Friends - September 2007

i have a crush on my best friendz boyfriend of 3years...

2007-09-21 03:15:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

He (or she) gets really bitchy about once a month, never leaves the toilet seat up and I saw a tampon string in the garbage the other day. I'm really starting to wonder...how do I bring this up? Should I even bother? Does it even matter? Or should I be pissed that he (she) lied to me about having a penis? This is so stressful and I don't know what to do!

2007-09-21 02:56:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

All my friends only comes to me when they need me and when they don't I don't even get the chance to say hi to them. God knows where they are now.

I feel more like a customer support technician rather than a friend to them... either that or a taxi driver

2007-09-21 02:52:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Recently I have doubted things my friend has said.
Around easter she said she'd helped her friend get pregnant by donating eggs. She loves babies and I know she really wants one.
About 5 weeks ago she text me to say her friend had had the baby after a problem at 21 weeks.
Since then she's contacted me several times to say give me updates.
The last week she said the condition had worsened. And today she said that they had to decide whether to keep the baby alive or not.
I decided to do some research on the net to see if there was anything I could find to give her some comfort or advice or anything really.
What I found was 2 photo graphs of a baby born at 21 weeks like this one was. Thing is the 2 photos are the 2 she sent me of the baby that she apparently helped to be conceived. It's not these photos were taking a year ago in a differnt country.

They are DEFINALTY the same photos.

What do I do???
Can't stop shaking I can't belive she would lie like this

2007-09-21 02:42:15 · 18 answers · asked by blondeicehockeyfan 2

Well i had this mate named amii last year... then the summer holidays went n now she hates me 4 some unknown reason? Why? What should i do? In class she either snubbs me or gives me load of sarcastic comments! ='[

2007-09-21 00:10:12 · 1 answers · asked by hunnii b 2

My friend and her bf just broke up, and since I used to be friend with him, I start talking to him since he's in my class. From the very begining, I made it clear that he better not start liking me again (He used to like me 4 yrs ago but I rejected him). And in just about 3 weeks later, he start saying that he began to like me even when I warned him not to.

I mean, I could care less about what he thinks, but my friend still haven't gotten over him...

So....how can I make him stop liking me without starting to avoid him and completely ignore him again (since he's in my class, I don't want to resort to that...) I want to stay friends with him but I just don't want him to see me as anything other than a friend...

2007-09-21 00:06:16 · 12 answers · asked by Cookie 2

2007-09-20 23:39:37 · 11 answers · asked by Eric Inri 6

i've had a lot of friends over the year, at the start i was with the cool kids then they just ditched me one day so i went into another group, it was all good until one day they told me they didn't like me. i have now got a great group of friends but i feel so insecure and cant trust many people.
how can i get their trust back and how can i become better so people accept me more?

2007-09-20 22:30:36 · 11 answers · asked by angelinad1993 2

It is a question of honour and fate?

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2007-09-20 22:18:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

my friend and i r fighting. im really mad at her since she's da 1 hu started da fight. she's a backstabber, weirdo(she laughs at everything)and a crybaby wannabe(she cried 4 breaking a ruler and i think she is trying to copy me original style). but i wanna be friends again. she already said sorry to me but since i was too angry that tym, i didn't forgive her yet. she also blamed my other friend for her mistake. but now we hav been fighting fo the past 2 weeks.now i think shes mad at me for not forgiving her. i ignore her and she igores me at well. wat will i do to save our friendship! help me!

2007-09-20 21:21:59 · 14 answers · asked by ♥chili JBP fanatic♥ 2

One of my friends is friends with my ex girlfriend and her friends and he always goes out with them and it really bugs me. I told him on several occasions that I dont like it and he said stuff like "I didnt know" or other excuses. I told him that if he wants to go out with them, thats fine, but I would like to be there. In the past we all went out together a lot, but now he just goes out with them alone.

I have had major problems with my ex in the past and he knows about all of it and he knows how sensitive I am about her. We both goto the same personal trainer and my personal trainer even told him what he does is not right , but he still does it. He was just telling me how they went out the other day and he tried to make it seem like an accident and he said my ex just showed up. I'm not jealous and I know they arent hooking up with each other, but it really bothers me and I dont know what to do about it. I do want to stop being friends with him, but he will still go out with them.

2007-09-20 19:53:20 · 8 answers · asked by Dr D 7

I've been friends with this girl for a few months. For the last three weeks or so, we've been on the phone for an hour or two a day. She tells me about her day, etc....but she has a boyfriend, and these are things that she should be talking to her boyfriend with.

I do care about what she has to say, and I've told her that she should spend more time with her bf, but she says that he's busy and doesn't have time for her.

I feel like I've got the crappy part of a bf's job. She nags on about how crappy her co-workers are. And I want to listen, but really these are things her bf should do.

How can I tell her that I want to listen, but calling me everyday for 2 hours isn't something I want to do....

That doesn't make me a jerk does it?

2007-09-20 19:23:26 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am wrong for something I did. A friend and I were down town and we were in a pawn shop looking for some bling to wear at school. There was a really nice watch that I was going to get for cheap. We left so I could go to the bank and withdraw $1,000. When we walked out the door I was so excited I screamed "Yeah *****!!!". We rounded a corner and there were 3 large black guys there and they asked which on of us said that. Calvin didn't see but I pointed at him. They started to beat him down and I ran away, got in my car and took off. I heard him screaming but I was afraid I might get hurt. I went down there about 2 hours later to get my watch and I didn't see my homeboy C-Note anywhere. I haven't heard from him. I keep trying to call his cell phone and there is no answer. 10 hours has gone by now and I am starting to get worried. What should I do? What if I don't see him in school tomarrow? I can't help but to feel partly responsible for this situation... :(

2007-09-20 19:07:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Its not a big deal but im curious as to others opinions. An associate of mine wakes me up on yahoo messenger at about 11 30 at night saying its very important. I told her it better be, because i clearly had my status set saying i was asleep. Her question was about her ex husbands new wife and if she was pretty or not. I said "this is what you disturbed me for?" She told me I wasnt being fair because she listened to my problems. I told her thats different, this is just you being immature. I mean they divorced a few years ago, who cares if he got married again, its not your problem, move on. So do you think i was too mean?

2007-09-20 19:05:13 · 9 answers · asked by Flying Spagetti Monster 7

I bought a gift for my special someone, accidentally, I saw my friend along the street. And it is her birthday, she was expecting that the gift that I was holding was for her. What should I do? Then, also my bf, came and he also expecting that the gift I am holding was for him. whom will I give the gift? and Why?

2007-09-20 18:28:22 · 5 answers · asked by cute-simple gal 1

I get along much better with guys than I do with girls. I like their company a lot. However, most of the guys I meet or hang out with are interested in dating, and a lot of the time I will really like them but won't feel we are compatible for whatever reason.

Usually they will say that they are okay with "being friends," but eventually it becomes clear that they want more and the friendship ends when they realize it's not going to happen.

I am single and want to meet someone but I only want to be with the "right" guy. I would love to have more friends but so far haven't figured out how to make platonic friendships work.

(I don't have anything against women except that they are so catty and always seem to put their boyfriends before their friends, and I find this really annoying since I don't have one.)

2007-09-20 18:09:22 · 1 answers · asked by quirkyfunnyone 1

2007-09-20 17:52:44 · 17 answers · asked by Audi 2

who is a secretary, and seems like he is taking great advantage of me coz I make lit more money than him...
Even before we decided to rent this place , he told me that he doesn't make a lot of money and somehow talked me into paying 55% of the rent. saying that I will get the larger master bedroom (Double master suite, both about same size). So I agreed based on sympathy.
Now, he consistently mentions that I since I make more money than him thus I should also pay a larger portion of electricity bill... and he always keeps the fan in his bathroom on and keeps the air conditioning so cold even when I was very sick.
What can I do in order to start equally split the rent again, and stop him from using my higher income as an excuse to pay more of our bills?
Every time we tried to talk, he would be like "good that we're talking", then he would start mentioning about my income and how difficult it is for him to pay bills (and he just got engaged and bought a new Tundra)... dunno wud to do

2007-09-20 17:39:07 · 15 answers · asked by whatisthis 3

A whole bunch of girls I know do, I'm just curious if guys have one too? Like, they have two points for dimples and three for a nice smile...

2007-09-20 17:16:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

and respect that?

Thank you for your answer! :)

Have a wonderful weekend! :)

2007-09-20 17:14:19 · 20 answers · asked by Moon :) 7

2007-09-20 15:42:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well my friend is always talking about how girls at out age (16)who have sex are skanks, well last week i lost my virginity and im so scared to tell her b/c i dont want her to be mad and think of me badly. What should i do?

2007-09-20 15:30:28 · 4 answers · asked by southern belle <3 4

So I went to go visit a friend today. I haven't seen him in months so it was a little awkward. Anyway, I walked into his house and his little brother (who was always such a rude little turd) said to me "You got fat!" really loud and it made my friend laugh. I got so embarassed and I changed the subject right away.

The whole time I was there I kept thinking about his brother saying "You got fat!" over & over again. It's brought my confidence so low and I've just been bummed through out the day.

Yeah I may have gained a few pounds but just the fact that I was put on blast by a little boy who's about 7 years old really affected me.

Should I let this get to me and take what he said seriously or be like F*** it?

2007-09-20 15:28:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

A so-called female friend of mine was telling me that she was engaged to be married and I said my congrats to her and she went on to say, "oh I'm the one getting married and you're still single..." I felt that was a very snarky, condescending comment which gave me the impression that she was better than me because she's in a relationship and I'm not. I looked at her with an appalled look on my face, and she said that she didn't mean it like that. Well how else was she supposed to mean it? In the future, if someone I know said something similar, how could I respond back? What snarky responses could I use? I would really like to shut people like that up with some zingers.

2007-09-20 15:18:43 · 26 answers · asked by mriley1996 2

2007-09-20 15:11:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK. I'm 14 and giggly. Whenever i'm at school and kids make stupid jokes, I just crack up. I keep thinking about the jokes, and them i have to try not no laugh in the middle of class, usually unsuccesfully.
For example, me and this kid had to make up a conversation in Spanish and while we were making up the conversation, he was making all these stupid jokes and I was just laughing and giggling and making a fool out of myself.
I think that I laugh more when I'm nervous, so possibly I'm nervous around this boy?
I don't know but will this kid think that I'm stupid for being so giggly at his jokes? Help! How can I stop laughing at every stupid joke any one makes????

2007-09-20 14:22:53 · 10 answers · asked by Annie 4

Help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-09-20 14:17:42 · 5 answers · asked by Brianna 1

wat should i say to her?

2007-09-20 14:16:29 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a transfer student, and lucky me the only seat for me in Science was with the 65 students.
This one kid was copying my work while I was doing it and I didn't notice than his friend was like HOW'D YOU DO THAT? He pointed at me, and I just copied it from her.
This other sits down next to me, and just starts copying my work. Without even asking! I'm like did you EVEN ask? And she walks off to her friends like ohh she think she smart.
I don't think it's right that I work hard than these kids pass just because they come and copy off my paper. And when I complain, they complain. I mean at age 14-17 can't you tell latitude from longitude. If not we had 2-3 weeks to work on it should of helped.
What should I do >:[.

2007-09-20 14:16:27 · 16 answers · asked by xoxokissesx3 3

ok so me and my friends got really obsessed about the signs to know who your soulmate is (IF they're in our school).i need YOU to help me think of 3 signs. i think 3 signs would be better that 1 common sign.if u want to know if we have uniform, my school has a dresscode which is white shirt,black pants & black/white/or maroon sweater (optional).okie i'll be more than glad to hear your suggestions =]

2007-09-20 13:35:35 · 2 answers · asked by einjhell gurl 2