2006-06-15 15:50:55 · 45 answers · asked by foodme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it bothers me, even when i'm pissed off at him
2006-06-15 15:52:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep it does me... I hate to see my husband sad and i feel really bad if i am the one that caused it... As women sometimes we say things in the heat of the moment or before we think and we speak things that we should not speak to our husbands. I have done this and the pain on his face is horrid and i feel so bad for what i have done and i ask and beg him to forgive me. Remember ladies you cannot take back words once you say them and you can speak pain to your husband! Men you can do the same too. We all need to learn to bite our toungues and only say what should be said and not everything we want to say or are thinking! Speak wisely and you will be better for it! Also women dont ever disrespect your husband or talk bad about him to anyone not even your closest friend. We are to esteem our husband and lift them up and be the loving wife and helpmate that we need to be!
2006-06-15 15:58:27 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone male or female has feelings and to go as far as to make a person feel so bad that they cry is just down right mean.
2006-06-15 15:53:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you kick your dog and if so wouldnt you feel upset when it starts to walk funny because you broke its leg .probly not just take it down to the pound and say you found a stray and it looks hurt. and make it some one elses problem, then while you are there get yourself another dog one that dosnt cry so easely cause you really dont want to change how you really do feel cause that might make you look and sound like you really do care.
2006-06-15 16:13:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally not.
Unless he's a "cryer" and does it all the time, if he's upset enough to cry, he's usually crying is out of self-pity more than anything else.
Learned that lesson the hard way.
2006-06-15 15:56:42 · answer #5 · answered by bad_girlfriend? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would bother me because I wouldn't want to hurt to the point that I'm crying by my spouse. If you love that person you should do everything in your power to treat the person with love and respect, not to hurt them.
2006-06-15 15:54:35 · answer #6 · answered by mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately! It would kill me to see my husband cry.. Of course, its because a woman knows that a man only cries when he is so terribly hurt.
2006-06-15 15:54:37 · answer #7 · answered by emfwave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has any feelings of her own then yes it should bother her, to a certain degree and it depends on what the argument was over. In our relationship we try not to talk down on one another, but it does happen on rare occasions and we always apologize.
2006-06-15 15:53:54 · answer #8 · answered by blondieblue98 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh I would be crushed if I hurt my husband to the point that he was crying.
2006-06-15 16:55:43 · answer #9 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it does. Any time you make someone cry, you should do a check to make sure that you didn't do it intentionally. If you did, then you are a mean person and you should apologize from your heart and don't ever do it again either.
2006-06-15 15:54:42 · answer #10 · answered by Dolphin lover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would depend on the situation now if he was crying because he did something wrong then no I would not feel bad.I do not try 2 hurt anyone ever and if it is important 2 someone I love then it is important 2 me.
2006-06-15 15:55:03 · answer #11 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋