2006-06-15 15:56:52 · 14 answers · asked by dontyouwishyounew 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i havent had sex with the guy. I just been talking to him alot. And i think i like him. But on the other hand i love my husband. what am i suppose to do i am so confussed?
2006-06-15 16:24:32 · update #1
I havent had sex with the other guy. We have just been talking. I love my husband but i think i am falling for the other. I still think that is cheating and i dont know what i need to do. I am so confussed.
2006-06-15 16:29:12 · update #2
If you are thinking of cheating then maybe your husband is not making you feel loved or desired. Could be you need to talk to him about your needs. Cheating is wrong and will always make things worse. Everything always comes out in the light. Could end your marriage.
2006-06-16 03:43:22 · answer #1 · answered by 360 secret 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because you are selfish, egotistical and have a low level of self esteem. Your word doesn't mean much and you don't feel it is "cheating". Sometimes the word love is not accepted the same way by two people. Some people feel there is extra power in making their mates feel bad so they use that as an abusive and humilliating tool. People who are cheating are thinking of their futures. They want instant gratification and don't much care where they get it.
2006-06-15 23:09:05 · answer #2 · answered by Good 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating isn't the way to go. I was with someone who cheated twice on me. Now I moved away from him and miss him so much. I now know that he really didn't love me. That is all it comes down to, LOVE. If you love someone you would never do that and that person should respect you and theirself enough not to put you or anyone else at a risk for anything.
2006-06-15 23:11:39 · answer #3 · answered by Heather_N_Rickey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many excuses a person gives as to why they cheat on their loved ones. I personally think a cheater is scum and they need to be taught to respect the other person. If I found out that my husband was cheating, he would be kicked to the curb. That's what happened to the first one.
2006-06-15 23:04:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cheat because you don't really know what love is at first, or because you feel frightened that if your bf or gf dumps you, you would be all left alone, and you feel that it's better to have a back-up.
2006-06-15 23:05:36 · answer #5 · answered by LAVELLE! :] 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, if I loved someone I wouldn't. Or in my case, when I found out she was cheating she told me it was because she wasn't in love with me.
2006-06-15 23:02:23 · answer #6 · answered by Frank R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love someone and are truley commited you wont cheat . Plain and simple!
2006-06-15 23:00:48 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they won't give you sex after asking over and over. and telling them your going to get it else where. and they still won't .... you. then you have a right to cheat!!!
2006-06-15 23:13:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell your husband.The right road is always the toughest.
2006-06-15 23:31:03 · answer #9 · answered by gucciandlouis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you don't know what real love is in the first place
2006-06-15 23:00:45 · answer #10 · answered by aspecialfred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋