is standard.

Answer 2

10 minutes? That's fairly long in my book. My wife and I are usually done in maybe 5 minutes, but we're both pretty "sensitive" I guess since that's about the time it takes us both to climax.

I would presume you want your husband to last longer since you don't obtain your orgasm within 10 minutes. That being the case, tell your husband to curb his one-eyed snake for a few minutes while he engages in some foreplay to stimulate you first to a high level of sensitivity and then let him at it for 10 minutes.

One draw back is that the foreplay may over heighten his sensitivity as well and then he'll be over in 5 minutes instead and you'll still not have achieved your orgasm.

You'll need to play by 'ear' and experiment with different things and different timing.

Answer 3

Foreplay and teasing him alot and when he gets close let off and then slowly start again. He may also need some cream or pills to make him go longer as well... Ask at a local adult book store about the creme and pills! Hope this helps some!

Answer 4

I am a sex therapist.10 minutes??!!How much longer do you expect 10hours?That's much more longer than 80%of ordinary male in the world!!You shouldn;t compare with your own orgasm,since woman orgasm always be reached longer than the man.
What you should do is,let your husband do much more longer unpenetrating foreplay to you,when u feel enough,then he can put his cock inside you,then both of u can come together.
Really,u should be grateful for your 10 minutes husband!Try not to put ring,ointment,since it's feared to have future side effect.
But if your husband has a good hearth health,you can try Viagra?

Answer 5

Try cock rings (sometimes referred to as c-rings), or stay-hard creme. You can find both at my website: http://www.cantonpassion.com

Do not leave a ring on for longer than 20-30 minutes. It works like a rubberband on the end of your finger. Good luck! :) I would suggest the ring first, the cream may hurt his feelings. Also, when he's done, have him perform oral, or use a toy, on you until you reach orgasm.

Answer 6

"Unload" his "gun" first before you have sex. He will surely lasts longer than 10 mins as you wish. When he gets used to this practice for a while, he will probably not have to unload his gun again before sex and still hold it as long as you wish.

Answer 7

You could try several things; when he feels like its about to get to the 'point of no return', he should let you know and both of you should immediately stop all motion and sound; or he could just withdraw and wait a couple of minutes; he could also try pinching his ear when he feels like cumming!

Answer 8

after 7 years of marriage 15 minutes is max for both.

Answer 9

Yes, as long he inserts a fresh & tighten hole, then he will last longer in bed.

Sorry to say that.... please don't complaint while your husband is still interested in lovemaking with you. Mostly husband nowadays will find excitement and fresh gals for enjoyment.

Answer 10

Actually 10 min.s of active sex is a long time. That's what foreplay is for.